Being there for someone is part of being a true friend. During these times, you are there for them through thick and thin, which is the sign of a true friend, someone who is going to stand by you no matter what. They are the ones who talk with you when you are down even though you may be struggling. They are people who say you can just drop in; you can stay with me when you are in town. These people support and encourage their friends and love them for who they are as a person. Sure, there can be misunderstandings, yet they are often sorted out and the person is there when you need them most.
They may have to say to someone look right now it’s too much for me to support you with what’s going on for me, I have too much on my own plate. Yet they are there for you no matter what it does no matter. No matter what distance you have between you. Being in two different time zones can be hard yet it is what happens. Often find a way to work around such, you find a way to show the person that they mean something to you no matter what. Sure, there are people who do not understand another person’s need for support, companionship and friendship. There is nothing you can do about such, these people can be best friends yet they need to learn that friendship needs a lot of support and encouragement you can do nothing about such at all. The best thing is to then find people who are going to be supportive and you enjoy spending time with, who are going to support and encourage you as a person, they will also help you grow as a person.
Sometimes you need to choose just whom you are going to support, encourage, be there for, and set some firm boundaries with that person. It is what happens and part of life, boundaries are where you stop as a person and I begin. However, there are times when people will not even observe those boundaries as a person. Being there is about having those limits and saying look I do need time for me also. It is acknowledging such and going from there, saying ok here is how we can do this. When the person is important to you, then you often find a way to achieve such.
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