Month: May 2011

Happiness is an individuals state of mind. Only you know what is going to make you happy as a person whether that’s a relationship; a friendship or something else. You hold the key to your own happiness and only you can determine what is going to make you a happier person. No one else can determine such as they are not yourself. People can guide and advise you however ultimately happiness is our own responsibility.

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Ben Drake

Our lives are filled with lessons for each of us to learn something new and to become a stronger better person. They are designed so we can become a much better person and become who we were meant to be as a person. This means that we must learn from those things that happen in our own lives, we must learn from the lessons. The good and bad ones teach us to become that person nothing more, they give us the strength to be the individual we need to be for our own future.

Sometimes the bad ones are designed also to show us our strength and the good things in our lives and where we must go as a person making us realise what we have to do. It becomes a matter of; ok what is the reason for such or what I am to learn from such; it just takes work and time, sometimes you need so many things to learn from it all. Each person has their own lessons, which they must learn to become stronger and better. Becoming the person, they had to become.

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Ben Drake

Healthy Aging - Strength Training and Protein are Key

Walking the road of life is never easy. What we need to do is become a better person. What we really need to do is work on becoming a much better person as a whole. We need to work on starting to develop ourselves into a much better person. A person is never the same; you are either progressing as a person or declining. As there is no middle ground, we have to grow as a person or we will soon start to decline.

Becoming a better person is about learning those skills that you need to and having an awareness of what skills you need as well as which barriers you may need to conquer yourself. Which fears and what scares you, then going out there and doing such. Becoming a stronger better person for such, you can do this only through personal development and improving yourself with courses, trainings and much more.

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Ben Drake

A very interesting thing is that you cannot force someone to love you just as you want. You may want another someone to love you as a lover; however ultimately you are unable to make them love you just the way you want them to. People choose to fall in and out of love by choosing to no longer commit to a relationship or a friendship. They choose to say I do not want your friendship anymore and many other things. Now the hard part is that some people may love you but suddenly choose to no longer love you for who you are.

Love is about choice, you must choose to love that person everyday or it is not going to work at all. Therefore, love is about choice. When you wake up having been abused or hurt by someone whom you live with then it does not help the love or relationship at all; once someone starts abusing or hurting someone else owing to no love then it makes it very hard, the people who put you down are the ones who do not love themselves. They do not know love themselves and find it hard to show it to others.

In order to love someone else you have to be able to love yourself your good and bad points. Yet also forgive those who have really hurt you. The pain may still be there yet you have to release that hurt as a person. Ultimately, you cannot force anyone to love you no matter what happens. The person must choose to love you as a person.

Would you like to learn how to create better relationships, you can down load our free eBook or you can visit to be mentored for free on how you can create those lifelong relationships which will help propel your life forwards.

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Ben Drake