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Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 4 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

for many years the default autosuggestion was that of those who had grown up with especially my own family that would listen to all their programming over the years and the time came to start programming My own mind rather than listening to all the old programs that have been installed over the years. this default programing ranged from diet, health, nutrition, fininicial, parenting, even management of emotions, listening to the persons reality and accepting that as truth rather than using my own self talk.

I am needing to be saying to Myself and believing in Myself that I am able to achieve that goal or dream which I am working towards at that time. Saying so firmly to Myself that its achievable, there have been many times when have said that it was doable and achieved that goal or dream. one of the times was when met Jenny.

having a relationship breakdown owing to differences in what we were looking for in a relationship and who we were as a person unable to accept the differences between us both and how the other person was also, I said to myself that the next woman that met and dated would be the one who was going to marry. 3 months later after saying that to myself regularly Jenny came into my life, my memories of that one day were our hug goodbye and going from there. months later I was ready to propose and we got engaged.

for Our wedding, I kept on saying that the day would be a beautiful spring day to Myself and it turned out to be a absolutely fantastic day as beautiful as could imagine within my own eyes. these days I keep on saying that I am a stay at home dad, despite hearing the programming from the family about many areas of life and needing a job, that is their own belief rather that My own belief.

I know deep within my own heart that I am working towards providing for our family, it is going to happen and each day draws us closer to that day when We are free and able to do as We want rather than having to be tied to working as both Jenny and Myself do. Even earning enough that we can raise our kids rather than putting them in care fulltime. It will take a lot of visualizing and turning that energy towards that life and in the end it’s going to be well worth it.

It wasn’t until came to mentoring for free and learnt what was doing and needed to do to achieve those goals that had been working towards all of my own life. what had been doing for many years without even being aware of what was going on.

It makes little difference the number of people who You share Your book with, ask for a date or share what You are doing as when you believe You will win you will win. You will be tested to see how badly do You really want what You are going for. When You say to Yourself with Your selftalk or Auto suggestion You will succeed its only a matter of time.

Thanks to my amazing wonderful friends, family at mentoring for free and those who have taught so many invaluable lessons. Thank You to Linda and Michael Dlouhy, Ken Klemm and my Amazing wife Jenny for Your own ongoing love support and encouragement which each of You continue to give.

Your friend for Life,

Big hugs,

Ben Drake

West Ryde NSW Australia

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do You believe in Your goal?

23/01/2017

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Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 3 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

faith do You believe in Your goal so strongly that You are going to do whatever it takes to achieve it?, that is the question that must be asked. faith does move mountains when You believe in Your goal and keep on going at the achievement until Your goal has been achieved that You just refuse to stop until it happens.

faith has shown its self, many times within own life, having been raised as a roman catholic the church was a big part of upbringing, it was after joining mentoring for free 6 years ago that started to understand faith really had to do with belief; did I believe; was I believing within my own goal or dream. was I believing in what was hearing, before mentoring for free I’d let the church faith go as it was unable to captivate or keep any attention.

recently my desire was for a model train which is coming out later this year, that was able to get the model wanted and even get the colour wanted and was searching for. the order form had been sitting around for a few months as needed to have enough for a deposit on the locomotive, having enough from over Christmas it was time to order so that is what did.

when placed the order specified the locomotive which wanted which is a copy of the steam engine 3801, after receiving confirmation for the engine it came back with saying the engine I had wanted and the colour had been wanting yes! our faith can help us achieve any goal or dream we want if its to do with whatever may happen.

at the same time Jenny and myself have been working out what to do after the birth of our son in may to keep above the water, there have been many times that have said the money will appear which have seen happen and we will have enough. like our trip to New Zealand in August this year to introduce our son to the family there will be enough to be able to go and enjoy the trip it just means putting the deposit down and going from there, at times the deposit has been enough to say I am going to do this and then what is needed falls into line.

it was the same without honeymoon to Orlando in 2015 where we committed set the dates, paid and went from there. when You believe so strongly in what You are going to do what You need always turns up, like the current goal of being a stay at home parent. it solves a number of issues and would work well, it’s now going from there and becoming that stay at home parent who is a leader and friends and family are happy to be around. making friends wherever go, that life of being able raise our kids and showing them a better life is taking shape.

it’s what have always drawn towards me being that stay at home parent, the person was meant to be to make an invaluable difference in a future generations life.

thank You to my every amazing wonderful friends and family Ken Klemm, Michael and Linda Dlouhy who have helped me to start believing more strongly in own future and to become worth more. thanks to my ever supportive understanding and loving wife Jenny Drake for Your own ongoi
ng love, caring, support and encouragement. thank You to my family at mentoring for free for Your own guidance love and support,