Abraham Lincoln was unsuccessful until he met the only woman who he truly did love. Now behind every successful man or woman happens to be a truly loving partner who accepts supports and loves them as a person. No matter what the person looks like, no matter what they love them. This person cares about them deeply and they are special to that person, when they do truly love someone and are accepted and loved for who they are then the person can go on to achieve many things. People may go through life searching for that person who desires them all their lives. Others will find that person. When you find someone who loves you for you and desires you no matter what you look like it is an amazing experience.
A lot of people will literally be crying out through the lack of love and appreciation that they receive for who they are as a person. Each person needs to feel loved, respected and supported. Even appreciated for who they are as a person. When you cannot do such then you will go downhill, you will go into one of a number of different states. Yet when you are appreciated then you will gradually come away from those states. It will take work and encouragement, yet it can be done. When a woman is not feeling loved or supported she goes out there and does things for everyone looking for that love and support. That she is starved of, however when a man is man is deprived of love and support he may start overwork and trying to be more successful. He is literally crying out for the attention which he is starved of as is the woman.
Now it takes support and encouragement to draw someone out of these states, you have to appreciate believe and trust in them. You have to show them that you appreciate them and want them there, giving them the thing that they are missing. It’s about recognising what the person is missing, even having the guts to ask that person and listening to what they are saying. Remember that behind that successful person is someone who truly does love them and they truly love that person. Sometimes you have to say to the person who you love, tell me what are your desires what do you really want from life and a partner. You are asking how can I love you best and what is it you truly want. You see when you fore fill other people’s needs it often fore fills your own needs too, when the person who you love is feeling loved they are capable of doing anything they want in life. This person will go on to to be a great big success, however when they do not have such from a loving partner, then their lives are in tatters. You can always tell when someone loves themselves and when someone does not. You can also tell when someone is in love and loved by that person too.
A person who loves themselves will dress differently and even have a healthy appearance, whereas someone who does not tends to not care about their appearance. The person who does not love themselves can tend to dress poorly and be sloppy in appearance. They may have weight to lose also, now the person who does love themselves will dress tidy and will be comfortable who they are as a person. They are people who take care of their health as best as they can no matter what, they do what they can. The person who loves themselves draws people to them, where as the person who does not love themselves will tend to push others away. They are crying out for love and are starved of such. I have seen both sides of this coin in my own life, there are people who I care about and they do not care about their health, others who do care about their health and want to keep themselves as fit as possible.
People have many destructive behaviours when they are unloved and lack of love is a two way street. You may hear blame from someone however they do not realise they were as much to blame as the other person. When a relationship breaks down its because the person quite often stoped caring about things, they stopped caring about the other person, even the family. It’s hard when this happens. What is best is to show that person who you care about that you love them and truly care about them no matter what may happen.
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