Author: Mentor Ben Drake

Some people live their lives in fear as someone in their past has hurt them badly and made them feel bad about themselves. Unfortunately this can at times come from those people who we love and they quite often love us however do not know what they are doing. In order to get away from living in fear we need to find our true selves and work towards a place where you are that person. This can take time, when we live in fear at home our best option is to walk away. Sometimes this cannot be done.

So what do people do when they fear someone they shut down, lock off and do what they can to keep the peace. Living in fear is not a good thing; we can develop a fear of many things like love, members of the opposite sex, being a parent or something else. Quite often our fears can be the key to the treasure which we are to have within our own lives. So we need to work on overcoming these, for me I am working on such no longer being scared of my demons and I am glad.

Remember though that fear can paralyse us and can often stand just before our goal or dream. When we stop and give up it’s because old man fear has won again, we do not believe that we are worthy of that goal. We do not believe that we deserve what is being offered and so we sabotage such.

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Apply These MLM Facts Of Life Or Go Work In A Factory

When ego’s collide its not a good thing at all. Its hard when people let ego’s get in the way, it can be pride or otherwise. Unfortunately people do not realise they are letting their ego get in the way and that’s hard. You can really hurt others when you let your ego get in the way and that’s not good at all.

The best thing is to work on not letting your own ego and pride get in the way of things. Yet sometimes it does happen, the best thing is to put ego in your back pocket and say ok I am willing to do this and learn this. I am not going to push others around.

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Can you cage wild horses???? or even a network marketer who is going to keep on going until?.

Acceptance is about being willing to accept someone or something even with all their faults and failings no matter what. Being willing to accept that people are who they are as person it’s accepting them for all their faults and failings. Even though at times it may get frustrating. As the dictionary defines acceptance the other person agrees to experience the situation. To follow a process or condition through to the end. Now it may take time to work through and accept a situation, accept who someone is even though that person is negative.

It is unfortunate that some people are unable to accept who someone else is. Yet when you find someone who accepts who you are, works with you and cares about you then its great. It really helps a lot to build your own confidence and self esteem. Sometimes accepting someone is hard, yet in the end there can be a light at the end of the tunnel. It’s more saying yes I am ready and willing to accept this. Acceptance is not trying to change someone as well, that comes with acceptance. They have to want to change themselves. Nothing changes until everyone accepts that it need to change, it does not matter how many times you go through such.

Acceptance is about saying this who you are and not changing them at all. It does not matter who they are and what has happened, you accept them for who they are and their actions. This can be hard, yet with family they can be very negative and yet we cannot choose who we want as a our family. Therefore we must accept who they are as people, acceptance is not saying anything when someone treats you poorly saying they are not going to get such. They will not understand and leaving it there. It’s using understanding as to whom that person is and going ok I am not going to change this. Even though it may be hard to do such.

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Ben Drake