Our lives are full of emotional energy

Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 11 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

th (2)I am just curious what gets You emotional?, for many years the emotions of love and friendship had their grips on own life. It all started many years prior when My Opa (grandfather) died, from there it was a battle with own emotions feeling hurt in relation to losing Opa when died and feeling unsupported in the process.

For many years there was a lot of hurt and pain in relation to the death of Opa. Later wanting to have a loving relationship owing to feeling unloved and unwanted at home lead to that showing up within own life, it showed up in the relationships and friendships that sought out. I would go out there and working on creating friendships and relationships often only to fall down as was unable to be myself.

th (1)That emotional energy of pain from love was what ran My own life for many years, it can happen in many areas of life and can affect us very deeply until we work on that area. A significant loss can cause enough pain that we lock up and become a shell of that person. We need to use that emotional energy we have for our partner in life or family members. That we take that energy and use it to build a better life.

energy-and-loveWe can say that we want to change how our own kids are brought up, giving them love and guidance rather than pain and hurt. Our lives are a reflection of our emotional state, when we show it all it works like a dream.

thThank You to my amazing wonderful friends for life here at mentoring for free. To my amazing wonderful loving , caring mentors and coaches Linda and Michael Dlouhy and Ken Klemm for Your ongoing love, support and encouragement. Also thank You to my amazing wife for life Jenny for Your ongoing love and support.

Big hugs,

Ben Drake

West Ryde NSW

You can read many more Brilliant lessons on our think and grow rich lessons Forum or even post Your own thoughts on the topic and join us for the discussion. We’d love to help You to own Your life, if You would like to participate in our free personal development training please let me know.

Wishing You a life full of Love and Health,

Your friends for Life,
Ben and Jenny

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Are You happy with Your own choices and decisions.

Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 8 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.DecisionThe part that stuck out personally is that need to take responsibility for My own choices and decisions in life. Deciding what direction that I am wanting to take and walk that road, it was My own decision who married, just like it was My own choice to stop attending amusement parks owning to health reasons. That after many years I am saying yes I am able to go and go on the rides and I will be safe. Just like it was My own choice to choose to travel the world and see the world just like that child driving around in the caravan.

11209733_941528419201135_3126404278616272340_nFor many years the decision-making process was done by those around me within My own life that would let their opinions and thoughts or similar run own life. Their opinion meant more and I’d be wanting to keep the peace rather than hearing the screaming match again.

Being unaware of what was going on or that had the power to make own choices and also too scared to say this what I am choosing. Often that decision that was made was often let be and would go from there. At times I would talk about upgrading a car to those who were unsupportive of the motive and it would come back with arguments about what was going to do.

if-you-have-no-confidence-in-self-you-are-twice-defeated-in-the-race-of-life-quote-1Jane and Bill, Anna and Dean are all wanting to travel and have decided to travel to New Caledonia on a cruise. For Bill and Jane it was simple they choose the date they were going, said we are going booked and paid, decision done. They talked about the trip, what they would do on the trip as a family. As for Anna and Dean well they too choose their date, they sat there and choose to leave the trip details alone. They left that decision in the pile of undone dreams and goals.

When Bill and Jane return for their trip, Anna and Dean see them walking around and are still shocked about them being able to enjoy those trips. The couples talk over lunch, Anna turns to Jane and says “I am still confused what we are doing wrong Jane. You know we both talked about that cruise together, You went and we remained here.” Jane smiles looks at her Friend of many years realizing that her friend needs to commit to that decision.

6571060-young-man-kissing-his-wife-sitting-on-bed-at-homeJane then says to her friend Anna “Well Anna, I am aware that Bill and myself just made a decision to go and we did just that. It’s always been as simple as that for us, You can choose Your life and what happens if You go on a holiday or just sit around”.

Anna still has a confused look on her face “You mean its just a decision.” Says Anna eventually.

“Yes” Says Jane.

eftWe all have that same power in our lives, we have the choice to change our own financial future via learning ways to improve that. We have the choice to change our own health through a decision to attend the activity we have chosen to become healthier, We can choose our own car, our own hobbies, our own clothes, when we shower, we are going to have those who will be angry about the decision and attempt to talk You out of the choice. Stop listening to those who are unable to support that goal or dream.

It is just like our own accountability reports and those who download the book success in 10 steps from us. That we can also send our report in to our sponsor when we work our business daily or we can decide to leave that alone. The same with calling those who download our ebook, we can choose to either call them or leave them alone. As with our think and grow rich lesson we have the decision about posting a lesson or leaving alone.

Thank You to my amazing wonderful friends and family for helping me to be able to choose again, to become the stay at home dad want to be. Thank You to my amazing wonderful mentors Ken Klemm, Linda and Michael Dlouhy for Your own ongoing guidance love and support. Thanks to my amazing beautiful, sexy, wonderful, loving wife for life Jenny for Your own ongoing support with our goals and dreams.

Your friend for life, big hugs,

Ben Drake

West Ryde NSW Australia

Wishing You a life full of Love and Health,

Your friends for Life,
Ben and Jenny

“Helping families live better lives”

925505_1478708732363299_913193697_nYou know how most people are wanting to create an income from home to be able to spend more time with their families. Some people have found a way to be able to spend more time with their loved ones and still have an income coming in.

We can guarantee You success in the industry when You are coachable and learn those skills which are needed to become a success in the industry.

Our free gift for You is available here

You can read many more Brilliant lessons on our think and grow rich lessons Forum or even post Your own thoughts on the topic and join us for the discussion. We’d love to help You to own Your life, if You would like to participate in our free personal development training please let me know.

Specialized knowledge and our goals and dreams

Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 5 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

th (1)All our goals and dreams are needing specialized knowledge to achieve them.

enhanced-buzz-wide-9775-1338835295-6There are two couples who are friends, Jane and Bill and Anna and Dean. Both have a young family, Bill and Dean both work nights and shift work. They are home after the kids are in bed, often eating dinner before leaving for work. Both families want to have the fathers at home at night and spending more time with the kids. Reading the kids stories, feeding, eating dinner as a family and putting the kids to bed.

Bill has been working towards this goal by doing network marketing for many years, he has also been at the gym and taking care of his own health first thing in the morning. Even though he gets home after 9 at night he gets up early and works on building the business to allow him to travel the world with the family, spend more time with the family and give them a better life. Every day Bill is dreaming of a better life for Jane, his step daughter, his son and his family. Dreaming of spending more time with the family and what life can be.

th (5)He talks with mentors how to change his life, does personal development and builds the friendships he can with other parents. Whist Dean sleeps in, he sits around or plays golf with his mates daily and does little about changing his situation.

Years later Bill sees Dean after his family has just returned from a holiday, Dean calls him lucky, Bill says that Dean can do the same to Dean its too much. We need the knowledge of those before us, we can turn to mentors, friends and the internet for support on that area and building that dream that we truly want to achieve as a person.

th (1)Thank You to my amazing friends and family Linda and Michael Dlouhy and Ken Klemm, for Your ongoing guidance, love, support and encouragement, teaching all of us to live the life of our dreams, thank You also to my amazing wife Jenny for helping me to become a better person and to be that awesome amazing father and husband.

A huge hug to all, I appreciate You all,

Ben Drake

West Ryde NSW Australia

Wishing You a life full of Love and Health,

Your friends for Life,
Ben and Jenny

“Helping families live better lives”

You can read many more Brilliant lessons on our think and grow rich lessons Forum or even post Your own thoughts on the topic and join us for the discussion. We’d love to help You to own Your life, if You would like to participate in our free personal development training please let me know.

You know how most people are wanting to create an income from home to be able to spend more time with their families. Some people have found a way to be able to spend more time with their loved ones and still have an income coming in.

We can guarantee You success in the industry when You are coachable and learn those skills which are needed to become a success in the industry.

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What are You constantly saying to Yourself

Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 4 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

925505_1478708732363299_913193697_nI am just curious what do you constantly tell Yourself. Are You saying and repeating positive comments to reinforce Your goal, believing and suggesting Your goals achieved and Your living Your desires. When we constantly replay in our heads what has happened it gets drawn to us.

Two friends Amy and Jane are looking to settle down and start a family with their life partner. Both have had relationships go ary and end poorly. Amy has a 3 year son and is constantly frustrated with her ex, that he constantly is wrong, he barely sees his daughter and is bitter. Having been seeking a relationship for 2 years no relationship has stayed.

$_3Meanwhile Jane has a 3 year daughter whos father died, Jane has been able to form a relationship with a man named bill who sees the daughter as his own and the pair are living together and engaged. Jane was constantly saying I am going to get married even though her partner had died.  While Amy focused on her ex’s floors and that pain.

hq3For many years it was a simular focus that  drew poor relationships into own life, aswell as the pain of a distant father that pushed the relationships away. It’s alot of lessons to be learnt and work on. It’s been suggesting that I am a different father than knew and learning the lessons needed. We need to believe what we say to ourselves. I believe that I am a stay at home dad and have faith in that, its only my own faith that and self suggestion tgat has me here as a father, married and travelling new Zealand right now. We are all products of our own self suggestion or self talk.
It was my own autosuggestion and faith in that autosuggestion saying to myself a number of statements that allowed to be living the life that now dream of. The statements were.

•    The next woman that date I am going to marry, i was saying that to myself for 3 months before meeting Jenny.
•    I am going to be a dad before I turn 40, my son Jamie was born a couple pf months prior.
•    I am going to introduce Jamie to the family in New Zealand in august 2017.

postive thinkingThere are many more suggestions that we can offer and say to ourselves either about our family, our business or simular. Do you say to Yourself daily your goal or dream or do You speak about what is going on in the world. You draw it to Yourself, for me it means stopping constantly feeling so hurt and let down from a distant father. That means being focused on being that dad that Jamie needs. Letting it all go, it’s taken work to learn better habits and to walk away. Its going to take constant reinforcement of being a great dad using autosuggestion to overcome it all catching the funk when it happens.

Thank you very much to my amazing wonderful friends and family in mentoring for free. My mentors Ken Klemm and Linda and Michael Dlouhy for guiding me and Your constant love, support and encouragement. Thank you to my amazing wife Jenny for Your own ongoing love and support.

Your friend from Australia for life
Ben Drake
West Ryde Nsw – Traveling New Zealand

Wishing You a life full of Love and Health,

Your friends for Life,
Ben and Jenny

“Helping families live better lives”

You can read many more Brilliant lessons on our think and grow rich lessons Forum or even post Your own thoughts on the topic and join us for the discussion. We’d love to help You to own Your life, if You would like to participate in our free personal development training please let me know.

You know how most people are wanting to create an income from home to be able to spend more time with their families. Some people have found a way to be able to spend more time with their loved ones and still have an income coming in.

We can guarantee You success in the industry when You are coachable and learn those skills which are needed to become a success in the industry.

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Those constant inspirations

Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 14 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

hq3For many years the sixth sense has been a strong part of life. Its taken years to say its my sixth sense rather than anothers opinion. When first rode a trail bike I had a quick decision to make between a barbwire fence and a fence post. Choosing the fence over the post and ending up with stiches down my arms, the sixth sense was helpful in guiding to save then.

2 Friends (www_cute-pictures_blogspot_com)It has guideded being a stay at home dad, even fear still does run at times. For many years its been working on building a stronger sixth sense to know what Jamie needs and how can best help those who need my help or turn up asking for help.

925505_1478708732363299_913193697_nIt may be as simple as reading the message from those who have messaged saying ok they want this support and going from there, at times its meant saying that’s Your limiting belief Not mine to the person which has often appeared in own thoughts when reading the message. Our sixth sense as a parent takes time to develop and grow knowing what our baby may be needing. Then we get to know via the sixth sense what our child is asking for when they cry.

Thank You to my amazing wonderful friends, mentors and family Ken Klemm, Linda and Michael Dlouhy for Your ongoing love support and encouragement. To my amazing wife Jenny thanks for Your ongoing love, support and encouragement that You offer.

Your friend for life,

Big hugs

Ben Drake

West Ryde NSW Australia

You can read many more Brilliant lessons on our think and grow rich lessons Forum or even post Your own thoughts on the topic and join us for the discussion. We’d love to help You to own Your life, if You would like to participate in our free personal development training please let me know.

stay at home dad – helping families to live better lives.

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