Being yourself

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Throughout our lives we have people who try and tell us what to think, how to feel, how to be and what to say. We learn throughout our lives ways to cope with the situation we were in. A person needs to feel free to be able to be themselves; they also need know that they are not going to be shunned for how they feel or their friends. When someone says look we do not want you having friends then it’s not good. There are people who literally work at pushing others away from them and will not even allow them to have friends.

Each person has their true personality which shines through when they are feeling loved, supported, encouraged and wanted as a person. However when others get involved they may drag the others down deeper and make them feel even more miserable then what they are. People who are not allowed to be themselves can end up locking away their feelings as a person as they do not feel that they have the right to have those feelings anymore. They have to push them aside as they fear being hurt because of someone else. The best thing to do in such situation is to work on finding a way to be yourself to become that better person.

There are unfortunately people who will not allow people to be themselves and they choose to make that person feel bad for being themselves as a person no matter what happens.

It means becoming stronger and allowing your true self to shine through no matter what happens. It is hard when your true personality is unable to show its self and you are needing to suppress your emotions; you may be told no you can are not allowed to feel that, you are not able to do that. You are told what you can and can’t do and made to feel bad for having your own needs, wants and desires as a person. You are made to exist as a person and to feel that nothing is worth such. It hurts and is not easy, people need to feel that they are able to be themselves and when they are unable to be that person it hurts.

You need to feel that you can express yourself and not feel that you have to suppress the emotions or feelings that you have. When you are unable to express your emotions then it’s not easy and does not help at all. It hurts as you know a piece of yourself is not there and it makes it all too much harder to be who you really are. The best thing to do in this situation is to get away from that person who is making you feel bad and to say no I am not going to put up with this at all anymore no matter what. That can take guts however it is what has to happen.

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