Frustrated Network Marketer–Hansel and Disgruntled

The following is from Dave and Darlene mills blog and which has a wonderful article on stopping attacking other peoples products and services. It deals with those people who have lost faith in their company and are frustrated with their results in nework marketing. Thank you to both Dave and Darlene Mills for the powerful post.

Do you ever wonder why someone attacks your Network marketing  Company and/or products after you have posted your business opportunity or your products?  Sometimes these attacks are malicious and unwarranted by a Frustrated Network Marketer–Hansel and Disgruntled.

There are a number of marketers  in the field who use their time to put down products and businesses without any cause or real reason.  They always seem to be disgruntled and live a negative style life.  If you have read or learned anything about  magnetic attraction marketing you will soon realize negativity pushes potential customers and business partners away.  If you are looking to use magnetic attraction you must separate yourself from the negativity and the people who promote the behaviour.  It is a must if you want to have a chance at being successful.

Possibilities for a disgruntled attitude can be endless.  We see this in our everyday lives with people we know, fellow workers and sometimes from within families.  Sometimes people become disgruntled because of problems not even related to that which they are aiming their attitude towards.

The problem is that negativity is contagious and can grow if you allow it to.  The best method is to separate yourself from the negativity  and think and act positively which promotes magnetic attraction.

The reasons for being disgruntled are varied but in network marketing there are two main reasons.  The first may be the fact that you were scammed and cheated by some network marketing scam posing as a legitimate opportunity.  This is preventable by doing your due diligence (research) before joining any opportunity or buying products.  You may have a legitimate reason for being disgruntled with this but you need to get out of this negative realm before it becomes a way of life for you.  Move on to a better life by finding a company and product which will help you reach your dreams and goals.

The second reason is far more common with network marketers who have joined a  legitimate company.  It just didn’t work for some marketers who were looking for success. So they became disgruntled towards the company and products.  Many many times success never came to these people because they lacked the skills to do network marketing properly.  Without the proper skills they went out and tried to recruit and sell products to their warm market and received negative results.  When they moved on to their cold market they spammed and fire hosed their business opportunity and products only to be rejected. The conclusion they drew was, it didn’t work so they blamed the company and products for their lack of success.

As they become more disgruntled they will often spend their time making disparaging remarks against the company and products without real facts or proof  to back up the remarks.  Sometimes they can get themselves into real legal trouble because of the disparaging remarks.

Their lack of success was not the company or products fault.  It became an issue of how to market and promote properly with the right skills.  Is it fair that they slam the company and products on their  wall and fan pages or on any social networks.  No, but it does show their true leadership qualities, NEGATIVE ONES.

Are you a Frustrated Network Marketer–Hansel and Disgruntled .  I would suggest you learn the skills needed to market and recruit.  Tom “Big Al” Schreiter has been teaching his skills to other network marketers for years and they  have become very successful.

Tom’s training comes from years of very successful marketing. Tom tours the world teaching these very skills… so if you have the opportunity to attend one of these training seminars it would be in your best interest.  tomlydYou will learn what to say and do to promote your business opportunity and products.  OH, if you are disgruntled, leave the other marketers alone and don’t make comments if you don’t have solid fact but basing it upon your own experience and opinion.  If you go into a business opportunity or buy a product with a negative sceptical view don’t expect to have success because the universe gives you what you ask for, so if it is negative, expect negative results but if you are positive expect positive results.  Stay on the positive side of life and business and enjoy positive results leading to success.

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From Dave and Darlene Mills blog, thank you for such an insperational post on what some network marketers do when they are frustrated with the growth of their onw business
a very powerful post. Thank you.

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Traditions

Traditions

When I was a child my family had traditions for every holiday.  I took comfort in always knowing that Thanksgiving Day would be spent at our house with my Dad barbecuing the turkey, and Christmas Eve would be a gathering of my father’s family at the home of one of my Uncles.  There was never any question of where we’d go or who would be there, although there was always interest in what new boyfriend or girlfriend our teenage cousins would bring along. Even after I married, my husband and I lived near my family, and he fit into the established pattern.  When we had children, they just fit in too.

Then we made the radical decision to move to Oregon, and I was worried about what I’d do without the traditions that had defined the holidays for my whole life.  My fears were unnecessary, since my parents soon decided to retire and move here too, as did two of my Aunts and Uncles.  With some modifications we once again had the comfort of the routine.  Thanksgiving was at my parent’s house, with barbecued turkey, playing pool and watching football.  Christmas dinner was at our house, with my husband barbecuing another turkey.  New Years day was ham at my Aunt Carol’s, and Easter was family brunch at the Country Club.  It was a comfortable yearly tradition that gave our holidays structure and that we raised our children on for 20 years.

However, in the past few years our children have grown and moved away, my mother, father, Aunts and Uncles have died, and the big old house with the pool table, is now a lovely memory.

So here I am, wondering what does one do to celebrate the holidays.  I must admit I wasn’t prepared to deal with this new dilemma, since I naively assumed everyone would always be here and things would just go on as they always had.

Since our children moved away and my parents died I’ve taken each holiday as it comes, and tried to find the true meaning in what the day represents.  Before it was always about family, but now that my family is dispersed or gone, what does that mean?

I’ve come to realize that there are many definitions of “family”.  It’s not just the people connected by marriage or blood, but it’s also the people to whom we’re connected by friendship and love.  In these past few years I’ve looked around and realized my husband and I are blessed with lots of “family”.  Our dear friends, who travel with us and put up with us at all hours of the day and night (even those grumpy morning hours), our friends who play cards with us, and with whom we laugh late into the evening.  The women I’ve connected with on a deeper level since we’re no longer spending time parenting, and so have time for each other.  All of these and many more are family, and on every holiday I do what I can to gather together as many of these wonderful folks as possible.

Of course, the “tradition” has changed.  There is no routine anymore.  Every holiday is different, depending on who is available to share the day. I’ve realized that tradition isn’t really about what we eat or where we go.  The thing that continues to make each holiday “traditional” is that it is a gathering together of people who care about each other.  I now know it’s a time to celebrate one another and remember once again how we are all family.

How about you?

Sandra Abell

Sandy is the author of Self-Esteem: An Inside Job and Moving Up To Management: Leadership and Management Skills for New Supervisors. She is an educator, speaker and a Licensed Professional Counselor. She specializes in working with executives, business owners, professionals, entrepreneurs and people in transition. Sandy publishes a free monthly newsletter entitled Focusing On Your Success. Please visit Sandy on her website at www.insidejobscoach.com

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