If you want next year to be better. I am just curious what are You going to do next Year so it will be better than this Year? comment bellow about how You are going to work on making that happen.
A Note From Ben:
My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:
My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.
"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.
You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.
As entrepreneurs, parents, and people committed to personal transformation, we face "fear" every day.
We’re often told to be "fearless." But as someone building a business while managing a disability and chronic conditions, "fearless" isn't my reality. My reality is managing fear.
This quote from David Ben-Gurion changed my perspective:
"Courage is a special kind of knowledge: the knowledge of how to fear what ought to be feared and how not to fear what ought not to be feared."
That's it. ✨
Living with chronic health challenges teaches you this "special knowledge" fast. What We OUGHT to Fear: * Burnout that sets our health back for weeks. * Losing precious time with our families. * Regret. * Not living authentically. * Letting our "why" fade away.
What We OUGHT NOT to Fear (but often do): * The "no" from a prospect. * Someone judging our journey. * Sharing our vulnerable story. * Looking different from the "hustle & grind" crowd. * Failing forward on our path to transformation.
For years, I let the fear of rejection—a fear that ought not be feared—hold me back. I was worried about what people would think, more than I was worried about the regret of not trying.
True courage isn't the absence of fear. It's the wisdom to look at a situation and ask, "Is this a real threat to my mission and my well-being, or is it just noise?"
When you live with challenges, you learn that a "no" in business is just noise. But a "no" to your own health, family, or dreams? That's a real threat.
Your journey, your resilience, your unique story... that is your special knowledge. That is your courage.
🚀 It's time to transform our fear. What is one thing you have been fearing that you are realizing "ought not to be feared"?
Share it in the comments and let's re-focus on what truly matters! 👇
A Note From Ben:
My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:
My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.
"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.
You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.
"There was a time I almost lost my life to my health. But I'm not that person anymore. I’m healthier, stronger, and more alive than I ever knew I could be. This is what resilience looks like. Don't ever give up on yourself. 😃"
My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:
My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.
"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.
You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.
Are You a Disabled Entrepreneur Taught the WRONG Way to Build in MLM? Let's Fix It with "Think and Grow Rich." 🧠🔥
Hey, Mumpreneurs, Dadpreneurs, and fellow Network Marketers! 👋 Let's be real. Have you ever felt... broken by the network marketing "hustle"?
You were probably trained the "wrong way."
You were told to "blitz" everyone in the 3-foot rule. To send 100 copy-paste "Hey girl!" messages a day. To never take 'no' for an answer and to "hustle" 24/7.
But what happens when your body says NO?
As a disabled entrepreneur living with chronic conditions, that "hustle" model isn't just hard—it's impossible. It leads to burnout, flare-ups, and feeling like a failure before you even start.
I get it. I’ve been there. ♿ I thought I couldn't succeed in direct sales because I couldn't out-work everyone else.
Then I revisited Chapter 1 of Think and Grow Rich, and it hit me. 💡 We weren't meant to out-work them. We were meant to out-think them.
🤔 The Big Secret: "Thoughts are Things"
The very first chapter of Napoleon Hill's book isn't about action. It's not about sales scripts or cold messaging.
It's about DESIRE.
The chapter tells the story of Edwin C. Barnes, who had a burning desire to become a business associate of Thomas Edison. He didn't just wish for it. He didn't just hope for it.
He had a Definite Chief Aim. He showed up at Edison's office, looking like a "tramp," with no money and no "in." But Edison saw something in his eyes: a thought so powerful it had become a thing. A determination that refused to quit.
Barnes famously "burned all bridges" behind him. There was no retreat.
🔥 "Burning the Bridges" (The Chronic Illness Version)
For those of us building an MLM with a disability, "burning the bridges" looks different.
We’ve been trained the wrong way—taught that our action is our biggest asset. This is a lie.
For a disabled entrepreneur, your MINDSET is your single greatest asset. Your physical energy will fade. Your "spoons" 🥄 will run out. Your pain levels will spike.
But your desire? Your vision? That can be indestructible.
"Burning the bridges" for us means:
* Burning the bridge to self-pity. We stop seeing our conditions as a liability and start seeing them as our filter. They filter out the wrong methods and force us to find the right ones (like attraction marketing!).
* Burning the bridge to the "hustle" culture. We give up the idea that our worth is tied to our hours worked. We trade "hustle" for leverage and alignment.
* Burning the bridge to the "wrong training." We stop listening to leaders who preach a one-size-fits-all, able-bodied model. We know that chasing friends and family or cold-messaging strangers is a fast track to burnout.
🎯 Your Team is Waiting for Your Thought
If you're struggling to build a team, it's not because you aren't "doing enough."
It's probably because your thought isn't clear enough. The "wrong way" trains you to chase people. The Think and Grow Rich way teaches you to attract them.
When your desire is so specific, so burning, that it's the first thing you think of in the morning and the last thing at night... people feel that. Your "Definite Chief Aim" becomes a magnet. 🧲
* Wrong Way: "I need to sign 3 people this month." (A wish based on a quota).
* Right Way: "I am building a team of 10 empowered, like-minded entrepreneurs (mums, dads, disabled leaders) by December, creating a $5,0to 0/month residual income that allows me to be present for my family and manage my health without guilt." (A burning desire, a thing).
Your chronic condition isn't your roadblock. It's your catalyst. It forces you to build a smarter, more sustainable, more authentic business from the very beginning.
Stop doing what they taught you. Stop the hustle.
Start thinking. Your thoughts are things. Make them count. 🌱
Did this resonate with you? Are you tired of being trained the wrong way?
My passion is helping entrepreneurs—especially those with chronic conditions—dump the "hustle" and build a legacy business with sustainable, authentic methods.
So, tell me in the comments: What's ONE "hustle" tactic you are "burning the bridge" on, starting today? 👇
P.S. — If you're ready to learn how to actually use your mindset (and smart, modern tools) to build your team without burning out, send me a DM with the word "THINK"! Let's build this together. 🤝
A Note From Ben:
My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:
My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.
"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.
You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.
How often do we, as ambitious entrepreneurs and parents, fall into the comparison trap? scrolling...
We see someone else's highlight reel and immediately start listing all the things we aren't.
"I aren't as energetic." "I aren't as consistent." "I aren't as 'successful'."
This quote from ZiglarFamily.com stopped me in my tracks:
"STOP HATING YOURSELF FOR EVERYTHING YOU AREN'T AND START LOVING YOURSELF FOR EVERYTHING THAT YOU ARE."
As an entrepreneur living with a disability and chronic conditions, this message is my daily anthem. 📣
It’s so easy to focus on the limitations. The days when my body doesn't want to cooperate with my business plan. The "hustle" I can't do.
But here’s the truth:
Your journey isn't a weakness; it's your superpower.
Your struggles don't disqualify you; they make you uniquely qualified. So let's flip the script. 🔄
Instead of what you aren't, let's focus on what you ARE: * You ARE resilient. * You ARE empathetic. * You ARE a creative problem-solver. * You ARE courageous for showing up when it's hard. * You ARE an inspiration to others facing their own battles.
Loving yourself isn't about stopping self-improvement. It's about changing your fuel. You can't build a positive future on a foundation of self-hate.
When you start from a place of self-love, your personal development journey becomes an act of joy, not a punishment. You show up for your family, your team, and your customers as the best version of you.
Your story, your challenges, and your victories matter. You are exactly who your tribe needs. ❤️
🚀 What is ONE thing you ARE that you are proud of? Drop it in the comments below and let's celebrate who we are, right now! 👇
A Note From Ben:
My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:
My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.
"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.
You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.
