Searching for the love

th (2)Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 11 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

Searching for the love that always wanted within my own life at the same time believing that the love was looking for was with someone else that having their love would make it all ok was the main area that sent that love onto for many years. It caused many years of continued hurt and boy was I so wrong with that love being with someone else.

energy-and-loveThat love that spent many years seeking happened to be the love that had within myself over the years. Having gone through a couple of relationships which really were only Sex to the other person that emotional energy of seeking love was seeking came back in that form for not only myself but also those two relationships.

The question that gets asked time and time again, was it genuine love when You sleep with the person. One ends up pregnant and then the guy is gone, he either breaks up with her, stops getting in touch with this woman. She has his child who may be unable to even know their father owing to the pair’s relationship never truly working out. The emotional energy of Sex and wanting to sleep together got her pregnant and ends up raising the kids, was there when the pair slept with each other, however that was all it was there was no genuine love for each other.

thFor many years I personally searched for the love that was seeking until became aware that it meant learning to love who Ben was, that meant accepting the abilities that had with health and focusing on being the healthiest could be. At the same time accepting that had grown up with a family who barely knew love themselves.

Part of the key is showing that love that have for our own life partner and remembering those happy times with them. It may be remembering Your wedding day, the day of Your Childs birth, Your first hug with Your partner, Your honeymoon with Your wife. I am needing to remember that love when times are hard, yes it may mean sharing that emotional love that have for those people with those within my own life.

th (1)That love that held within for many years which was too scared to come out is starting to come out. It is safe now to express its self with those who mean the world, it can be a simple hug with my wife or giving my son a cuddle, changing his nappy, feeding him, a shower with him. Our own emotional energy that we give will come back to us.

Thank You to my amazing wonderfulful friends and mentors Ken Klemm, Linda and Michael Dlouhy, for helping me to find that love again. To learn to love as was meant to, knowing that eventually I am going to achieve my goals and dreams by helping those who are willing. Thanks to my amazing wife Jenny for her own love and ongoing support.

Your friend for life,

All my love and a huge hug,

Ben Drake,

West Ryde NSW Australia

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Power of the mastermind

Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter # from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

rainbowNapoleon states in the chapter on the Power of the Mastermind that “Harmony is needed to achieve Our goals or any goal?”, this was a huge insight personally for many years there was a lot of disharmony with those goals and dreams that have been working towards. Harmony with those who was talking with about the goal was rare.

Often we were on two separate pages in relation to the goal one was often the desire to achieve a goal, whilst the other may have been living with fear. Masterminding we need to be in harmony and part of that lesson that was needed happened to have been learnt. Finding and choosing those who align with the goal that working towards and want to see us succeed.

1798692_856987434345661_4707733409339672507_nIt can be as simple as building a business with a team of friends, those friends need to be in alignment with the teams direction. 3 people may want to do a business in the health and wellness industry and the 4th may be saying no let’s join this business of energy and is attempting to force their idea of joining an energy company on the others .

small-groups-of-people-change-the-worldThis disharmony will create a rift and often stall that teams progress until it is dealt with. As have seen happen many a times over the years, someone may be forcing their own agenda or the rest may be going in another direction from that goal that was working on. Whilst the team would work well as a mastermind with the companies being left out of it, sharing what works for each person and helping the others to learn those skills. It can easily replace that 4th member if the mastermind was dedicated towards helping others to improve their health and life. At the same time if that mastermind was business only then the solution can be as simple as we leave companies out of the conversation.

That is what we do at mentoring for free, we leave the company out to stop the agenda and stop those from attempting to force themselves on others. Growing up our first mastermind as with my own happens to be our own family. That is where many of us learn the habits that we are attempting to change.

teamworkWe learn those relationship skills, the skills to survive from our families. They teach us all we need, after many years I am still working on changing many relationship skills that have learnt. Yes we have all been growing and getting better. It takes work and practice, working and using the skills that have learnt to achieve Your goals and dreams. Working with those who want to cooperate with You and as soon as You may say I am going to do this they will encourage You rather than saying I would stay with this for this reason.

There will be those who will support in a way as have found, they may support the idea of the project that You are working on and have their own beliefs and ideas which we need to listen to as our mastermind group. Designing a new model train layout means masterminding on its own, someone may Say I am considering doing “DCC” for running the trains. When the other may be someone who runs only “DC” trains. Essentially the two are misaligned in that area of the method of running the layout. Whilst they may be aligned with the planning, wiring and many other areas. Someone else with the DCC experience is needed to be able to supplement that weakness of the group.

TeamworkAt times I have been unaware that the person was talking to was the wrong person for that discussion or area. They had other experience that needed to know. Its just taken time to realise it’s unwise turning to someone who has never driven in their life for their opinion on buying a new car. As Michael Dlouhy says in Success in 10 Steps, “Kind of like getting marriage counseling from someone who’s never been married,

isn’t it? I’ve been married 33 years. If I wanted advice, I’d talk to someone

Fotolia_18936658_XL-1who’s been married 50 years. Not 2 years. Not “read a book about it.”” We need to choose those who have the experience of what we need.

Thank You to my amazing friends, fellow network marketers with experience who constantly show love, support, encouragement and are out there helping to become the best Ben can be my amazing friends Ken Klemm, Linda and Michael Dlouhy. Along with my amazing loving wife Jenny with her ongoing love.

Your friend for Life,

Big hugs,

Ben Drake

West Ryde NSW Australia

P.S. Looking at moving states we need to talk with someone who has moved interstate or a long distance rather than someone who has moved more local. Say talking with someone like Ken Klemm who did a huge move to florida.

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Those decisions and our lives

Decision

Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 8 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

confront_and_overcome_your_fears_and_phobias_with_this_expert_adviceWhat an eye opener thank You to Ken Klemm for Your insight this week as to what I am needing to do around those decisions that have made. For many years I was making those decisions, I was needing to be more detailed as to what that entailed what that looked like as it was very general.

th (5)I am needing to work on being more detailed about the goal of being a stay at home dad providing for the family. What exactly does that look like is the main question and working on getting that down in as much detail as can.

thinkandgrowrichWe make choices and decisions all the time, sometimes they are simple and need very little detail. The big ones however need a lot of detail as to how they are going to look, that was part of what was missing with my own major decisions.

That home that we are moving to on the Gold Coast, how big is the house, what features does it have to start with, what does it look like in the end. It’s the same with the model train layout that build, what does it look like.

excited-healthy-woman-17689826Naming a child is a decision on its own, a very tough choice for us was getting down to the final name. We ended up getting the names down to 7 and then it took a decision we are going to have the name by that date and bang it happened. That is what we need to do within our business and personal lives, be specific as to when its going to happen and what it looks like.

thV7USIPI9Thank You to my amazing wonderful friends and mentors Ken Klemm, Linda and Michael Dlouhy for Your ongoing love and support for continuing to encouragement me to become the best parent can be. It takes a decision daily to work on Yourself and I am proud to be working on myself with You all. Thanks to my amazing wife Jenny for Your ongoing love and support,

Your friend for life,

Big hugs,

Ben Drake

West Ryde NSW Australia

Wishing You a life full of Love and Health,

Your friends for Life,
Ben and Jenny

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Desire how strong is Your desire

energy-and-lovemany desires have been spoken up only to be shot down through being around a destructive environment. We can express our desire or wish through our self talk and what we say and do for ourselves affirming who we are as a person, at the same time we have to keep ourselves on guard with our desires and turn to those who support our goals and dreams as a person.

We can be like Henry Ford “Going I want this and I am going to have that” being so determined to achieve our desire and goal that we just wash all that rubbish that gets thrown at us away. Walking away from those who are going to knock Your goal.

awakeing-bodyyou may be doing Your self talk in public waiting for a bus or even on the bus when someone starts having a go at You because they want peace and quite. Yes they may get fed up or tell You to shut up this where Napoleons quote from this chapter works so well along with Michael’s also. As Napoleon Says “never mind what they say” and Michael Says “It’s none of my business what anyone else thinks of me it only matters what I think of myself”. We must remember that we are safe and there is no Grisly bear as my good friend Ken Klemm reminds us constantly on the weekly calls.

We have our on desires and we aren’t able to please everyone that was a huge lesson that had to learn on its own it leaves us without any goals or dreams ourselves. A huge goal is the building of a model railway layout at home, when speak about that goal there will be mixed reactions from those that speak to.

to-show-that-love-is-trueI am needing to talk with those who are happy to support that goal and go I am happy to help You achieve this goal. They believe in the goal, rather than hearing someone say the opposite like “shut up”, “it’s too big”, “do You know how big that project will be”, often these statements have taken a desire that have had and bam that dream or desire is gone before anything else can be done about that goal as would happen many times within My own life. they are designed as an excuse to attempt to get someone to conform to that person’s wants and needs rather than letting that person dream more.

Speaking of a desire to buy or obtain a new car and You hear all the wrong reasons rather than all those right reasons. You will find all those supporters when You start speaking of Your own goals and dreams as a person, Your own desire. That You may desire to be a diamond in Your company, with a model layout, being able to travel the world with Your family, at the same time giving families a better life and future. When You speak about Your desire to the right people they will help You to achieve Your goal.

6571060-young-man-kissing-his-wife-sitting-on-bed-at-homeWe just need to identify those who are the right people to talk with about our goals, it’s like turning to someone who believes that keeps on bringing up that You are looking fat owing to their own reality and limiting belief and asking them for advice about changing their health. They are the wrong person to turn to for Your desire to change Your health and lifestyle, You would turn to someone who has lost the weight and regained their health. As Michael Dlouhy often says would You turn to someone who has studied or done the work.

Thank You to my Amazing wonderful friends, Mentors and family at mentoring for free. My amazing wonderful mentors Ken Klemm and Linda and Micahel Dlouhy for Your own ongoing support love and encouragement, along with believing in me. Thank You also to my amazing loving wife Jenny and our Son for Your constant love and support.

Your friend for life,

Big hugs

Ben Drake

West Ryde NSW Australia

Ps stop letting the naysayers run Your life, stop letting them talk You out of Your desires, Goals and dreams.

 

desireChapter 2: Desire
This is probably the 4th or 5th time I read this chapter, and each time it just
gets better. The story of his son and how he overcame what many said would
be impossible should be proof enough, that if one desires a thing coupled with
faith, that they will surely have it.
“Desire backed by faith knows no such word as impossible.”
The magic word in this is FAITH. The simplest definition of faith is believing
without seeing in physical form. A strong enough desire, without resistance,
will soon manifest for anyone that believes it shall be so. Several weeks ago,
I placed a desire in my mind so strong to attract like-minded individuals so that
I may pass along to them what I have been given.
I believe that they have already found me, and every day I find myself speaking
with another person who possesses the same desires as myself. Our desire isn’t
money or material things, it is time freedom and to be able to enjoy our lives. Of
course, earning enough money will give us these things, but the true desire are to
enjoy the things that money cannot buy; such as our family time and being able to
travel to places that we have only read about or have seen in movies.
As for faith, I have personally developed a faith stronger than ever as manifestations
of my desires a revealed daily. I am believing more and more that I am a leader in my
company, I have positions in the corporate world that I have not even interviewed for,
I am sitting at the beach on a tropical island watching my family have the time of their
lives, and all of those wonderful things.
copia-de-logo-desireI even speak of these things as if they are already in my physical world, and to those
that do not understand the law of attraction, I am sure that I sound like a lunatic. I do
not care, because my belief is what brings my desires into fruition.
As I have matured, I have learned that desire is not merely “wanting” things… no, it
is something that burns inside of us that guides us through each day. One of the most
important lessons I have learned, is the universe will not allow us to manifest our
desires alone. People are placed in our lives so that we can pass what we have
learned along to them, and in that giving… we are blessed beyond our asking in
many ways.
Hold onto your desire, and keep your focus on the journey. The journey is the best
part from desire to manifestation, and as I said last week… it’s the journey that
builds our character!
Because you are worth it,
John Wiser
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Chapter 2 Desire
When you’re inspired by a great purpose, everything will begin to work for
you….When you feel inspired, what appeared to be risky becomes a path
you feel compelled to follow. –Wayne Dyer
confront_and_overcome_your_fears_and_phobias_with_this_expert_adviceWhat inspires you? What is your great purpose,your strongest desire, the one
that underlies everything else and brings you to tears?
When I joined MFF, I did so because I wanted a system that would make me
successful in network marketing. I was doing fairly well in the company I was
in but had reached a point where I was out of prospects and didn’t know where
to look next. Also I found that many of the people who had joined me because
the company offered incentives to become distributors, were canceling their
auto-ship. They got the free case of product they were promised after so many
months and quit. There was no loyalty there and certainly no interest in
becoming a leader.
They were on to the next shiny object, or back in their default lives.
I wanted to learn a better way to build a business because obviously what I
was doing wasn’t working, and I was tired of calling people I knew who had
no interest in the product or the business or who joined only to quit a few
months later. I was wasting my time as were they and I didn’t know what to
do about it….just that there had to be more to life and network marketing than
that.
At that time I would have said that my desire was to be successful, to pay off
a few debts and to stop worrying about money. However what convinced me
to join MFF in the end was a conversation on the Saturday night call when
people were sharing how their participation had impacted their lives….not
just their business but their marriages, their relationship with their children
and with their friends and other relatives, their respect for themselves…the
list went on and on. I knew I wanted to be part of that and that I wanted to
share it with others so I joined the pro system and started to promote the e-book.
What I know now is that my burning desire is to inspire others to be their best,
and I will do that first by becoming the kind of leader that others want to follow.
MFF will help with its system that encourages the prospects who are serious
and leaving behind those that aren’t willing to follow the initial 4 steps (thanks
Steve Porter for that insight). It also helps with the free training and personal
development that are essential for building leaders.
I don’t have to be an expert on any of this, just get people enrolled in the process,
keep in touch and the process will take care of the rest as it does for me and many
others.
11209733_941528419201135_3126404278616272340_nAll of this is consistent with Hill’s message in this chapter on desire. He gives
the example of how his burning desire to help his son allowed him to hear even
though he was born without ears and how his son paid it forward with his own
burning desire to help other hearing impaired people by creating a marketing
plan for a hearing aid company where he did just that.
In both cases the success these people achieved began with a burning desire
to help someone else. The result was life changing for them and for the people
they helped…they paid it forward as we do at MFF.
Chapter 2 also provides the 6 step formula, which when repeated twice daily,
can turn a desire into one that is what Hill calls a keen, pulsating desire, one
that burns white hot. Those of us who commit to following the instructions
will be on our way, and as Wayne Dyer says, what may initially appear to be
a risky path, will soon be one we feel compelled to follow. The world will
be a better place because we created a burning desire and acted upon it.
Celeste Smucker, Nellysford, VA

the power of our thoughts

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hq3It makes no difference what everyone else thinks of you, it only matters what You think of Yourself. For many years those opinions ran my own life. You know what I really don’t care what Your opinion is on how long I have taken leave with our son Due in may. It’s their own opinion and thoughts and their belief not mine.

It is ok personally that I have taken leave 3 weeks before the baby is due and will return to that role in September. It is ok that Ben that You want to be a stay at home parent who is involved in Your kids lives, that is who You are. It is who You are meant to be. Your own thoughts about being that parent are all that matters.

postive thinkingYes there are those who are going to be upset, annoyed and angry that You are living the life of Your dreams by owning Your thoughts and controlling Your own thinking. You are living the life You want and control Your own thoughts.Stop letting those who use the negative emotions run Your life.

Ben You are a great dad and that is all You need to think about, the dad You always wanted to have is Yourself. You are able to provide for Your family and You need to realise that, You are by being willing to take care of the family and kids. Ben You are giving Your family a life so different from what You knew growing up and You are able to give them a better life.

We are all able to choose the car of our dreams, the underwear we wear, how we choose to eat, if we choose to be healthy or the opposite it’s what we think about the food and our habits that makes all the difference. It’s what we think about those choices that makes the difference. When You believe an action is sexy then it is, when You think a car is Your dream car then it is.

thNWSAMJ84You can think Your health and to get better, or You can go the opposite. You think Yourself to building a better business and friendships and relationships and that will happen. It’s just like every area of Your own life, we can live on either side the choice of positive or negative. We can choose to say and think “I am working from home”, “I am a stay at home Parent”, “I am healthy”, “I love You” or we can focus on the opposite.

I am choosing to think that I am driving the Hilux 4 wheel drive ute which is nebula blue, which is my dream car, I am choosing to think that I am a stay at home dad able to provide for the family, take them on holidays and enjoy those holidays with them, I am choosing to think that we are going to New Zealand in August 2017 to visit the family. I am also choosing to think about all those fun amusement park rides and Walt-Disney-2adventures with Jenny and our family. Aaaahhhh the power of our own thoughts.

I am just curious what are You achieve, what are You constantly thinking about?, for many years my own thoughts were on the opposite end of the spectrum the memories which had caused so much pain.

Thank You to my amazing wonderful friends and mentors Ken Klemm, Linda and Michael Dlouhy for Your ongoing love support and encouragement. For constantly being there,

Thank You to my amazing loving wonderful wife Jenny for Your own love, guidance support and encouragement. You are the best wife and the mother could ask for our kids. Your friend for life,

All our love,

Big Hugs,

Ben Drake,

West Ryde NSW Australia

Michael Dlouhy Brooksville, FL, United States

The First Step To Owning Your Life, Is To Own Your Mind.

if-you-can-dream-it-you-can-do-it-walt-disney-1Most people believe “Think and Grow Rich” is a book about money. Perhaps they ponder, “Wow!
If I read this, then I’ll learn how to make piles of money magically appear on my coffee table – just
by thinking it!”In his “Master Key to Success” series, Napoleon Hill ranked Financial Wealth way
down at number 8 of the 10 things he called “Riches”.
So, why does this book seem
preoccupied with the attainment of money?

walt_disney_inspiradayNapoleon Hill writes of a moneymaking SECRET which appears in every chapter of this book.
Hill says the SECRET “will jump from the page and stand boldly before you, IF YOU ARE READY
FOR IT! The SECRET cannot be had without a price, although the price is far less than its value.
It cannot be had at any price by those who are not intentionally searching for it. It cannot be given
away, it cannot be purchased for money, for the reason that it comes in two parts.
One part is already in possession of those who are ready for it.”

But MOST people will let well meaning Family members, Friends, News Media, or a Religious
Leader program their Mind when Listening to them.
Every person is capable of Original Thought when they STOP listening to all the Nay Sayers.
The purpose of my post is to EXPOSE Yourself, to the REAL You.

11209733_941528419201135_3126404278616272340_nYou can read many more Brilliant lessons on our think and grow rich lessons Forum or even post Your own thoughts on the topic and join us for the discussion. We’d love to help You to own Your life, if You would like to participate in our free personal development training please let me know.

Wishing You a life full of Love and Health,

Your friends for Life,
Ben and Jenny

“Helping families live better lives”

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stay at home dad – helping families to live better lives.

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