Author: Mentor Ben Drake

Our attitude toward life’s problems can quite often be the thing that determines our own success of failure, when we think success then we are successful. However, when we think negative or failure then that is what we are going to get. So essentially we must work on keeping our mind positive and knowing that no matter what we are going to be a success. That things will always work out for the best and how they were meant to.

We must take the learning experiences in our stride and say ok what do I need to learn from this, what is my lesson from this. Quite often beneath every challenge is a lesson for each of us, we must learn that lesson and go from there. We take those lessons with a positive attitude and say this was to teach me something, what was that. When we say ok what did I have to learn and expect success even with those small failures, which are teaching us where we are going wrong and why we are not succeeding.

It is the same with relationships, business and family. When we expect to be successful then we are, even though we may have numerous failures. When we are consistent and persistent towards a goal no matter what and say no I am going to do this even if it is the last thing I ever do. Normally we achieve it even though we may go through lots of failures. Each of those failures is a learning experience of what to do and not to do.

Having a great attitude, picking ourselves up after a failure, and working on finding out why such did not work helps. It is a matter of expecting success to come when we are ready for such, once we have grown to become worth that success and knowing no matter what that we are going to do it. Yet when we think we are failing then we often do fail. So think about such, which is your major, mindset the thoughts of failure or the thoughts of success.

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Who we are as a person is a combination of our beliefs; the talents and skills we have learnt and were given at birth. We were provided with these talents at birth to help us to fulfil our life’s purpose as a person. Then we are shaped into the person we have to become for our own future, we have been taught how to become the person we were meant to be for our own life’s purpose. What this means is that we are a sum of our lives experiences as a person that we are also the product of those skills and talents we were given at birth.

During our own lives, we are given learning experiences, which allow us to become that person. Then we also use our own talents to become that person who we were destined to be as a person, meaning that we have become the sum of our own experiences, which means that we are then the person who we were meant to be for our own future. So essentially, who we are as a person is both, the sum of our experiences and our talents we use both within our own lives.

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Don’t Let Family and Friends Ruin Your Healthy Diet

Quite often our friends are our greatest influences. When we hang around the wrong influences then our lives tend to go downhill it is the same with family, that both of these people can drag our lives down owing to the power that they have over us. We allow them to have some form of power over us as a person so we end up letting them run our own lives. Quite often our income will match that of our greatest influences as people.

That should we be thinking poverty and hang around people who struggle to pay their bills then we will do the same, should we hang around people who have an abundance whether it’s love, money, skills or otherwise then we become like those people. Sure OK at times we need to learn new skills, however we are taught how to behave by our greatest influences in life. Sometimes it takes having to cut these people out of our lives and say no I am not going to put up with this anymore. Cutting out those negative bad influences and saying no I am not going to put up with this.

There are some good and bad influences out there, the good ones are those people who encourage you to grow as a person they encourage you to become the person you were intended to be. Whist the bad ones are the ones will pull you down to their level, when you hang around something for long enough then eventually you start to attract such. When you hang around people who struggle to pay their bills then you eventually fall into that trap. Your life goes downhill, so when you hang around people who pull you up then you tend to excel. However when they pull you down your life goes downhill weather that is friends or family. Quite often we have been shaped by our friends and family to become the person they want us to be.

Often we have developed our patterns of friendship and habits by the time we reach adult hood. The person who has been hurt constantly by people starts to have few friends owing to trust issues. They however in time learn to trust however it takes a long time. Once you hurt someone it takes work to earn a person’s trust back. It’s the same with most things we need to learn from those who have what we are seeking and then go from there.

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Ben Drake