Love is caring about someone enough to say those tough things to them. You care about them enough that you do not want to hurt them; however, there are many different types of love. So let us look at love as best as possible.
There is love of friends; there is love of family, love of your spouse, and love for objects or things that are important to you as a person. Love of your spouse needs true love, where as love of friends is about supporting them when they need such, that is a different kind of love. Unfortunately, there are people who do not understand that love is essential for some people. When people do not feel loved as a person then they work on finding that love they need in another way shape or form. Some people are unable to understand that this is a person’s core need and that this person needs love and affection regularly. I am going to write about people’s core needs as a person in a later post.
Everyone has a different idea of love and what is romantic, also what love just happens to be to him or her. Love is an emotion; yet it is also strong feelings towards another person, your family, an object or your spouse. A person does not choose who they love, love chooses you. It is not possible to just switch off feelings for someone. You are destined to love that person like it or not, weather it is a friendship love, a love as a spouse or a family love. Sure ok it takes time to develop love and love can destroy friendships, however when the friendships are strong then they survive someone else saying I am not in love with you.
Sometimes you do not mean to hurt the other person however; you do without realising just how badly you did hurt them. Sometimes you do not know that this person needs to know they are loved more than anything else. They need to be shown that someone really cares for them, which can be a part of a person’s basic need. As I will say each person needs a different kind of love, some need to be shown daily that they are loved respected or cared about. Others need little, everyone is different as to the amount of love that they need in their lives.
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