Month: December 2013
Chapter 7 organized Planning lesson
Every area of our lives needs a plan, weather it’s our dream to get married and have our own kids. This has been own dream since was a child, to get married and have own kids; to have own family and to raise that family of own. Jenny and myself have been talking recently a lot about such, yet also that I will be the one who has the kids at home during the week and taking care of them. Taking them to their activities etc. a dream come true.
Yet in order to make that dream come true it means ensuring the income is sufficient that can work from home around the kids. That means planning the business and planning own wedding, making sure that we know what we need for such. Before meeting Jenny I had written down what was looking for in someone. Part of the requirements were great hugger, supportive, understands own abilities, loving and supportive.
I meet Jenny after a few months of reading those requirements regularly and I had amended such a number of times. I meet her after bouncing back on own feet and amending own requirements and just kept on going. After meeting Jenny near the beach I knew she was what was looking for, the rest is history. Now we are in the process of planning our own wedding a day which has been own dream for many years now.
A persons wedding is something where you need to plan every aspect as Michael Dlouhy has said his daughter Amanda took 4 years to plan her own. A wedding will go well with a plan and both people participating in such, yet when people fail to offer their opinion or thoughts it turns out to be frustrating. Yes it can get frustrating from everyone else’s input oh I believe you need to do this, you need to do that. However a wedding is your own special day and it’s your plan.
As for our special day I can see a beautiful sunny day on a local northern headland which is high and overlooks the ocean on two sides, with a light breeze blowing, Jenny looking outstanding and healthy myself looking outstanding and healthy too. As we say our vowels on the headland and then take a few photos at the headland before heading off for more photos on the beach nearby and close to where we live; taking those photos before heading off in the limo to the reception at the local rugby leagues club.
We are in the process of implementing that plan and making such into a wonderful day, the day we both remember for years to come.
Thank you to my amazing mentor Ken Klemm for your amazing guidance, love, support and encouragement. To the amazing Michael Dlouhy and Willena Flewelling thank you also for your love guidance, support and encouragement. For believing in me until I was able to believe within myself.
To the mental cleanse participants thank you for your inspiring lessons every week. Most of all thank you to the fantastic, beautiful, wonderful, amazing Jenny for your love, guidance, support and help when needed it most.
Wishing you abundant health, life, love and a huge hug
Benjamin Mathew Drake
Mona Vale Sydney NSW Australia
Wishing you the best in health and love and big hugs
Jenny and Ben
This lesson plan was inspired by chapter from think and grow rich the 30 day mental cleanse.
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Bob Proctor on Resistance
A wonderful article courtesy of Lee Jenkins from Bob Proctor on resistance, thank you to Bob for such a wonderful lesson on resistance and what happens when you attempt to change a part of your own life. Those who are too scared to change start coming up with all the reasons for being unable to do such.
I thought you might enjoy this article from
Bob Proctor
What have you heard about resistance?
I have a piece of literature I love - It was written by the late
William Penn Patrick in approximately 1970. Enjoy.
"No person, ideal or institution becomes great until Great
Resistance has been encountered. Greatness cannot be achieved until
this concept is understood."
Unfortunately, the average person is ignorant of this rule to
achievement. Mr. and Miss Average, in their ignorance, are fearful
and reluctant to encounter even slight resistance. They don't
want to make waves or be criticized and they incorrectly
feel that criticism will hold them back and prevent their happiness
from being realized. In truth, the opposite is the case.
Take note: when we begin to change our jobs, we are first given
resistance by our loved ones, for they fear change because change
means facing the unknown! When we begin to make rapid achievement
or commitment to rapid progress, we have road blocks thrown up by
our friends and relations. They begin to resist by negative
comments and actions which are devices to cause you to maintain the
'status quo'.
Now, if you are to achieve great progress, you must prevail against
those closest to you; this is difficult and requires courage
because you desire to please and not hurt those you love. The
truth is that great harm befalls your loved ones when you fail
to be yourself and do your thing. This is so, because you lose
your enthusiasm for life, your growth process stops and your
self-esteem diminishes.
Those negatives are revered when you stand your ground; and when
you have prevailed, your loved ones gain a new and higher respect
for you. History records countless events which prove the point.
For an example, the greatest of all men overcame the most severe
form of resistance and in so doing gave birth to Christianity.
Had Jesus Christ run from His opposition, we would not know His
name today, nor would we have available for our use those great and
wonderful truths He brought forth for us so that humanity could
find their individual greatness.
Furthermore, Christianity met "its" greatest resistance
in Rome. Thousands of Christians were crucified in Rome.
This resistance was met and in so doing, gave life to the force of
Christianity, and Rome became the center of all Christianity - now,
and for the past 1700 years, Rome has remained the very center of
the Christian world.
Let these great lessons of the past stay in our mind as a beacon in
our personal and corporate future. Let us understand and be
grateful that our ideas have proven worthy of tremendous
resistance. Today, all over the world, great forces have risen to
resist our growth. These forces fear us for what we represent and
they are attempting to destroy us and our dreams. Our understanding
of this phenomenon and our strength of character and our commitment
to our way of life is prevailing over these forces which have risen
up. We are fortunate to have such great resistance. This resistance is
evidence of our greatness and it provides us with the energy to
prevail, to conquer and to dominate. These next few short years
will record a brilliant history and establish a permanent place for
our way of life - which is Freedom to be and to work out our dreams
for a great world, for ourselves, for children and all humankind.
Understand our battle and be glorified that you are a part of the
making of history. The work you do today in the defense of our way
will provide new freedom and hope for millions yet to come. Stand
tall in the face of our enemy...your resolution and commitment will
seize his heart with fear and he will fade into oblivion. AND THAT
IS THE LAW OF LIFE."
To your success,
Bob Proctor
From Lee Jenkins
Wishing you the best in health and love and big hugs
Jenny and Ben
Mentors with a servants heart
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