In order to be successful in life you have to program your mind to expect that success. What do I mean by this, a person must prepare themselves to be successful and to expect that success will come. The best way is to program your mind saying I can do this, I can achieve this goal and I am not going to listen to those negative people who give me all the reasons why that goal is not possible to be achieved. I have heard a few of them in my time, well meaning friends, colleagues, associates etc. will turn around and say well that’s too hard, you are not good enough, it costs too much. That is all the result of their programming. This has happened at some point during the person’s life.
Now the best way is to ask yourself how can I achieve this goal, what can I do to turn this goal into reality. You also need to know what is motivating you to achieve such. Once you know why and what you want to achieve, then the best thing is to go after that goal. You see it all the time some people will be wanting to sleep with someone only for that notch on their belt, yet the people who are out there and not prepared to give such up without love well they are people who have their goals set and know what they want. These people stick by their goal of not sleeping with someone until they are in love or married.
Now to achieve that goal a person needs to literally expect that the goal is going to happen and that they are going to be successful. Any doubt in a person’s mind does not help, so what you need to do is make it so that you do what is known as your self-talk to yourself. Take what you want to be in your life and write it out as if you already had such. What do I mean of your goals could be a relationship so you say yourself “I am in a relationship” at least 100 times a day. I know I say my own self-talk to myself a lot more than that, I listen to it at night when I am asleep and when doing things throughout the day. Doing your self-talk and programming your mind helps keep those bad thoughts out of your mind, the more you listen or do your own self-talk the more you are pulling that goal towards yourself. As the more you believe the goal and hear it the stronger it becomes programmed on your mind.
When it’s programmed into your subconscious mind you are drawing the goal to you. This is something that I’ve seen happen in my own life of recent weeks, drawing that goal towards me. It’s not just about programming for a relationship you can do this with anything at all. My personal self-talk goes for 20 seconds and plays all night at least which is over 1400 times at night, it plays in my car and when I am busy with tasks. The more I listen to my self-talk, the more it will draw the events to me. When you program your mind expecting success you draw it to you, sure it may take time work and patience; however when you work at it the prize is yours. It just needs work time and patience.
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