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⚡ You Can't Control Everything, But You CAN Control This ⚡

As a network marketer living with chronic conditions, my daily plan can get hijacked. 😅

I can't control my pain levels.
I can't control my fatigue or brain fog.
I can't control when I'll have a 'good' day or a 'bad' day.

If I focused on what I can't control, I'd give up.

Instead, I live by this quote:
> "Forget what you can't control and focus on what you can control: your attitude, your faith, and your perspective. Choose to make the best of every situation that comes your way."

This is the secret weapon for anyone working to become a better version of themselves.
* Your Attitude: You can't control a prospect ghosting you. You can control your positive attitude in following up with the next person.
* Your Faith: You can't control other people's opinions. You can control your unshakeable faith in your mission and your 'why'.
* Your Perspective: You can't control a flare-up that cancels your plans. You can control your perspective and see it as forced rest to come back stronger.
This mindset is for...
* The #Mumpreneur who just had a kid spill juice on their laptop. 💻
* The #Dadpreneur trying to build a business between school runs. 🏃‍♂️
* The #NetworkMarketer who just got a 'no'.
* My fellow #DisabledEntrepreneurs who show up even when it's hard. 💪

Stop wasting energy on what's outside your circle. Bring your focus back to the one thing you have 100% control over: YOU.

That is how you transform. That is how you win.

What’s ONE thing you are choosing to focus on today that you CAN control? Let me know in the comments! 👇

A Note From Ben:

My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.

"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

Who would like to get their health or weight under control?

18/11/2025

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| Mentor Ben Drake

| 6:32 pm

❤️😃 I'm just curious... who out there is ready to take control of their health or weight? If you're looking to make a positive change, comment below or send me a DM!

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About the Author and Our Supporters

Author: Benjamin "Ben" Mathew Drake of Coach Freedom and Friends

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🌟 My Limitations Became My Greatest Strength 🌟

18/11/2025

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🌟 My Limitations Became My Greatest Strength 🌟

Living with a chronic condition, I thought the "entrepreneurial dream" wasn't for me. I was wrong.

My health challenges forced me to find a smarter way to build a life, not a harder way. I needed flexibility, a supportive community, and a mission I believed in.
That's when I found this. ❤️😀👪
We're focused on helping families live better lives through powerful education and real teamwork. Our personal development program isn't just about business; it's about owning your life, no matter your circumstances. It has helped thousands, and it changed everything for me.

Whether you're a parent juggling it all, an entrepreneur feeling burnt out, or someone living with health challenges (I see you, spoonies 🥄), this is for you.

This is accessible entrepreneurship. This is designing a life that works for you.

Would it be okay if you joined us for the calls this week to see how?

💬 Comment "INFO" below or send me a DM saying "Personal Development" and I'll get you all the details!

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A Note From Ben:

My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.

"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

Your Challenges Are Your Teachers 🌟

18/11/2025

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| Mentor Ben Drake

| 11:00 am

Your Challenges Are Your Teachers 🌟

As a disabled entrepreneur, my chronic conditions aren't just a challenge—they're my curriculum.

Some days, brain fog teaches me patience. ⏳

My physical limits teach me self-compassion. ❤️

My health teaches me how to let go of what I can't control. 🍃

As Jackson Kiddard said, "Anything you can't control is teaching you how to let go."
This is true for everyone on a transformation journey.
* For the #mumpreneur juggling it all.
* For the #networkmarketer facing a 'no'.
* For the #entrepreneur overcoming a setback.

Your obstacles are not roadblocks. They are your greatest lessons. Lean in. 💪

What is your biggest challenge teaching you this week? Drop it in the comments! 👇

A Note From Ben:

My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.

"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

A Question for Your Health & Fitness Journey… 🤔

17/11/2025

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| Mentor Ben Drake

| 11:50 pm

A Question for Your Health & Fitness Journey... 🤔
I'm just curious, and I’d love your input...
If you could give ONE piece of advice to someone just starting their fitness and health journey, what would it be?
Here’s my perspective as a disabled network marketer who navigates chronic conditions every single day:
Give yourself GRACE. ✨
It’s easy to get caught up in "hustle culture," especially for entrepreneurs, dadpreneurs, and mumpreneurs. We feel we have to do it all, right now.
But when your body has other plans, "no days off" isn't just unrealistic—it's damaging.
My advice is to forget intensity. Focus on consistency.
* Some days, a "win" is a 10-minute walk. 🚶‍♂️
* Some days, it's just drinking your water. 💧
* Some days, it's simply listening to your body and allowing it to rest. 😴
This journey is yours and yours alone. It doesn’t matter if you're a busy parent, a disabled entrepreneur, or a seasoned MLM pro; your path won't look like anyone else's.
Celebrate the small victories. Progress over perfection. Always.
What's YOUR Advice?
You’ve heard mine, now I want to hear yours! Whether you're in direct sales, juggling families, or just working on becoming a healthier you, your wisdom matters.
👇 Drop your #1 piece of advice for a beginner in the comments below!

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A Note From Ben:

My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.

"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

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