A interesting topic, when someone is pushing you away it is not easy to maintain any friendship or relationship at all. Even though the person may not realise that they are pushing you away and not pulling you towards them; some people do not realise that they are actually pushing people away. To deal with being pushed away it is a matter of speaking up and saying I am not going to take this at all, it is also about speaking to the person about what is going on and how you are feeling as a person.
Unfortunately, some people are unable to handle that conversation at all. They must learn it some other way; there is nothing that can be done about such. The person must understand that they have essentially pushed people away in another way. Some people will push others away because of a trauma or pain in their own life, which has happened. Unfortunately, they do not realise this, yet when they do, they work as hard as they can to mend those relationships.
Some people never learn that they have to mend those relationships themselves and they make people feel unwanted, unneeded and unloved. Unfortunately, its part of life, yet at the same time you have to deal with such. You can choose to live with that pain and not deal with such which is going to literally destroy you in the end. You could also find some way to release that pain and say ok I forgive you for doing that to me, you did not know what you were doing.
When we push someone away from us, it hurts the person and us also. It tends to hurt us more.
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