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Never giving up

 01/04/2011 01/04/2011
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    |   Mentor Ben Drake Mentor Ben Drake
    |   10:05 am 10:05 am

Never giving up, this has to do with your own goals and dreams as a person. Unfortunately, there are people who give up on their own goals as dream stealers will tend to say why do you want to do that. Now when you do not have a strong enough motivation for that goal unfortunately the dream stealers tend to take away such. You hit an obstacle in the road to your goal and go, oh, I am not good enough and I no longer want this goal it was useless. There are people who constantly bag others goals and dreams, however the thing that shows people are successful are those that go ok well I am going to do this.

Theses people have a strong reason why they want to obtain their goal, they know why and what they have to do. These people always achieve their goal and dream no matter how long it may take them as a person. When a person is determined to achieve that goal, they do everything that they can to succeed in its attainment. They work on the goals achievement no matter what happens, even though they may not realise such. The best goals may be the ones, which are set and forget, people do not realise that they have set that goal and forgotten about such. We subconsciously set a goal of achieving something and no matter what we pull that goal towards us. It does not matter what that goal is we have done it.

Say we want a new job we subconsciously go out there looking for that new job. When the person shows that they are serious about that goal then the goal and its rewards appear. Quite often, when we give up the rewards are just around the corner. It is what life is like, so we give up just before we are due to receive that reward. We stop just before receiving the gain from our experience; it means that we say we are not worth the goal. So we have given up, we say no it is not going to happen and then we have taken ourselves out of its achievement. Success will hide its self somewhere behind an opportunity, which we need to realise as a person sometimes it does not last long at all.

Sometimes we recognise the opportunity, other times we do not. It is a matter of knowing just what to do and when. However at the same time we need to never give up on that goal or dream no matter what.

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Finding a way when something or someone is important to you

 31/03/2011 31/03/2011
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    |   Mentor Ben Drake Mentor Ben Drake
    |   9:07 am 9:07 am

Quite often, we may be offered opportunities to do something. It is about finding a way to do such and making the time for that which is important to you. When a friend is important to you then you will find some way to communicate with that person. You will somehow make the time to communicate with them, to get that study done which needs to be done. An example is financial independence, when that is important to you, then you work towards its achievement. Although though it may take time, when financial independence is important, you somehow find a way to start achieving such. When you want to find love then you somehow find a way to achieve that goal. You search for it, show you are serious about achieving that goal.

That is what we are doing when we find a way to talk to someone or achieve a goal. We are going ok this is important to me and I am going to do it no matter what. You have to want to do such and make sure you have committed the time needed to such. When you have a goal, which you really want to achieve then no matter what you often find a way. This is about making sure the person is focused and ready to achieve that goal. No matter what when we are not committed we do not find the time, we let all the excuses get in our way.

Sometimes they are genuine and we need to accept that. Someone may apologise for the delay owing to being busy and needing to write the response, however he or she found the time. Someone who does not care does not find the time. They let things pile up and have to be asked to do such regularly. The let the chores go by, they shirk responsibility and do not find a way. It may be they have a lot on their mind or stressed, sure stress does make me forget things. Yet I do my best to make sure I remember what I have to do. However, we need to be responsible and commit to that final situation or we will never do it.

That is where we need to have a powerful motive as to why we want to talk to that person or do that that thing. When it is weak, everything gets in the way.

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