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This is an interesting topic and it’s something people need to think about. What do I love and what do I enjoy doing? you can love your family, your friends and spouse. However there are different kinds of love, each person has a different kind of love. Such as that for an object, such as that for someone who is special to them, Where as what you enjoy doing is asking what you are passionate about and really love to do?, yes you can love and be passionate about the same things. Like you can love and be passionate about your kids or your spouse. However each of these requires a different kind of love.

You can love and enjoy your hobbies, however again it’s different from the love of a person. You can enjoy and love writing or helping people when they need help it’s just a matter of knowing what you really enjoy and using that in your daily life. People are given their talents to help them throughout their life; they are given all the abilities to perform their life's work at birth. They are taught other things during their life to help them do such.

Within each of us is something that will help us to become that person whom we are meant to be. As I said you may love many different things however you are given skills and things to really love which will help you succeed within your own life. Each person enjoys a number of different things, whether it’s raising kids, writing, helping people rebuild their life. There are many passions and mission’s people are here for, when you find out what that is then the sky just happens to be the limit. However you have to recognise what your natural talents are and how you can use them in your daily life. Also what you love with a passion.

I enjoy and love helping people change their lives and in their time of need. That is why I work the areas I do, I love seeing the changes is people’s lives and seeing them improve their own life. I also enjoy helping people when they need someone, e.g. first aid, saving people’s lives etc. its part of whom I am. I am passionate about others and helping them, that’s why I have a volunteer job. That’s why I write my blog, that’s why I put my own life on the line for others. That’s why I do what I do, owing to the fact that I can change so many people’s lives; you never know just who you are going to help. You never know just how that could change either your own or another person’s life in someway.

When you really enjoy doing something then money is no concern. Sure there are people out there who’s only concern is money and that is ok, yet when you are passionate about what you are doing then it does not matter. You love what you are doing. Often there is enough for the lifestyle which you have at that point. Sometimes there is not and you need to make some drastic changes to your life and lifestyle that is needed at times. It really depends on many things however when you love what you do it’s such a great feeling.

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Personal Branding – Critical MLM Component

04/03/2011

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Personal Branding – Critical MLM Component

Being yourself

04/03/2011

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Throughout our lives we have people who try and tell us what to think, how to feel, how to be and what to say. We learn throughout our lives ways to cope with the situation we were in. A person needs to feel free to be able to be themselves; they also need know that they are not going to be shunned for how they feel or their friends. When someone says look we do not want you having friends then it’s not good. There are people who literally work at pushing others away from them and will not even allow them to have friends.

Each person has their true personality which shines through when they are feeling loved, supported, encouraged and wanted as a person. However when others get involved they may drag the others down deeper and make them feel even more miserable then what they are. People who are not allowed to be themselves can end up locking away their feelings as a person as they do not feel that they have the right to have those feelings anymore. They have to push them aside as they fear being hurt because of someone else. The best thing to do in such situation is to work on finding a way to be yourself to become that better person.

There are unfortunately people who will not allow people to be themselves and they choose to make that person feel bad for being themselves as a person no matter what happens.

It means becoming stronger and allowing your true self to shine through no matter what happens. It is hard when your true personality is unable to show its self and you are needing to suppress your emotions; you may be told no you can are not allowed to feel that, you are not able to do that. You are told what you can and can’t do and made to feel bad for having your own needs, wants and desires as a person. You are made to exist as a person and to feel that nothing is worth such. It hurts and is not easy, people need to feel that they are able to be themselves and when they are unable to be that person it hurts.

You need to feel that you can express yourself and not feel that you have to suppress the emotions or feelings that you have. When you are unable to express your emotions then it’s not easy and does not help at all. It hurts as you know a piece of yourself is not there and it makes it all too much harder to be who you really are. The best thing to do in this situation is to get away from that person who is making you feel bad and to say no I am not going to put up with this at all anymore no matter what. That can take guts however it is what has to happen.

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