It’s your sponsor’s fault.

It’s your sponsor’s fault.
Success or failure.
If it is your sponsor’s responsibility whether you succeed or fail, then you should at least give your sponsor the authority to control every aspect of your life.
Since we certainly don’t want our sponsor controlling our actions and dictating exactly what we do every day, we can’t hold our sponsor responsible for our results.

This is so true, thank you Tom Big Al for yet another wonderful lesson.