Chapter 9 persistance
This is a big chapter for me I have found it very hard to see a goal through to the end over many years owing to so many distractions. I’d get distracted by this or that, its been hard as would hear someone say don’t do that do this and so listened to their opinion. As I understood they knew better, so all my dreams would be smashed against the rocks. I was unable to focus through the distractions or the obstacles to get to the ultimate goal that was seeking.
All my own life I have saught someone who could show they cared enough about me as a person. Its taken years to find someone who does, it took years of searching online profiles and learning to love myself to start to put my life back together. I am unsure of the number of women who have said no or you are not what I am seeking. Too many really, I have always had a tendency of falling for someone too quickly and leaping in with my heart wide open.
Unfortunately only normally to hurt myself. This time its been a little slower and getting to know the person better that am dating. It took me years to be able to work up the guts to ask women out again after being hastled about always having my heart wide open. People who were unable to understand that, yet for me I just kept on going. I was a shell of myself from what I am now.
It takes a lot of persistnace in life to achieve anything, weather its searching the online profiles for the right woman for you. Weather its improving your own health. Going out on dates or asking women for dates, yes have do it all. I had to learn to persist with my own health over a period of 6 years, I am still learning what I am needing as a person for my body to this day although I have been in the industry for 5 years now.
I am constantly learning. ok so my muscles are lax, this is what is needed. Ok so my back has 6 problematic discs. Its who I am for me I have to persist to keep my health by going to the gym, I have to keep on working on my health daily and eating as well as I can or my health is on the line. I have needed to learn what is necessary for my own life and to start loving myself again. To let that love in and to express something. In the past would express it yet normally in writing as that was the only way to get the words out fully. I was too terafied to express it other ways, I just couldn’t it petrified me.
We have to persist with our persute of goals to their attainment and overcome all the hurdles that stand in our own way. Each of us has the ability to do such its being capable of doing such, it’s a matter of standing in the face of fear and saying I am going to do this. It took a lot of courage to even ask the person dating out, yet its life. I had to know that yes love is a risk and I can risk that at times will feel neglected and unloved yet I have to speak up at those times.
Persistance is the willingness to do whatever it may take to obtain the goal and that is the thing, for me now I am saying when I may notice someone else I go no I am with such, I see a car which is nice no I want the Toyota Hilux. Its being focused on that and which I want, persisting and saying this is what I am going to achieve.
Thank you to Michael, Willena, Ken, Brian, David for all your inspiration and guidance when its needed. Thank you to all the mental cleanse participents for your inspirational lessons. Abundent love and hugs,
Ben Drake
Mona Vale, Sydney NSW Australia
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