Author: Mentor Ben Drake

There were some pretty major lessons that learnt from the time working on building

relationships with others, even from getting to know people over the years. They were the lessons that needed to learn for own future, looking back they were the lessons which were needed. These were lessons that were so applicable even within own business life.

So what were the lesson’s well here they are.

Be yourself

You are unable to be anyone else other than Yourself, that was a hard lesson yet it was one that was needed.

For years I would just do what others said in order to be liked. That wasn’t being an individual as a person, expressing self was difficult as was unaware just who Ben was as a person. Yet when would express self was told to shut up or the other person felt that they were always right. So it just meant that stopped expressing who was as a person.

All knew was that was searching for love, that wanted own family and was hurting badly. Yet it was difficult to express such as felt unsafe around to speak up. That was owing to a lot of fear that had been placed within own heart over the years, that conformed to others. Yet that is being another person its being someone You truly aren’t at all. You have to feel safe to be able to express what is truly going on within You as a person. There was no true relationship with that person that was able to feel could talk with them about what was deeply going on within own head.

For Years the true person was screaming inside as to what he wanted, Ben was looking for Love, he wanted to love someone else yet also to share his love. When that love failed to come back it hurt deeply it just cut into own heart, so it became part of the journey. Also when someone took advantage of that love or trust it would hurt more.

Personally I have come to enjoy cooking, swimming, camping, getting to know people, amusement parks, travel, kids and being healthy. Yet also Volunteer and donate to charities as well, which is quite the opposite to what grew up in. You have to be strong enough to be Yourself in such situations that You walk away from the junk food and have it seldom when You are healthy. When was living with family to be able to keep up the healthy lifestyle it meant having to cook own meals. Someone may go sorry I don’t do healthy in angry tone. That is their own issue, its Your own choice weather to take that onboard.

Yet part of the hardest lesson had to learn was that the guy who wanted within own life was own self yet was unaware that was myself.

At times what You desire as a person is truly within Yourself. It’s up to Yourself to create that person and become that person or build that what You truly desire.

You Can Do This Also and You Can Create A Brand New You,
Learn to create that life of Your Dreams
Wishing you the best in health and love and big hugs
Jenny and Ben
Mentors with a servants heart
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A powerful poem which was forwarded from a friend recently with the up and coming 100 Year anniversary of Gallipoli and the unsung heros within our own lives.
He was getting old and paunchy
And his hair was falling fast,
And he sat around the R.S.L.,
Telling stories of the past.
Of a war that he once fought in
And the deeds that he had done,
In his exploits with his mates;
They were heroes, every one.
And 'tho sometimes to his neighbours
His tales became a joke,
All his mates listened quietly
For they knew where of he spoke.
But we'll hear his tales no longer,
For ol' Jack has passed away,
And the world's a little poorer
For a Digger died today.
He won't be mourned by many,
Just his children and his wife.
For he lived an ordinary,
Very quiet sort of life.
He held a job and raised a family,
Going quietly on his way;
And the world won't note his passing,
'Tho a Digger died today.
When politicians leave this earth,
Their bodies lie in state,
While thousands note their passing,
And proclaim that they were great.
The Media tell of their life stories
From the time that they were young,
But the passing of a Digger
Goes unnoticed, and unsung.
Is the greatest contribution
To the welfare of our land,
Some smoothie who breaks his promise
And cons his fellow man?
Or the ordinary fellow
Who in times of war and strife,
Goes off to serve his country
And offers up his life?
The politician's stipend
And the style in which they live,
Are often disproportionate,
To the service that they give.
While the ordinary Digger,
Who offered up his all,
Is paid off with a medal
And perhaps a pension, small.
It is not the politicians
With their compromise and ploys,
Who won for us the freedom
That our country now enjoys.
Should you find yourself in danger,
With your enemies at hand,
Would you really want some cop-out,
With his ever-waffling stand?
Or would you want a Digger
His home, his country, his kin,
Just a common Digger,
Who would fight until the end?
He was just a common Digger,
And his ranks are growing thin,
But his presence should remind us
We may need his likes again.
For when countries are in conflict,
We find the Digger's part,
Is to clean up all the troubles
That the politicians start.
If we cannot do him honour
While he's here to hear the praise,
Then at least let's give him homage
At the ending of his days.
Perhaps just a simple headline
In the paper that might say:
"OUR COUNTRY IS IN MOURNING,
A DIGGER DIED TODAY."
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A very powerful video on keeping health,
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rGgoCm1hofM

This chapter was a big reminder about having let fear and those negative influences run own life, letting them go. There have been many times that have needed to go against the grain of the family, however it scared self to do such. Owing to its influence on own self, yet the biggest reminder was that the key to own success just happened to be having achieved the health always desired.

That means working on own health, making the healthy choices daily and working on improving own health. It means walking away from that diet that once knew and being at the gym regularly, eating healthy, attending the pilaties class regularly, going for walks and being physically active. Throughout these few years I have wanted to achieve this health, it’s been like what do you do, how do you achieve such. You do what other suggest will work and You may need a different approach. It’s finding that approach that works well for You as a person.

Health and its decline ruled own life for many years, yet being healthy which love has started to run own life. This was always motivated by wanting to be able to do as much as could with own kids and family, being able to go to those amusement parks, go out and enjoy what do. It means being strong enough to walk away from those who really are unable to understand or support what am seeking to do, as well as getting the best results can and using as much of own companies product to get a wonderful result health wize.

Thank You to Michael and Linda Dlouhy for your ongoing inspiration love and guidance, Ken Klemm for your own ongoing guidance love and support, Brian Redding for being willing to answer questions and assist as needed. Finally thank you to the most amazing wife that could ask for, the amazing loving Jenny Drake who has supported own health goals as walk this road. You are the best, I love You.

Love to all and I love You all, big hugs,

Have a wonderful day,

Ben Drake

West Ryde Sydney NSW Australia

You Can Do This Also and You Can Create A Brand New You,
Learn to create that life of Your Dreams
Wishing you the best in health and love and big hugs
Jenny and Ben
Mentors with a servants heart
We are curious have you read the free Book Success in 10 Steps