Neglect Is A Slow Poison

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Neglect is often the slow poison in a relationship. The wound it causes cannot be mended by begging to be heard and acknowledged. To do so will only lead to further harm of your worth. It is very painful to release what you had hoped for, but letting go of someone who overlooks what they have in you is a good investment for your future.Dodinsky

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Someone To Be Stronger With You

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that is such a powerful truth

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In a relationship, you need somebody who’s going to call you out, not somebody who’s going to let everything slide. You need somebody who doesn’t want to live without you, but can. Not somebody that is dependent, but somebody who is stronger with you. A relationship is two people, NOT ONE. — Unknown

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I Don’t Want To Forget Me Anymore

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I grieved today for the times I have loved so much that I forgot about myself and my own needs. I grieved today for giving so much and forgetting that I should keep a little bit back just for me. I grieved today for getting so caught up in helping others that I overlooked I needed a little help as well. I grieved today for thinking I could just do it all, denying that I also have my limits. And sometimes having limitations is a holy thing. I just wanna love people in a way that makes me feel loved too. I don’t want to forget myself anymore. —  S.C. Lourie

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the sixth sense allows us to communicate when we are highly emotional

the sixth sense allows us to communicate when we are highly emotional using all the emotions from the positive sources, yet when we have to remove those negative emotions which may be inside our own minds, we need to conquer our fears which are only ghosts and unable to hurt us. having the confidence that we can succeed in our chosen company.

recently I attended a job interview for a new position which is an amusement park, going into the interview having the knowledge that own customer service skills were a lot yet there was so much more experience with such as well. at the interview I projected own confidence and was saying that could do the job in the days afterward. later that week finding out that had got the position which was seeking at that time.

during the interview there was a point where had just finished answering a question from the interviewer and turned around asking own question. being totally unaware that the next part of the interview was are their any questions that you have. I am now seeing that our brains were in sync and that we were communicating at the same level when it came to own turn to ask questions although I was unaware it had been transmitted to own subconscious mind and I asked a question about wearing skins which know that need to wear when I am cold or have muscle issues. which leaves myself being unable to function with spasms.

had it not been that own brain was running from the self talk had been doing and confident of being able to do the role which was being interviewed for then that question may have been left alone. yet I am now understanding that own brain was using the sixth sense when was able to get the number of fingers infront of own face whist being blindfolded. It was being transmitted and I managed to pick up on those thoughts despite being unaware of such.

thank you to Michael Dlouhy, Ken Klemm, Willena Flewelling and Brian Redding for your inspiration guidance and support. To Shelly Bishop thank you for introducing me to mentoring for free, thank you to the wonderful amazing participents of the mental cleanse whos lesson’s and comments inspire me and give so much valuable insight.

thank you to my own family who have taught many invaluable lessons, to own inlaws David and Raewyn for your own support, love, guidance and being willing to assist as you can, thank you to Matt and Kym for your own love as own brother and sister inlaw. thank you to own grandparents for your own love which you gave as a child, a big thank you to Jenny Harper soon to be Drake for your ongoing love, support, encouragement, hugs, being there no matter what even when its rough. you are the best beautiful and I love you for who you are as a person.

wishing everyone abundant success, a life full of love, a huge hug and abundant health

Ben Drake

Mona Vale Sydney NSW Australia

Wishing you the best in health and love and big hugs

Jenny and Ben

This lesson plan was inspired by chapter 14 the sixth sense from think and grow rich the 30 day mental cleanse.

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had it not been for getting involved in network marketing

OMGhad it not been for getting involved in network marketing I am unsure where would be today, yet I do suspect that own health would be a lot worse than what it was in 2007.
when started in network marketing in 2007 own health was poor that had dislocated my knee cap 4 times, along with a curved lower back which left me with limited abilities. yet was also unable to work for extended periods of time. owing to the health issues which had come up.

when found network marketing for the 2nd time I started a journey to learn more about health and to work on improving own health beyond what was currently doing.

In 2006 I was told either I lose weight or I’d be up for a gastric bypass or even diabetes, so I went to the gym and met my wonderful amazing exercise physioiglist Dr Mike and he assisted starting to lose weight and get health under control by setting up a exercise program which would assist to strengthen own weak muscles and build strength.

since returning to the gym in 2006 own knee caps have remained in place. what kept me going as a person was knowing that it was being done for own family, own wife and kids. what wanted was to be able to do whatever wanted with own family rather than having to sit around on the side and watch them enjoy what they were doing. in the years prior to network marketing I’d be out there enjoying theme parks occasionally and doing a little travel locally around Australia.

then when it got to the stage where was struggling to keep a role I stopped going. I got scared of being worse and so what happened was that got worse, the power of own thoughts is such a powerful tool we all need to remember.

this is own journey and I am going to say right now that what am saying is in no way to be considered medical advice.

when started in network marketing with own former company I was wearing 3 to 4 xl clothes and 112 / 117 cm pants, I had to leave the jacket of suit wide open as I was unable to do such up. the photo on the right is from start with network marketing when was just returning to such. all I wanted to do was lose weight and believed could do such, I had seen the products work before and knew they worked so went out there and lost the weight. That took around 15 months to achieve

Ben with sponsor in 2007

during that period I believed that I would be a medium clothes and that took those 15 months to achieve. that went on to lose around 35 kilos by new years eve 2008 / 2009. From there toning up to go from around 116 kilos to 71 kilos in the end through toning up also and just maintaining own weight and health.

had it not been for the belief within the products and knowing they would work well I would barely be where I am today. I am unsure about even having the confidence to find the lovely Jenny Harper (soon to be Drake), nor would of left where was at that time.

starting on that journey lead me to some of the most wonderful giving loving people who could ever ask to meet, my amazing mentor and friend Ken Klemm and the amazing Michael Dlouhy who have both been such inspiration, guidance and love. they are part of a team who called mentoring for free who assist people to build their business to produce a income through teaching those people skills they are needing.

when meet mentoring for free I was shattered, yes I had lost all of own weight yet there was still a number of pieces of own life that needed to be put back together. I am unsure weather would have been able to of done such without meeting such, I am going to thank Shelly Bishop for introducing me to mentoring for free and their free ebook success in 10 steps. when first joined I was a shell of what had been before that had let a number of events take its toll upon me as a person. from listening to destructive influences and being unable to realize those people where bad news personally.

whist a number of others were aware of such I didn’t have that education at that point to see that they were poor influences. it has taken a few years to even realize who are those constructive influences after a number of questionable influences in the past. yet I was able to realize that some of them were just the wrong people to be around, those lessons did cause a bit of pain and grief. yet they were needing to be learnt or there would be little chance I’d be the person I am today for such.

I forgive those people for their games and what they did, for being unwilling to understand and even running own name through the mud. IMG_4749Bit is their issue and I have seen it happen all to many times. that’s just a piece of what brought me to network marketing and the current company. yet what drove me to succeed and keep on going during those rough times. well before even starting in network marketing I had been seeking what truly wanted within own life, that was to get married and settle down, yet also being able to do whatever wanted with kids and having the best health.

engagment party in New Zealand May 2014

over the years I introduced myself to and met countless women and all in all they were the wrong women. some were lets say the wrong person for me personally that it wouldn’t even work out at all we were just so unsuited to each other. after a number of relationships and one went bust I met Jenny 3 months later knowing full well that the next woman met would be own wife. we met got to know each other, a month later we were together. that Christmas 2012 I was unable to escort Jenny to New Zealand yet met her parents through skype.

having the opportunity to go again in April 2013 of the following year and I took such and ran with that. from there I was already well aware of Jenny being what I was looking for in own life, it was just having the setting that was looking for to propose to Jenny which I did in June 2013, Jenny said yes. a few days later we were approved to move into our own place together. we then moved in and its now been the longest relationship for either of us. having seen Jenny grow and blossom as a person from what was when first met to now has been fantastic.

lets say had it not been for mentoring for free and being educated then I may of ended up in a worse situation with a relationship and would not of been ready for such.

a big thank to the amazing mentors Ken Klemm, Michael Dlouhy and Willena Flewelling who have guided me on this road. Also thank you to shelly bishop for introducing me to mentoring for free.

Wishing you the best in health and love and big hugs

Jenny and Ben

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