Our True Selves
Our true self is the person who we are around those we are closest too. Over the years we get a lot of other peoples beliefs forced upon us which can create a false self; someone who we are not as a person. It then can create a conflict, for many years there was a personal conflict with many aspects of upbringing and who was as a person.
For years I was around those wrong people who attempted to fit a square into a round hole. Does that work????, they are two different shapes. In todays world there are so many different aspects to our lives and we have others who will ridicule our actions and attempt to get us to conform to their wishes as a person.
However when you are around someone who you can be yourself with. Then you can sit back and joke with that person and they will take it normally.
That is the best part when we can truly be ourselves and really be unscarred about the consequences of such actions. Being able to even be who we are as a person.
Throughout life though we do see people who will force their own standards and beliefs on us as a person either they regret something and are attempting to live their life out through yourself. They can even be projecting a fear which they have onto you as a person. Also they can believe they are the expert and always right. So no matter what happens they expect that they are correct. There are many people who I have met like such, they will slam you through the mud for speaking up.
Someone who know enjoys screaming at people for doing their affirmations and self talk. Its just who they are so around them you are on egg shells, you are unable to be yourself at all. Sometimes you can hanging out with someone cutting it up and yourself, just who you are and othertimes its frustrating. It just depends on the company you are keeping, the ones who shun you for who you are will push you away from your true self. They expect something different from you, it is your own job to be able to say no I am this person weather they like it or not.
This is how I will do such, sure you have to be open to other peoples solutions and input. However that is when its called for. When a person continually puts someone down and will not allow them to make any mistakes then it pushes that person away from their true self. As they start to then believe everyone has to be perfect all the time. Heck that is a tall order, personally I realise that don’t have strong spelling. It’s a weakness, when was young spelling of the word of was ov. That’s just what it was.
Being ourselves means acknowledging our weaknesses and working on them, saying I need help. Yet also being able to be that person we were born as. That is what our true self is, sometimes we may be unable to understand to start with yet as we grow up we know its what it is. So what should spelling be a weakness I am sure there are other areas where you are stronger than othrs. Dropping letters that’s cool, its what happens.
Had it not been for my wonderful mentors Michael Dlouhy, Willena Flewelling and Ken Klemm I would of continued on the path which was on. That was that I was not normal, heck in school I was a very poor student basic maths, English and more were poor subjects. I had to learn that its ok just being myself and to love who I was the poor spelling and everything. Its just part of who I am as a person and I love it. Its been years since have been able to do such.
Wishing you all a wonderful day, the best of love health and a huge hug
Jenny and Ben
Wishing you the best in health and love and big hugs
Jenny and Ben
Mentors with a servants heart
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