What makes you happy and what does not?

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In our own lives we have things which make us happy and things which don’t. We have talents and abilities, our talents are what we need to use to be successful. However when we combine this with something that makes us happy it is a great combination. When you are happy you sing, you dance and act stupid, you can be yourself, you know that no matter what you will be loved and accepted by the person who you are communicating with. However when you are unhappy you can be grouchy, mean, disrespectful and hurtful to others. Unfortunately people do not realise that this is will often be what causes a person’s life to be a total mess. They do not realise that the source of their own unhappiness has been brought on by themselves. They hurt others in an attempt to boost their own ego and self-esteem.

It’s a matter of ok what do I need to do to be happy. What does literally make you happy as a person? Is there a special someone who makes you happy, a partner, a friend, a child, is there something you enjoy doing which will help improve your mood? Such as helping people change their lives, volunteering, raising kids, talking with someone that you love. Within each of us is a deep yearning for what makes us happy, this happens to be the key to making others happy also. When we let others know what makes us happy it helps those relationships develop. When we are happy others are happy too.

You notice when you are happy that more people will say hello or want to talk to you, they want to know you. When you are happy you walk different, talk different and move differently. However when someone else is unhappy it literally effects dynamics of every relationship. When you put in a person who is unhappy it drags the whole group down. However once that person is taken out of that group it is once again harmonious. The more negative people that are there the more draining it can be on those who are positive. Put a number of very unhappy people into the mix and you end up with a group which goes downhill.

In order to be happy again, you need to find a way to make those things that have to be done enjoyable. You may need to put on music to listen to whist cleaning, listening to personal development audios at the gym. There are often ways to make those things more fun and enjoyable. Sure sometimes we have to find out how we are going to do such and take it from there. Yet once you find a way to enjoy such it’s great.

I know that communicating with my special friend makes me happy. A chat with her makes me happy, also communicating and chatting with the people who are important to me. Staying involved in their lives as person means a lot to me. So what makes you happy and enjoy life more. Only you know that and only you can answer that question yourself, no one else can do that. Just remember though you do need to be able to fore fill your own needs and desires too. So you have the right to expect that your own needs are meet also.

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