Life truely is amazing, I just love it.
Author: Mentor Ben Drake
Husband and father, mentor and coach, helping families to live better lives, model train expert living a healthy active fit lifestyle.
Being yourself
In life you have to be comfortable with who you are and what you are doing. Sometimes you have to be a little cheeky and say something to get people thinking, however it is always about being who you are as a person. You need to be comfortable being that person and saying well this is who I am and how I like to do things, when people are comfortable being themselves then all kinds of possibilities do come up. Sometimes you need to be who you are and those people who can not accept or understand you will walk away in time. There are always going to be people around who shall not understand the real you as a person.
That is ok, as they are not going to be true friends they do not accept you for that part of who you are. In life if someone is forcing you to be something or someone you are not then its very draining for you as a person; this will literally drag you down and makes you feel bad as a person, however when you feel supported or encouraged for being who you are as a person the real person starts to come out and it can often be an experience and show you a different side of who you are. Sometimes that side has been hidden or unable to be expressed until it is encouraged or drawn out of you as a person.
When you can be yourself laugh at stupid things or jokes and yet sometimes say ok this is good and what I need to do. You need to be able to express yourself and know that you are doing the right thing as a person.
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Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake
Feeling safe
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One of the biggest things in a persons life is the need to feel safe. This is needed so that a person can move on from the problems and issues which have to do with their past. For me personally having not felt safe in some places until now, a lot is coming up and having to be dealt with yet at the same time it’s what is needed. For me I know that this is the only way to heal and I am glad, when a person feels unsafe they lock everything up and do things to ensure that they are personally safe. Locking the doors, making sure that no one is following them. Their overall concern is for their own personal safety, not feeling safe is not a good feeling at all.
Feeling unsafe somewhere puts even more strain on the relationship. Also the person who feels unsafe is constantly on edge, they do not feel comfortable at all. Therefore that person needs to find a way to be safe, for some people they can only open up with certain people and when they feel loved and respected. They feel appreciated, once a person does feel safe then it means that they can start to heal those past hurts, they can start to let go of what has been hurting them as a person and move on from there.
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Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake
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Your Success
Everyone has a different opinion on what it takes to be successful as a person. For some people it’s family, others it’s money or otherwise. Its a matter of knowing what you want from your own life and working towards that every single day. A quote from Mark Hughes
Your Success, where you go in life is only limited by your own imagination and hard work.
What does this mean? it is literal saying that you are in charge of your own success and where you go in life. That it is only limited by what you think and your own hard work. For me personally it means working around what health restrictions I have and saying ok this is when I can work and what I can do. It is also saying ok what goals or dreams do you want to achieve personally. Often any goal or dream does mean that you need to work at it and really need to believe that its going to happen deep down inside. Sometimes it may start off as a little spark and will grow into a burning desire. However you have to believe in such or it’s not going happen.
There are many things that people what to achieve in life. The relationship, the family, the wife and kids, the new car, the house, the holidays, the new job, the seven figure income yearly. It’s a matter of working hard towards that goal which you are seeking and going I am going to have this goal no matter what. You literally need to program your own mind to be successful and draw the opportunities to be successful to you. If you do not do this then you will achieve nothing in your own life. What does successful mean to you? think about it. Another good one to do with success is Jim Rohn
When you find your mountain in life go for it, some people will say no that mountain is too hard, it’s too rocky, it’s too steep, you are not good enough. All you need to do is say I am going to the top. You are either going to see me waving my flag from the top or dead on the side as I am not coming back.
Why is this so good as it’s true. When you do find what you want to achieve in life, you are going to have those people who say no it’s not possible and tell you that you can not do such. However when you have your own mind set on that goal do not listen to those negative naysayers and just go this is what I am doing and no one is going to stop me. When this happens a lot of things happen to fall into place as I have personally seen at times and it’s really great.
Want to know more? Just ask. You can call or email me.
Want to learn more about relationships http://bdrake.successin10steps.com/?mad=52669 information is available from this eBook.
Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake
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