Author: Mentor Ben Drake
whatever your constant thought is that is what comes back to you
whatever your constant thought is that is what comes back to you. at the moment I am struggling to even notice some of those deep thoughts and desires which have as a person. for years I have wanted that loving wonderful relationship and own health. now I am needing to focus on that relationship with Jenny and what health do have allowing a wonderful life as a person.
during our recent trip to New Zealand there was a lot of love, warmth and fun. being able to even go to a theme park which have been unable to do for many years as had been conditioned to believe that going on the rides and having fun would make own health worse and guess what it did as it was constantly at forefront of own mind. the same happened with own relationships with others, people would let a fear destroy the relationship weather it was own or someone else’s fears.
right now I am constantly reminding self about the goal which am shooting for which is a wonderful wedding 22 November 2014. which has been own life’s dream, in a way I have needed to learn that although have significant injuries and I am able to do so much. that I am wonderful outstanding father and husband always wanted to be. its taken constant auto suggestion to remind myself about where am heading as a person.
one dream that sat in the back of own mind for many years was having twins as kids, it wasn’t until Jenny spoke about such a few times that realized hey that was own dream aswell that dream just remained so quite within myself as was unable to express such.
thank you so much to so many amazing people, to the wonderful mentors at mentoring for free, to Michael Dlouhy and Ken Klemm for your wonderful support, encouragement, love and belief within myself until I was able to believe in myself and start dreaming again. thank you to Willena Flewelling for your ongoing guidance. thank you to the amazing participants of the mental cleanse with your inspirational lessons. thank you to Shelly Bishop for introducing me to mentoring for free.
a big thank you to the Harper family for the love that you have shown during these last 18 months now, being willing to show that love and support. a understanding loving wonderful accepting family where am able to be myself and that is ok, even when at times it may be rough or a miss understanding for some reason. thank you so much for the amazing week which spent with you from the fantastic engagement party to the birthday dinner for Jenny and the nights out along with the steam train ride and the amusement park. all of which entered as a thought and just ran with such.
a special thank you to my amazing wonderful fiancé Jenny Harper with her heart of gold and her constant love.
wishing everyone a huge success, abundant health, a life of love and a huge hug
Ben Drake
Mona Vale Sydney NSW Australia
Wishing you the best in health and love and big hugs
Jenny and Ben
This lesson plan was inspired by chapter 1 introduction from think and grow rich the 30 day mental cleanse.
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using the fears which others place on us
we must use the fears which others place upon us as fuel to achieve our own goals. each of us has been given a road map which needs to be completed in order to achieve that success, for every person it is different.
personally that road map involves improving own health and working towards such regularly. I have worked on such for years, yet the area that held that back was own family and their habits, which are completely different from theirs. for many years I was too scared to go against the grain of the family owing to a lot of intense anger which came when spoke up. I have to let that anger which often came from others out of fear go.
there were so many dreams which were smashed against the rocks owing to advisors who really were unqualified to give that advice at that time. they knew nothing about what was attempting to achieve, during these last 12 months one area that have noticed is that no matter who says Ben do you know how much work is involved or how big a project that is I just say yes and keep on going. its own way of finding out who is willing to support such and who isn’t.
the people who knock that goal are attempting to instil that fear and I will no longer let such run own life. I am going to have that life of own dreams with own kids sure I am a great parent, I refuse to let the false reality get to me. I refuse to let those demons have control anymore, I am a wonderful father, a wonderful adopted father, a wonderful husband, who can easily take care of his own personal family, I am able to build that business which will be there for own kids.
I am able to drive the dream car of a Toyota Hilux blue which is a 4 wd, manual with, cd player and ipod connectivity, Bluetooth. I am able to provide that family home for own family, allowing others to visit as they want and having friends over for tea as want. walking this road has shown just how different I am from the normal, those who really are stuck and own family. i have grown as a person and become a beta stronger person over the last 10 years because i have been around personal development and network marketing.
I am going to go on that dream honeyhoon which Jenny and myself are designing leaving 20 December for Christmas in Canada with a sleigh ride in the snow, followed by florida with Disney world, finally off to Hawaii before heading home, returning to Australia around 11 Jan 2015. once when I expressed about a white Christmas a colleague turned around saying why do you want a white Christmas I had so many in England, yet to me its been a dream for many years. just like horse riding, white water rafting, even having twins, for years I was too scared to even consider doing such. these days I am now around such wonderful positive people who are fantastic and inspiring.
“one is never through with a thought” Napoleon Hill so are those thoughts that we are picking up from others ever finished within their own minds, we let their state of fear get to us and suddenly it becomes a mess. so we must stop this control and allow the positives to take over. this is where we get around that mastermind of positive influences that can support us to stop it by switching our minds to the positive and allowing those positive events to occur.
a big thank you to Michael Dlouhy and Ken Klemm for guiding and believing within myself. Yet also for teaching me to dream again and to recognise those dreams which still sat burning within. your love, acceptance, support and encouragement has been a lifeline. Thank you to Willena for your support and encouragement, to shelly bishop who introduced me to mentoring for free thank you so much.
finally thanks to the ever amazing Jenny Harper who is able to assist when need that support and can talk to about whats going on, thank you for your ongoing love, support, encouragement, hugs, you are the best hun,
wishing you abundant success, a wonderful life of love, health and a huge hug
Ben Drake
Mona Vale Sydney NSW
(in Auckland for the week)
Wishing you the best in health and love and big hugs
Jenny and Ben
This lesson plan was inspired by chapter from think and grow rich the 30 day mental cleanse.
You can participate in the 30 day mental cleanse at http://www.30daycleanse.com
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Does making a living interfere with living your life????
Click here to download our free eBook success in 10 steps
ben@ben-drake.com
+61294467366 Feel free to call anytime
