Life’s Changes

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Quite often we are asked to change something about ourselves by life. This allows us to become that person we have to for our own future. E.g. we decided to make a change that has in the past not even been considered and it propels our lives forwards. The thing is we may not be listening to that little voice which is saying I want you to make this change. Often when we make that change it propels our lives forwards. When oppose the changes because we are not willing or wanting to change and we have become comfortable where we are as person. So what happens we remain the same and do not change? Some of the changes are needed, whist others are not.

The only person who has the power to change us is the person who we allow to change us. We can be asked to change however unless we want to make that change people are unable to change us in any way. Life may ask us to change either through a thought, a person suggesting a change or otherwise. You can never know what changes are going to be needed. That’s the thing some people are unhappy with something and yet they want another person to make a change in their behaviour. When someone is trying to help you change it’s because they love you, people who refuse to accept changes remain stagnant and do not get anywhere.

Sometimes life is using a person who loves you is used a conduit to help you to make a change in your own life, however at other times they may not be. At times it’s a matter of thinking why do I need to make this change and is it something I am prepared to commit to. When it’s a change you do not want no problem, yet when it is a change you want great. Change is about becoming the person you were meant to be, certain people have different things which look good and bad on them as a person. E.g. their dress, their clothes, their appearance, their family, it’s a matter of knowing what works for you as a person and what you are most comfortable wearing and dressing in, then going from there. You may not be comfortable in a dress no problem, you may not be comfortable in a suit ok, how do you like to dress. How you like to look to feel, what is it that is really important to you as a person. It’s a matter of ok this is something I like and something I don’t like. Sure sometimes those who you love will disagree with such, yet it’s just a matter of accepting their opinion and finding a way to work with those who you care about.

The people who can accept the changes that they are asked to make are often the ones that will make great progress in life, when they are asked to change their diet or to make a change in their lifestyle for some reason it’s quite often for the best. Quite often it’s the change that the person really needs to make in order to move onto that next level as a person, in order to become worth a lot more. You have to think ok what change is needed to make this better or work for me. Life may through a bunch of changes at you however when you change and become the person you were intended to be then the sky is the limit. There are times when you need to consider what am I happy doing and what am I not happy doing, how can I integrate what I am happy doing into my own life.

Some people are so conditioned by others that they will stop changing and then they literally stop becoming more than who they are, so what these people need to do is make some gradual changes in their lives, when people make gradual changes rather than rapid changes they propel their life forward in small steps. When they make a rapid change a person tends to not be happy when the changes stop happening and they become dissatisfied with the results they are getting.

Think about what it. What changes are needed or wanted in your own life?
Do you need to change your diet?
Do you need to change how you relate to your partner?
Do you need to lose weight?
Do you need to gain weight?
Do you need to lower your stress levels?
Do you need to regain or improve your health?
Do you need to learn to become financially independent?
Do you want to find true love?
Do you want to foster kids?
Do you want to start a family?
Do you want to leave where you are now? (E.g. home, environment, who you are living with).
Do you want to change jobs?
Do you want a income which supports your life?
Do you want a better lifestyle?
Do you want to create better relationships?
Do you want to pay off your debts?
Do you want to travel more?
Do you want to spend more time with your family?
Do you want to get married?
Do you want to needed, wanted, accepted, supported, encouraged, and loved?
Do you want to be financially free? (Debts paid, money in the bank to do what you want and when you want to).

There are so many things a person can change or may be dissatisfied with in their lives. You need to find out what you niche and how you work best and go from there. Change is something that is very important in life.

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