Mentor Ben Drake • Coach Freedom and Friends

Looking back there are a lot of things that happen where people need help, its about helping when you can and doing what you can. Think about it, right now 75% of one state is flooded. Yes there is that much rain coming through lately that there are floods in summer. Sometimes you send that extra money to the relief appeal saying this is needed here more and you know that you made that right decision, a natural disaster zone is not easy. Yet it’s what you can get and it’s part of life, when things happen people are there to help in their own way.

Some people can donate time, others donate money or resources. It just takes work time and patience sometimes for things. I look back and think well its part of life, the disasters of life are what often draws people together. At times you see the people who will do what they can to help someone when they really do need it. At times you have to say well what can I do or give, it may take a little bit for such to happen. Yet when things truly do touch your heart then you find a way to do what has to be done.

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Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake

11/01/2011

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Woohoo. I just love this, what a wonderful life.

Achievement of ones goals.

11/01/2011

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As I sit here pondering about these last couple of weeks its interesting that I have been achieving small goals, ones that I did not even realise I had done. It’s just amazing seeing myself achieving those things that really mean a lot to me. You see when you achieve those small goals its saying yes you are on track to that larger goal. When you achieve those goals then its great, you see sometimes you may not even realise you are achieving those goals and then suddenly it’s happened. The achievement of small goals does lead to achievement of those much larger goals. Sometimes the opportunity you have been seeking may present it’s self from a totally different direction and hide it’s self for the achievement of those goals. Its a matter of being aware about what’s going on and saying ok lets do this.

All I can say is the sky is the limit when you start achieving goals. Even the ones that you do not even know you are setting or may not be on your official goals list. Yet its the achievement of those much smaller goals that will lead to that huge goal. Quite often you need to achieve those small ones which will open things up for the larger ones.

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How to heal those big hurts.

10/01/2011

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At times in our lives we all have something that really hurt us, something that shaped us into the person we are today values and beliefs. Now often those big hurts are lessons on so many things, they teach us to be the person we have to be to become what we have to. When a person is hurt by someone else it’s often owing to the lesson they need to learn as a person. Some people do not respect others as you do, others are just rude. Now it’s about making sure you remain true to yourself, your own values and stand by them through thick and thin. Healing from those big hurts often takes time on it’s own, also you need to be able to in a way forgive or grow from that experience.

It is often the case that people are placed in your life to learn something from there, some are there to learn to trust again. Others to teach you the skills you need in relationships, healing those big hurts does need forgiveness. You also need to be able to express your own feelings on what happened, you do not necessarily have to talk about such with that person who hurt you. However you do need to release such. Keeping such inside develops a number of complications including anger, now that makes things very hard. Unfortunately some people just can not understand what you have been through and sometimes do not realise things or just how much it hurts.

When you are angry it’s not easy, so what you also need to do is set limits on what you are prepared to do and go from there. Some people will not like having those limits and will start to object, you can do nothing about this. However the people who really care about you as a person are happy to work with you through such. To work on building those boundaries and quite often are very understanding and helpful. The ones who do not respect such are the ones who will drag you down. Setting boundaries does take time and others need to accept just who you are and why. As I said forgiveness is the key and releasing the hurt from what has happened to you.

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You become what you think about

07/01/2011

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This is a great saying, people will always become what they think of. When we think of success then we achieve success, yet should we think of failure then you do not succeed at all in what you are doing as a person. The thing you need to do is become success conscious and have a success mindset knowing no matter what you are going to succeed. You surely will be tested no matter what happens and it will take time. Remember that each failure is bringing you closer to that success as a person, sometimes the failures will show you just what you have to learn or what needs to be worked on as a person.

Other times it’s about using those skills and just saying no problem lets work on this, that or the other. Remember that when the situation is right then no matter what happens you can do nothing wrong, yet when it’s not right you can never do anything right. Its the same in relationships also, you need to program your mind to think of success and saying such to yourself regularly no matter what happens and just be who you are as person. When you can laugh at stupid things then it’s good, sometimes its what is needed. We all need to remember that no matter what you become that which you think about as a person.

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Author: Mentor Ben Drake

Helping in times of need.

Achievement of ones goals.

How to heal those big hurts.

You become what you think about