The law of averages

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The law of averages speaks about what you give out comes back to you. Think about it each person has to give a certain amount prior to things working for them; each person has a certain set of numbers prior to them achieving success in any calling at all. You may need to date or go through countless potential dates and look at countless personal profiles prior to finding your partner or that next person to date. It’s the same in business, network marketing, everything in life.

Essentially you need to do those numbers before you achieve your goal. Now some people get instant success that they are happy, however after a quick success they give up as they are no longer receiving any form of success. These people give up saying it’s too hard, however the universe is saying no you need to become worth more before you can achieve your next success. I have seen it happen in my own life.

Yet often you need to keep on going and say no this is what I am going to do. Old man fear quite often stands before us and obtaining that goal which we are looking to achieve, we fear the change or becoming worth more as a person. We fear doing what is going to happen and it not working out, sure everything in life is a risk. Now the law of averages says that the more times you fail the better you become; Thomas Edison failed over 10,000 times learning to create the light bulb. He learnt by such how not to create a light bulb, so he didn’t fail.

I sit back and think about all the things that I too have had to learn and it’s all starting to make sense. Sure ok I may not of succeeded in my endeavours owing to many reasons, however each time it became a learning experience of what to do and not to do. I have found the best friends I could ask for just by being myself, yet also I know that I am doing what I love. Zig Ziglar has a great quote

When you have helped enough people get what they want you will get what you want

This brings us back to a quitter never wins-and-a winner never quits. Now we have to think about such, did Thomas Edison give up after the 9999th failure saying no this is too hard. When success was right around the corner that is where old man fear sits. He is there just before our goal trying to make us think no I am not worth this, when you conquer such and have the faith the rewards are awesome even when you have failed to create something such as the light bulb 9999 times. This was the number that he had to work with, yet the thing is that when you have such a high amount of non results prior to your success it is testing your staying power.

Yet no matter what there is always! Going to be a number of learning experiences, those who do not achieve their results to start with and continue on to get great rewards are the ones who have had to learn the most and remain the most committed to their goals. These numbers do even out at a point and the person can have a great big success after a number of attempts at not getting it right. It’s the same with everything no matter what you are doing dating, marriage, friends, business, relationships, network marketing. The best way to see the lack of results as progressing and learning how not to do what you are looking to do.

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