Month: March 2011

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A very interesting question asking do you respect that person or care about them when you show them disrespect telling them to shut up, not allowing them to say anything by shunning them for even speaking up. These people think they know everything, they think they are the smartest people in the world, believing that they can say what they want and then expecting those around them will accept their forced opinion; and what they have to say. The definition of respect is interesting it says both positive feeling for a person of other entity (such as nation or religion). Hmm how interesting so disrespect is the opposite wether it is for yourself, another person, religion or nation.

Do they care? Yes, they care, however they do not realise what they are doing is pushing the people who love them most; and that they love too they are pushing away the love, which that person has for them. The person who is on the receiving end of such gets to the point where they say, I love you but I do not like you or what you are doing. These people think that they are so smart, however these people destroy their own and others lives, by telling the people them that they are worthless, telling them to shut up, now allowing them to have an opinion or say no. That what they know is right no matter what even. It can often be my way or the highway when relating with these people, these people show others little or no love at all.

They make people feel belittled and as if they have no right to the feelings, they have. However, these people at the same time think they are able to say; and do whatever they please; and essentially treat people like rubbish. They expect that they can get away with not respecting someone and demanding they be respected as a person. Respect must be earned it cannot be forced, you cannot force someone to love you and you cannot force someone to respect you. You cannot make someone do something that they do not want to do at all. However, these people tend to destroy their own and others lives unfortunately, there are good people out there whose lives that are destroyed; through another person’s lack of respect for them as a person.

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