Specialized knowledge and our goals and dreams

Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 5 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

th (1)All our goals and dreams are needing specialized knowledge to achieve them.

enhanced-buzz-wide-9775-1338835295-6There are two couples who are friends, Jane and Bill and Anna and Dean. Both have a young family, Bill and Dean both work nights and shift work. They are home after the kids are in bed, often eating dinner before leaving for work. Both families want to have the fathers at home at night and spending more time with the kids. Reading the kids stories, feeding, eating dinner as a family and putting the kids to bed.

Bill has been working towards this goal by doing network marketing for many years, he has also been at the gym and taking care of his own health first thing in the morning. Even though he gets home after 9 at night he gets up early and works on building the business to allow him to travel the world with the family, spend more time with the family and give them a better life. Every day Bill is dreaming of a better life for Jane, his step daughter, his son and his family. Dreaming of spending more time with the family and what life can be.

th (5)He talks with mentors how to change his life, does personal development and builds the friendships he can with other parents. Whist Dean sleeps in, he sits around or plays golf with his mates daily and does little about changing his situation.

Years later Bill sees Dean after his family has just returned from a holiday, Dean calls him lucky, Bill says that Dean can do the same to Dean its too much. We need the knowledge of those before us, we can turn to mentors, friends and the internet for support on that area and building that dream that we truly want to achieve as a person.

th (1)Thank You to my amazing friends and family Linda and Michael Dlouhy and Ken Klemm, for Your ongoing guidance, love, support and encouragement, teaching all of us to live the life of our dreams, thank You also to my amazing wife Jenny for helping me to become a better person and to be that awesome amazing father and husband.

A huge hug to all, I appreciate You all,

Ben Drake

West Ryde NSW Australia

Wishing You a life full of Love and Health,

Your friends for Life,
Ben and Jenny

“Helping families live better lives”

You can read many more Brilliant lessons on our think and grow rich lessons Forum or even post Your own thoughts on the topic and join us for the discussion. We’d love to help You to own Your life, if You would like to participate in our free personal development training please let me know.

You know how most people are wanting to create an income from home to be able to spend more time with their families. Some people have found a way to be able to spend more time with their loved ones and still have an income coming in.

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What are You constantly saying to Yourself

Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 4 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

925505_1478708732363299_913193697_nI am just curious what do you constantly tell Yourself. Are You saying and repeating positive comments to reinforce Your goal, believing and suggesting Your goals achieved and Your living Your desires. When we constantly replay in our heads what has happened it gets drawn to us.

Two friends Amy and Jane are looking to settle down and start a family with their life partner. Both have had relationships go ary and end poorly. Amy has a 3 year son and is constantly frustrated with her ex, that he constantly is wrong, he barely sees his daughter and is bitter. Having been seeking a relationship for 2 years no relationship has stayed.

$_3Meanwhile Jane has a 3 year daughter whos father died, Jane has been able to form a relationship with a man named bill who sees the daughter as his own and the pair are living together and engaged. Jane was constantly saying I am going to get married even though her partner had died.  While Amy focused on her ex’s floors and that pain.

hq3For many years it was a simular focus that  drew poor relationships into own life, aswell as the pain of a distant father that pushed the relationships away. It’s alot of lessons to be learnt and work on. It’s been suggesting that I am a different father than knew and learning the lessons needed. We need to believe what we say to ourselves. I believe that I am a stay at home dad and have faith in that, its only my own faith that and self suggestion tgat has me here as a father, married and travelling new Zealand right now. We are all products of our own self suggestion or self talk.
It was my own autosuggestion and faith in that autosuggestion saying to myself a number of statements that allowed to be living the life that now dream of. The statements were.

•    The next woman that date I am going to marry, i was saying that to myself for 3 months before meeting Jenny.
•    I am going to be a dad before I turn 40, my son Jamie was born a couple pf months prior.
•    I am going to introduce Jamie to the family in New Zealand in august 2017.

postive thinkingThere are many more suggestions that we can offer and say to ourselves either about our family, our business or simular. Do you say to Yourself daily your goal or dream or do You speak about what is going on in the world. You draw it to Yourself, for me it means stopping constantly feeling so hurt and let down from a distant father. That means being focused on being that dad that Jamie needs. Letting it all go, it’s taken work to learn better habits and to walk away. Its going to take constant reinforcement of being a great dad using autosuggestion to overcome it all catching the funk when it happens.

Thank you very much to my amazing wonderful friends and family in mentoring for free. My mentors Ken Klemm and Linda and Michael Dlouhy for guiding me and Your constant love, support and encouragement. Thank you to my amazing wife Jenny for Your own ongoing love and support.

Your friend from Australia for life
Ben Drake
West Ryde Nsw – Traveling New Zealand

Wishing You a life full of Love and Health,

Your friends for Life,
Ben and Jenny

“Helping families live better lives”

You can read many more Brilliant lessons on our think and grow rich lessons Forum or even post Your own thoughts on the topic and join us for the discussion. We’d love to help You to own Your life, if You would like to participate in our free personal development training please let me know.

You know how most people are wanting to create an income from home to be able to spend more time with their families. Some people have found a way to be able to spend more time with their loved ones and still have an income coming in.

We can guarantee You success in the industry when You are coachable and learn those skills which are needed to become a success in the industry.

Our free gift for You is available here

Those constant inspirations

Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 14 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

hq3For many years the sixth sense has been a strong part of life. Its taken years to say its my sixth sense rather than anothers opinion. When first rode a trail bike I had a quick decision to make between a barbwire fence and a fence post. Choosing the fence over the post and ending up with stiches down my arms, the sixth sense was helpful in guiding to save then.

2 Friends (www_cute-pictures_blogspot_com)It has guideded being a stay at home dad, even fear still does run at times. For many years its been working on building a stronger sixth sense to know what Jamie needs and how can best help those who need my help or turn up asking for help.

925505_1478708732363299_913193697_nIt may be as simple as reading the message from those who have messaged saying ok they want this support and going from there, at times its meant saying that’s Your limiting belief Not mine to the person which has often appeared in own thoughts when reading the message. Our sixth sense as a parent takes time to develop and grow knowing what our baby may be needing. Then we get to know via the sixth sense what our child is asking for when they cry.

Thank You to my amazing wonderful friends, mentors and family Ken Klemm, Linda and Michael Dlouhy for Your ongoing love support and encouragement. To my amazing wife Jenny thanks for Your ongoing love, support and encouragement that You offer.

Your friend for life,

Big hugs

Ben Drake

West Ryde NSW Australia

You can read many more Brilliant lessons on our think and grow rich lessons Forum or even post Your own thoughts on the topic and join us for the discussion. We’d love to help You to own Your life, if You would like to participate in our free personal development training please let me know.

Searching for the love

th (2)Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 11 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

Searching for the love that always wanted within my own life at the same time believing that the love was looking for was with someone else that having their love would make it all ok was the main area that sent that love onto for many years. It caused many years of continued hurt and boy was I so wrong with that love being with someone else.

energy-and-loveThat love that spent many years seeking happened to be the love that had within myself over the years. Having gone through a couple of relationships which really were only Sex to the other person that emotional energy of seeking love was seeking came back in that form for not only myself but also those two relationships.

The question that gets asked time and time again, was it genuine love when You sleep with the person. One ends up pregnant and then the guy is gone, he either breaks up with her, stops getting in touch with this woman. She has his child who may be unable to even know their father owing to the pair’s relationship never truly working out. The emotional energy of Sex and wanting to sleep together got her pregnant and ends up raising the kids, was there when the pair slept with each other, however that was all it was there was no genuine love for each other.

thFor many years I personally searched for the love that was seeking until became aware that it meant learning to love who Ben was, that meant accepting the abilities that had with health and focusing on being the healthiest could be. At the same time accepting that had grown up with a family who barely knew love themselves.

Part of the key is showing that love that have for our own life partner and remembering those happy times with them. It may be remembering Your wedding day, the day of Your Childs birth, Your first hug with Your partner, Your honeymoon with Your wife. I am needing to remember that love when times are hard, yes it may mean sharing that emotional love that have for those people with those within my own life.

th (1)That love that held within for many years which was too scared to come out is starting to come out. It is safe now to express its self with those who mean the world, it can be a simple hug with my wife or giving my son a cuddle, changing his nappy, feeding him, a shower with him. Our own emotional energy that we give will come back to us.

Thank You to my amazing wonderfulful friends and mentors Ken Klemm, Linda and Michael Dlouhy, for helping me to find that love again. To learn to love as was meant to, knowing that eventually I am going to achieve my goals and dreams by helping those who are willing. Thanks to my amazing wife Jenny for her own love and ongoing support.

Your friend for life,

All my love and a huge hug,

Ben Drake,

West Ryde NSW Australia

You can read many more Brilliant lessons on our think and grow rich lessons Forum or even post Your own thoughts on the topic and join us for the discussion. We’d love to help You to own Your life, if You would like to participate in our free personal development training please let me know.

Power of the mastermind

Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter # from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

rainbowNapoleon states in the chapter on the Power of the Mastermind that “Harmony is needed to achieve Our goals or any goal?”, this was a huge insight personally for many years there was a lot of disharmony with those goals and dreams that have been working towards. Harmony with those who was talking with about the goal was rare.

Often we were on two separate pages in relation to the goal one was often the desire to achieve a goal, whilst the other may have been living with fear. Masterminding we need to be in harmony and part of that lesson that was needed happened to have been learnt. Finding and choosing those who align with the goal that working towards and want to see us succeed.

1798692_856987434345661_4707733409339672507_nIt can be as simple as building a business with a team of friends, those friends need to be in alignment with the teams direction. 3 people may want to do a business in the health and wellness industry and the 4th may be saying no let’s join this business of energy and is attempting to force their idea of joining an energy company on the others .

small-groups-of-people-change-the-worldThis disharmony will create a rift and often stall that teams progress until it is dealt with. As have seen happen many a times over the years, someone may be forcing their own agenda or the rest may be going in another direction from that goal that was working on. Whilst the team would work well as a mastermind with the companies being left out of it, sharing what works for each person and helping the others to learn those skills. It can easily replace that 4th member if the mastermind was dedicated towards helping others to improve their health and life. At the same time if that mastermind was business only then the solution can be as simple as we leave companies out of the conversation.

That is what we do at mentoring for free, we leave the company out to stop the agenda and stop those from attempting to force themselves on others. Growing up our first mastermind as with my own happens to be our own family. That is where many of us learn the habits that we are attempting to change.

teamworkWe learn those relationship skills, the skills to survive from our families. They teach us all we need, after many years I am still working on changing many relationship skills that have learnt. Yes we have all been growing and getting better. It takes work and practice, working and using the skills that have learnt to achieve Your goals and dreams. Working with those who want to cooperate with You and as soon as You may say I am going to do this they will encourage You rather than saying I would stay with this for this reason.

There will be those who will support in a way as have found, they may support the idea of the project that You are working on and have their own beliefs and ideas which we need to listen to as our mastermind group. Designing a new model train layout means masterminding on its own, someone may Say I am considering doing “DCC” for running the trains. When the other may be someone who runs only “DC” trains. Essentially the two are misaligned in that area of the method of running the layout. Whilst they may be aligned with the planning, wiring and many other areas. Someone else with the DCC experience is needed to be able to supplement that weakness of the group.

TeamworkAt times I have been unaware that the person was talking to was the wrong person for that discussion or area. They had other experience that needed to know. Its just taken time to realise it’s unwise turning to someone who has never driven in their life for their opinion on buying a new car. As Michael Dlouhy says in Success in 10 Steps, “Kind of like getting marriage counseling from someone who’s never been married,

isn’t it? I’ve been married 33 years. If I wanted advice, I’d talk to someone

Fotolia_18936658_XL-1who’s been married 50 years. Not 2 years. Not “read a book about it.”” We need to choose those who have the experience of what we need.

Thank You to my amazing friends, fellow network marketers with experience who constantly show love, support, encouragement and are out there helping to become the best Ben can be my amazing friends Ken Klemm, Linda and Michael Dlouhy. Along with my amazing loving wife Jenny with her ongoing love.

Your friend for Life,

Big hugs,

Ben Drake

West Ryde NSW Australia

P.S. Looking at moving states we need to talk with someone who has moved interstate or a long distance rather than someone who has moved more local. Say talking with someone like Ken Klemm who did a huge move to florida.

You can read many more Brilliant lessons on our think and grow rich lessons Forum or even post Your own thoughts on the topic and join us for the discussion. We’d love to help You to own Your life, if You would like to participate in our free personal development training please let me know.

stay at home dad – helping families to live better lives.

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