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Ok this is a very interesting topic as everyone does have faults weather they want to acknowledge them or not. It’s what you about those faults that really make the difference, what do I mean by such is that you need to actively acknowledge those faults saying ok this is what I need to work on. Yes it can be hard however each person has things they need to work on and use to their own advantage, you may not be able to work for long hours however; you can certainly still take care of a family.

You may not be able to cook well but can clean a house, use your talents to your advantage and also work on making your faults work for you. You may only be able to work your business 10 hours a week owing to medical or otherwise its working around such, Making that work to your advantage, some people can become overwhelmed with too much going on. There are a number of things which can be faults for people and it’s about acknowledging and seeing how you can take advantage of such faults. It may take time work and patience yet at other times you just need to say ok lets work out how this can become and advantage rather then a disadvantage.

Ok so your medical situation means that you have to go to the gym 3 days a week and have to attend physio for so long sure that’s no problem it’s working around such. Then there is taking care of your family, so that leaves only a small amount of time you can work. Other people have the time to put in that full 40 hours a week, it’s about knowing yourself what you can and can not do and what is important and working around such. Some people are good at writing up a storm, others can not, some people can cook others can not, some people can paint others can not, it’s not that it’s impossible you need to find a way to use that talent.

There are so many faults that people can have some people make things so complex that they just end up being unable to be duplicated, some people are too good at their job when they leave no one knows what they did or how. It’s about saying well ok this is who I am and could someone duplicate who I am as a person, could they duplicate what I am doing easily. Sometimes those things which have been developed over years have to be untangled and removed before you can become a success on your own. Do you have a system that no one else could understand? Some of the things I used to do were so complex that only I knew how they worked. Is that easy no, it was because of what made sense to me as a person I used to say lets separate this, this and this so I can tell what it has to do with and it created more mess then having things in one place. Ok yes sometimes a system is needed however the complex ones just get to be so hard that they are unable to be duplicated.

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Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake

Your own purpose in life

07/12/2010

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Every person has their own mission in life, now you never know for how long or why each person is in your own world. Some people are in your lives shortly and make a impact, others are constantly in your own life. You have a purpose yourself, it is not just to be someone’s partner, a husband, wife. Now the thing is some people never find out why they are here or what their real why is for living their lives.

I know why I am hear, some people may go all their lives not really knowing why they are around. Remember although you are in someone’s life for a short period you have made a impact. There are those people who are in our lives 10 minutes, others who are their for a lifetime when we met them. You can never tell when you meet someone, everyone lives out their purpose in life and yet sometimes there are so many purposes that each person has to achieve that you live an entire lifetime. Think about such, some people are hear to make another persons life better, others are hear for different reasons.

Sure people walk in and out of your own lives just as you walk out of some peoples lives quickly also. However you have left an impression in someone’s life by what you did when you did what you did. Sometimes you do something small and it leaves a lasting impression, each person has their own mission and what they need to fore fill in life, its known as destiny and well sometimes you do not know it however each person does come into your own world for a reason no matter how long they stay. Its the same with yourself you were placed somewhere at that point in time for a reason, the friendships and more.

You have everything already to achieve your own purpose in life, for me it’s the same everything is here now to achieve that which I greatly want and it is time to walk that journey. I know some amazing people who have touched my own life and well I am too glad about that, each day I am glad to have them around. Their smiling faces, a quick chat or a 2 hour conversation, it’s what happens. Everyone no matter who it is touches your life for some reason. As you do theirs. Knowing you touch everyone’s life you meet and that you have everything right now to fore fill your own destiny what would you do, what would you say to those who are special and important to you as a person.

You are destined to be someone great who made a tremendous impact on a person, so enjoy that and know that every day you are living out your own purpose. If that means you work from home and work around your family and friends great, if you are their for them excellent. You can never hide your own purpose or what you are meant to become in life. As no matter what you will become such, you may have to make 2 choices and go a path that will eventually lead you back to the path again, when you touch another persons life it’s because you are often walking the road together. You are quite often placed there to do something and to help someone at that point.

You may have had so much pain in your life just to learn for your purpose in life. You learn a lot from those people who are in your world, they teach you so many things.

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If you want to learn more about relationships http://bdrake.successin10steps.com/?mad=52669 some of the information is available from this eBook.

Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake

I don’t need an angel on my christmas tree

06/12/2010

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You are who you are

06/12/2010

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Wow what a interesting topic. Each person is made up different from everyone else, there are those who have the loving caring personality. They consider others first before anything else, there are others who are rather self centred and it’s who they are. I am learning a lot about myself and who I am as a person one thing that I can say is that no matter what I made a different, I do what I do because it’s part of my own self. Everyone has things they love to do, some people stay close to the fire others may not want to know it, their are those that will give from the heart no matter what happens. Then their are the natural born leaders and managers, everyone has a different purpose in life and I know right now I am for filling my own purpose and destiny.

Sure nothing ever happens without it meant to be happening, we meet those people who we meet as they are meant to impact our own lives in a way as we are to impact their lives. Everything is about choices, every day we make decisions. Sometimes you have not time to think it’s just do and act. Each person does things differently even though they may have the same personality, it’s who they are some people are comfortable in the fire others are not. In life everyone has a mission and sometimes these are done quickly others take a lifetime to complete. There are people who touch your heart once and leave an impression others who stay and never leave.

You have to accept who you are with your faults and failings, work on making your own faults you asset and using them to your own advantage. Working on them and not letting them control you, if you live by self imposed limits constantly you will end up frustrated as you may not be living the life you want. You are someone who is meant to be someone special to others, finding out what makes you who you are and what you enjoy really helps.

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If you want to learn more about relationships http://bdrake.successin10steps.com/?mad=52669 some of the information is available from this eBook.

Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake

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Married to a company

04/12/2010

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This has to do with believing that someone is not looking for another opportunity, e.g. they are off the market just the same as they are when they are married to another person or in a committed relationship. I know people out there would walk up to another person who was married and go I want to take you on a date, it’s the same in any company. When someone says no this is what I am doing do not touch them it’s their way of saying this is what I am committed to. I have literally had people ring me up and start trying to get me into their business because they believe it’s better.

Now to me you do not do it, it’s a no go area. If someone from another company asks you to sponsor them in your business well yes that is ok, yet why go trying to bring them into your own business. In business you need to show you are trustworthy, people need to remember that each person has their own individual learning curve when they enter into any company some people will take years to become successful owing to what they need to learn the skills that need to be learnt. Others do not, however when you stick with the company often the sky is the limit. All you need do is stay committed or married to a company and say I am going to do this until and just go.

No matter what you will learn the skills at the pace you are meant to and also become successful in your own time. Being married to a company or a partner is about being faithful to that company or partner. It’s about wanting to spend the rest of your life working for that company or with that partner. How can you do this when you are changing companies all the time.

If you have any questions just contact or email me.

If you want to learn more about relationships http://bdrake.successin10steps.com/?mad=52669 some of the information is available from this eBook.

Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake

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