I'm just curious... what's your pick? 🤔 As a dadpreneur who is building a business while living with disabilities and chronic conditions, my answer has to be: "It depends."
Some days, a "breakfast in bed" isn't just a luxury—it's a necessity. It’s a quiet moment of connection with my partner before the day's fatigue or pain fully kicks in. It’s about adapting and finding that intimacy right where we are. 💖
Other days, just making it to the dinner table feels like a massive VICTORY. 🏆 It’s a chance to sit upright, share a meal properly, and intentionally disconnect from our businesses to reconnect as a couple and a family.
When you're an entrepreneur—and especially when you're managing your health—every single moment of connection is precious. You learn that it’s less about where you eat and more about why you're together.
It’s about being intentional. It's about supporting each other's dreams and needs. Building a business is hard. Building a strong relationship through life's challenges is even more important.
So, I want to know! How do you and your partner build connection, especially on the tough days? Are you team "Breakfast in Bed" or "Dinner at the Table"?
Drop your choice and tell me why in the comments! 👇
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😎❤️🏋♂️ I had to take responsibility for my own health. That single decision changed everything for me and my family. Call to Action: If you're feeling that same pull but don't know where to begin, send me a DM with the word "START". I'd love to share what worked for me.
About the Author and Our Supporters
Author: Benjamin "Ben" Mathew Drake of Coach Freedom and Friends
Supported By:
Mentor Ben Drake: Get your free eBook, Success in 10 Steps, written by Linda and Michael Dlouhy for the Mentoring for Free system.
Ben's Customer: Discover fantastic health and wellness products to help you achieve your health goals.
A Brand New You: Helping families transform their health, one family at a time.
You Can Do This Also: A team that uses the Mentoring for Free system and training to help families achieve the life of their dreams through education and teamwork.
Sytoomba Mountains Layout: A layout based on our version of the Sydney to Blue Mountains with mountain ranges.
A Brand New You: Helping families transform their health, one family at a time.
You Can Do This Also: A team that uses the Mentoring for Free system and training to help families achieve the life of their dreams through education and teamwork.
Sytoomba Mountains Layout: A layout based on our version of the Sydney to Blue Mountains with mountain ranges.
For the Disabled Network Marketer: Rewriting Your Relationship Story, One Authentic Connection at a Time
Growing up with a disability and a chronic condition often meant living in a world that wasn't quite built for me. Beyond the physical barriers, there was another, more subtle, and perhaps more profound, challenge: learning how to build relationships.
When you're frequently in and out of hospitals, or when your energy levels are unpredictable, or when physical differences set you apart, the typical playground dynamics or easy social cues often get missed. For me, childhood wasn't a masterclass in effortlessly making friends, navigating social hierarchies, or understanding the subtle art of connection. Instead, it was often a lesson in observation from the sidelines, and sometimes, unintentional isolation. This meant that by the time I entered adulthood – and especially when I stepped into the world of network marketing and entrepreneurship – I carried a significant handicap. Not the one defined by my physical body, but a social one. I hadn't developed those innate, unconscious relationship skills that many take for granted: how to effortlessly build rapport, create trust quickly, or nurture long-term connections.
The Unseen Challenge in Business
In network marketing, direct sales, or any entrepreneurial venture, relationships aren't just a nice-to-have; they are the currency of your business. Your team, your customers, your mentors – they all hinge on your ability to connect authentically.
When I started, I tried to mimic what I saw others doing. I pushed for sales, focused on the product, and tried to "network" in a very transactional way. But it felt forced, inauthentic, and frankly, draining. It often led to rejections that stung far more deeply because they echoed the feelings of social awkwardness from my past. My chronic condition meant my energy was already limited, and wasting it on ineffective, uncomfortable interactions was a fast track to burnout.
I realized I couldn't "fake it till I make it" with relationships. I needed to learn it. I needed to unlearn the patterns of childhood isolation and consciously build the skills I hadn't acquired naturally.
Rewriting Your Relationship Story
This journey has been one of intentional self-development, particularly crucial for those of us navigating business with a disability or chronic condition. It’s about understanding that our unique experiences can, in fact, become our greatest strengths.
Here's what I've learned about building genuine relationships, which is vital for anyone, but especially for those of us who started from a different social baseline:
* Authenticity Over Performance: You don't need to be the loudest or the most charismatic. You need to be genuinely you. Your unique story, including your challenges, can be your most powerful connector. People connect with realness.
* Listen, Don't Just Wait to Talk: This was a huge one for me. Instead of focusing on what I needed to say to sell a product or opportunity, I learned to truly listen to others' needs, struggles, and aspirations. Empathy builds bridges.
* Find Common Ground (Beyond Business): As a dadpreneur, mumprenuer, or someone focused on health, these shared life experiences are powerful points of connection. Talk about family, health goals, daily struggles – these build rapport far faster than a sales pitch.
* Small Consistent Efforts > Grand Gestures: A simple, thoughtful check-in, remembering a detail about someone's life, or offering a small gesture of support builds trust over time. This is sustainable even on low-energy days.
* Leverage Your Story: Your journey with disability or chronic condition isn't a weakness; it's a testament to your resilience, problem-solving, and unique perspective. Sharing parts of your story can inspire and connect you on a deeper level.
Building relationships in business, as in life, is a skill. And like any skill, it can be learned, practiced, and mastered. It might feel uncomfortable at first, especially if you're unlearning old patterns. But for us, for the disabled entrepreneur, for the parent trying to build an empire one small step at a time, authentic relationships aren't just a luxury; they are the bedrock of a sustainable, joyful, and deeply rewarding journey.
You're not alone in feeling like you missed some lessons. But the beauty is, you can start learning them now. Your capacity for genuine connection is waiting to be unleashed.
"Are you ready to transform your approach to building relationships and unlock true success in your business and life? My free e-book, 'Success in 10 Steps,' is designed to guide you through fundamental principles that empower you to build a thriving business, starting with powerful connections. Don't let past struggles define your future potential.
Download your FREE copy of 'Success in 10 Steps' by Michael Dlouhy now and begin rewriting your story!
A Brand New You: Helping families transform their health, one family at a time.
You Can Do This Also: A team that uses the Mentoring for Free system and training to help families achieve the life of their dreams through education and teamwork.
Sytoomba Mountains Layout: A layout based on our version of the Sydney to Blue Mountains with mountain ranges.
