🕰️ THROWBACK THOUGHT: Modern Tech vs. Simple Living

🕰️ THROWBACK THOUGHT: Modern Tech vs. Simple Living

I was sitting here thinking about how much my business depends on my phone—especially on days when my chronic symptoms keep me on the couch. It’s a literal lifesaver for staying connected! 📱💪

But it got me wondering about the "simpler" days...

I am just curious: Do you think childhood was better without phones, Facebook, and tablets? 🤔
Whether you are a mumprenur balancing toddlers and teams, a dadpreneur teaching your kids about grit, or a disabled entrepreneur mastering the art of the pivot—we all remember a different pace of life.

While we use these tools to improve our lives and grow our direct sales communities today, do you think we lost some of that childhood magic along the way? Or does the connectivity we have now make life better for families and those managing chronic conditions?

Drop a "YES" or "NO" below and tell me your favorite tech-free childhood memory! 👇

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A Note From Ben:

​My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

  • My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.
  • "Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

​You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

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A Note From Ben:

​My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

  • My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.
  • "Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

​You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

It all starts within

"It all starts within. When you genuinely love, value, and nurture yourself, that powerful energy radiates outward, attracting and building the kind of love life you truly deserve. It's not selfish; it's foundational. As this beautiful image reminds us: 'The more you love yourself, the better your love life will be.' Pour into your own cup first! ❤️"

A Note From Ben:

​My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

  • My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.
  • "Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

​You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

Needs a target

Every arrow needs a target, and every life needs consistent goals. As this powerful message reminds us, without a clear direction and unwavering objectives, it's easy to drift. Let your ambitions be your compass, guiding you towards a life lived with purpose and consistency. What's the consistent goal you're focused on today?

A Note From Ben:

​My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

  • My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.
  • "Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

​You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

Beyond the Symptoms: Finding My Unshakeable Persistence in Health, Business, and Life

Beyond the Symptoms: Finding My Unshakeable Persistence in Health, Business, and Life

"Think and Grow Rich" isn't just a book; it's a blueprint for life mastery. It's filled with principles that can transform dreams into reality. But what happens when your "desire" for health or financial freedom clashes daily with a body that feels like it's actively sabotaging you? What does "persistence" look like when simply getting out of bed feels like climbing Mount Everest?

As someone living with a chronic condition for years – navigating the unpredictable gauntlet of symptoms, the endless pursuit of wellness, and the rollercoaster of network marketing – Chapter 9, "Persistence," has resonated with me on a profoundly personal level. Napoleon Hill defines persistence as "the sustained effort necessary to induce faith." For me, it's been the unwavering, sometimes painful, daily choice to keep moving forward, even when every fiber of my being screams to stop.

The Unseen Marathon: Persistence in My Health Journey

Hill's emphasis on "definiteness of purpose" and "desire" strikes a unique chord when you're chronically ill. My purpose is often to achieve a baseline of comfort, to reduce pain, to have enough energy to participate in life. My desire is for a body that cooperates, even if just a little. This isn't a destination; it's an ongoing, unseen marathon.

For years, my persistence has been honed in the quiet battlefields of doctor's offices, physical therapy sessions, and restrictive dietary changes. It’s taking your medication even when you doubt its efficacy, pushing through a modified exercise routine despite pain, or sticking to a restrictive diet day in and day out, hoping for an incremental improvement. It's dealing with setbacks – a new flare-up, a failed treatment, the crushing fatigue that wipes out carefully made plans – and finding the resolve to start again tomorrow.

This isn't the glamorous persistence of an entrepreneur closing a multi-million dollar deal. This is the quiet, fierce persistence of survival and the determined pursuit of a better quality of life. It’s about fostering an unwavering belief in a future where I feel better, even when the present feels overwhelming. It’s learning to adapt, to rest when needed, and to redefine what "progress" looks like on any given day. Sometimes, persistence is just choosing not to give up on yourself.

The Entrepreneurial Gauntlet: Network Marketing with Chronic Conditions

Network marketing, by its very nature, demands a robust form of persistence. Rejection, inconsistent results, the need for constant communication and team building – it's a field that tests your mettle. Now, add unpredictable flare-ups, brain fog, chronic pain, and limited physical energy into that mix.

I quickly learned that my approach to persistence in business had to be different from my able-bodied peers. I couldn't always match their intensity, their long hours, or their travel schedules. My "definite plans" often had to include contingency plans for bad health days.

My persistence manifested as:

*   **Consistency over Intensity:** Instead of aiming for ten calls a day, I'd commit to two high-quality, focused interactions. Even on my worst days, I'd send one valuable email or connect with one person. It wasn't about heroic sprints, but about showing up *every single day* in whatever capacity I could manage.

*   **Leveraging Technology:** Remote work and online platforms became my allies. This allowed me to build my business from home, conserving precious energy.

*   **Building a Supportive Team:** Surrounding myself with understanding mentors and team members who believed in my potential, even when my energy fluctuated, was crucial. Their belief fueled my own.

*   **Redefining Success Metrics:** Some days, success wasn't about signing a new person, but simply about following up with existing contacts despite a migraine. It was about moving the needle forward, even if only by a millimeter.

This taught me that persistence isn't just about brute force; it's about intelligent, adaptable, and self-compassionate action. It's about finding *your* rhythm and sticking to it, even when the world tells you to push harder than your body allows.

Cultivating Your Own Persistence Toolkit

So, how can you cultivate this unshakeable persistence, especially when life throws unique challenges your way?

1.  **Revisit Your "Definiteness of Purpose" (Your "Why"):** Why are you doing what you're doing? Is it for your family, your future self, to inspire others, to reclaim your health? Write it down, look at it daily. On the days when motivation is scarce, this purpose will be your fuel.

2.  **Break It Down (Micro-Persistence):** When a monumental task feels impossible, break it into the smallest possible increment. Instead of "clean the house," it's "wipe one counter." Instead of "build my business empire," it's "send one follow-up message." Small, consistent actions build momentum and prevent overwhelm.

3.  **Celebrate Small Wins:** Acknowledging tiny victories is crucial for maintaining morale, especially when progress feels slow. Did you manage to stick to your meal plan today? Did you make that one phone call? Pat yourself on the back!

4.  **Embrace Adaptability & Self-Compassion:** Persistence isn't about being rigid; it's about being relentlessly adaptable. If your original plan isn't working or your body isn't cooperating, find another way. Give yourself grace. Rest when you need to, and don't mistake self-care for giving up.

5.  **Build a Supportive Community:** Whether it's online forums, local support groups, or a trusted mentor, having people who understand your unique challenges can make all the difference. Their encouragement can be the flicker of hope you need on a dark day.

Conclusion: Your Unseen Strength

Chapter 9 of "Think and Grow Rich" is a powerful reminder that persistence is the bridge between desire and achievement. For those of us living with chronic conditions, it's often more than a business principle; it's a life principle. It's about showing up, even when you’re utterly exhausted. It’s about believing in your path, even when the fog rolls in. It’s about building a life of purpose, one persistent step at a time.

Your chronic condition doesn't define your capacity for persistence; in many ways, it strengthens it. You've been honing this superpower in countless unseen battles. Now, it's time to fully own that strength and apply it to every dream you dare to chase.

**What's one small act of persistence you can commit to today, even if it feels tiny? Share it in the comments below!**

A Note From Ben:

​My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

  • My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.
  • "Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

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