Failure inspires the winners as it often teaches them valuable lessons on how to get better and what they need to do to become successful. With every failure there is quite often a chance to learn something new, it brings with such the opportunity to learn to be greater. Quite often failure is showing us those things we still need to learn so we can be successful in life, quite often there is also a lesson for us to learn. We may be shown that we listening to others opinions too much; you never know what the lesson could be. It could be saying look you are working too hard; you are not taking care of yourself.
Each person has to learn things prior to becoming a success in their own lives. However the question is what is successful to you. Also what do you do when the failures show up, do you just keep on going to that goal saying I want this goal and I am going to have it no matter how long it may take. Do you quit and give up saying I do not deserve this, we are being tested as to how willing we are to achieve that goal of ours. Sometimes we need to think ok why is this not working for me, sometimes it is quite evident. However with persistence you will succeed at your goal. No matter how long it may take. Often the solution does appear when you have changed enough to become worth that goal.
There are people who get frustrated because their business is not moving fast enough and yes I will say it has happened to me. However I had to realise I was not being successful because I had not changed enough; I had not become worth that goal which I was seeking to achieve, I had not developed myself enough to obtain the goal that I was after. My own failures have just shown me what I need to do to allow myself to become the person I have to be for my own future. I have to allow myself to learn from them and to become better to develop those skills which I personally need in order to become successful.
Every person has to learn the skills needed in order to become successful in their chosen field. For some people there are talents which are natural talents, others these skills need to be developed within a person. In order to become successful in any form of business, relationship or profession you have to become more. In order to make more money you have to become worth that money, in other words you have to become worth that goal which you are currently seeking.
Imagine you want to get married or be in a relationship however you interpersonal skills are none too good. What do you need to do you need to develop those skills; you need to learn to become a better partner. To learn how to encourage your partner, to learn to support you partner no matter what happens. You need to learn how to show them that you care, however you cannot be motivated by your own needs, you have to be motivated to for fill that persons needs. By helping your partner achieve their goals you will find that you can achieve your own goals as a person. Ok so what I mean is that you need to look at how you can also help others achieve their goals also.
A potential partner may be seeking acceptance, support, encouragement, love, to be cared about unconditionally and shown that no matter what you’d be there for them. Everyone needs something different. Everyone in life is seeking something different, when you find what your reason and purpose is and start heading towards such without giving up then no matter what that goal is yours, however the problem becomes that you need to be consistent and persistent towards the achievement of that goal which you are working towards. You need to believe it’s your goal no matter what and go for it.
When you say you are in that means you are committed to that goal, to that company, to that profession, that business, that person, that marriage, that relationship no matter what. You will continue towards that goal no matter what until. You will persist no matter what happens until you become worth that goal or dream. Everyone is so different, you have to realise that some people will literally push you away with their attitude, and others shall pull you closer to them. Eventually the ones who push people away may start to wonder hey what happened. Why is this going on? they may not realise what they are doing. Yet it’s who they are. There may be many things which need to change within a person to become successful, it’s a matter of working out what needs to change and how you are going to change such.
Below is a list of something’s people may need to change or do in order to be successful.
- Learn how to build better relationships.
- Learn to save money.
- Learn to budget.
- Learn to control their anger.
- Learn to eat better.
- Improve their self esteem.
- Improve their self image.
- Not be worried about what others think.
- Lose weight.
- Improve their health.
- Learn a new skill.
- Stop procrastinating – stop putting things off until tomorrow and do those things today.
- Time management.
- Leadership skills.
- Teaching or training skills.
Each person has their own individual learning curve which they need in order to become successful at their calling in life. It is a matter of learning those skills and never giving up. Persisting until you have obtained that, learning from those failures and saying ok there are still some skills which I have to learn. So what do I now need to learn to become better as a person? Where do I go from here, generally when you ask yourself the plans will come without much effort and you need to think ok yes this is what needs to happen now. This is how things must happen.
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