That is a very powerful question, I am not going to be able to answer it fully. It is not easy to answer this question fully, love put simply is caring for someone or something that you want to see them happy. Now the opposite of love is Jealousy and Indifference. Indifference is what breads jealousy. How well Indifference is the act of not caring, essentially it is not giving a stuff about what happens or caring about the other persons feelings, not caring if you reply to a message or email which may have been important to that person.
Having grown up in a house where there was more indifference then love makes it very hard. When someone is not bothered caring enough about the presentation of the house, not bothered about their own appearance or simular it shows. They let chores slip, oh someone else will do it. That’s Ron’s job (known as later on), the let the garden overgrow with weeds, they let the bin get crammed full and do not care to take it out, they do not care about making noise when others are busy or asleep. Essentially they do not give a stuff about anyone else, hmm a very powerful thought. How does this bread jealousy, well lets see a person who is indifferent doesn’t care to see others happy and when that person is happy they act in ways to sabotage and are jealous of that persons happiness and success.
For years I have seen so much indifference that people just do not worry about hurting anyone else. They do not simply care what happens or who they hurt. It is not easy. Now love is simply when you care enough for someone or something that it means a lot to you. That you take care of it and nurture it, you do not let the weeds get in the way, sometimes you have to prioritize what needs to be done and what does not need to be done. Other times you need to just do something small and that’s enough to make the task done. Yet when others do not worry about such when someone else has done something then it literally suggests that there is only indifference and not love.
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