Our subconscious mind feeds off what we tell ourselves most, 
when it takes on others thoughts or spoken words as truth it can bring about destruction. We have to program our minds with the “I am able to do this attitude” and be able to rise above those who say this is unable to be done are you sure. At the same time we need to be passionate about what we believe in.
Within own life I have had to rise above others conditioning and opinions a number of times. From being told by a medical professional 
that I was unable to run to running and going on to being able to run as part of own health routine. Its taken 6 years now to feel strong enough to be able to do such, when we say to ourselves we are able to do such and feed such into our own mind regularly it will become reality. Just as it is that I am saying personally that I am going to be a father. Its taken years to realize those lessons which had to learn about being a wonderful father. Also to feel that I am ready to be that father to own kids.
Its time to stop being scared of hearing about such from someone who really is unable to understand the motivation behind such.
Its time to be that husband and father and creating that husband / father to own kids who is able to do so much. For years I was upset and frustrated owing to being unable to work, until realized that had the greatest opportunity right here that could be the stay at home parent with own kids. That could spend all the time needed with those kids and be stable father influence within their own lives.
At that same time I am able to keep up my own health and teach my own kids to live a better healthier life than what knew growing up. Yet also about helping others to become healthier as well, by just keeping on going and being the healthiest I am able to be. That journey which started 6 years ago was one that was well worth it in the end.
A huge thank You to everyone who has been with me on the journey to find that Ben who is able to do so many areas, the guy who is able to make amazing friends and be an outstanding friend to others. Who is healthy and has such an amazing life, he is out there helping others as he always has been.
A special thank You to Michael and Linda Dlouhy for their own inspiration, guidance, love and support. To Ken Klemm for Your ongoing guidance love and support as well, to Brian Redding for You input and being willing to guide me, to my ever amazing wonderful loving beautiful fantastic wife and mother of own kids Jenny Drake thank You for being such a wonderful life partner and wife. You husband for life,
Wishing You all a wonderful day,
I love You all,
Your friend and mentor,
Ben Drake
West Ryde NSW Australia
