January, 2011 • Coach Freedom and Friends

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This is a great saying, people will always become what they think of. When we think of success then we achieve success, yet should we think of failure then you do not succeed at all in what you are doing as a person. The thing you need to do is become success conscious and have a success mindset knowing no matter what you are going to succeed. You surely will be tested no matter what happens and it will take time. Remember that each failure is bringing you closer to that success as a person, sometimes the failures will show you just what you have to learn or what needs to be worked on as a person.

Other times it’s about using those skills and just saying no problem lets work on this, that or the other. Remember that when the situation is right then no matter what happens you can do nothing wrong, yet when it’s not right you can never do anything right. Its the same in relationships also, you need to program your mind to think of success and saying such to yourself regularly no matter what happens and just be who you are as person. When you can laugh at stupid things then it’s good, sometimes its what is needed. We all need to remember that no matter what you become that which you think about as a person.

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Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake

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Faith

06/01/2011

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No this is not religion, this is belief in yourself. When you believe you can do something then you set your mind on doing it no matter what, this is even if there are some very negative destructive influences in your own life. When you have enough faith and belief within yourself then you are capable of achieving so many things, at times people need others behind them supporting and encouraging them believing in them. Letting them know that they are loved, accepted and special. It takes work to build this within yourself, yet it is a good thing when you can and do such.

Sometimes others have to show you that they believe in you and what you are capable of doing before you end up saying yes I can do this. This is what happens, when a person does not have such it’s very hard for them to believe in who they are as a person. However with support and encouragement people can achieve the greatest things in life, often with faith a person can go on to work through so many odds to become exceptionally successful.

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Want to learn more about relationships http://bdrake.successin10steps.com/?mad=52669 information is available from this eBook.

Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake

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A person’s health.

05/01/2011

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Each person has their own level of health which is optimum or peak when a person does not take care of it their health will generally decline. It is a matter of making sure that a person takes care of themselves to maintain that health. The people who do not take care of themselves properly often end up with complications at some point; others well they do what they can and yet still may end up with worse the health issues.

You need to know what is needed to maintain and keep your own health at it’s best level. Sure sometimes there can stop you from doing some forms of exercise, however you can quite often find a way to exercise around your health restrictions. Often when people start eating right or taking care of their health their medical side may improve over time. The injuries or conditions may still be there, however it just takes time. Sometimes you may not even remember what it is was like being sick after you have been well for so long and say no I do not want to go back there. People sometimes need a good scare to say well I am not going to continue on this path no matter what.

It really depends on the person, some people know that no matter what they have to continue doing what they are to keep their health. Others its less, it’s about having an awareness of what you are like and realising ok this is what’s happening right now. This is why this is happening, sometimes injuries can flare up for no reason, however things like stress do have indicators such as eating too much. Being easily overwhelmed or otherwise.

Want to know more? Just ask. You can call or email me.

Want to learn more about relationships http://bdrake.successin10steps.com/?mad=52669 information is available from this eBook.

Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake

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Being Accepted

04/01/2011

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The one thing everyone needs is to feel is loved, accepted or cherished; when people do not feel loved, accepted or cherished then they do not believe in themselves. It’s hard when you don’t believe in yourself, as this often sends someone’s confidence and self esteem right out the window. People need support and encouragement to allow themselves to feel capable of doing things, each person is different as to how much support and encouragement they need. Yet when someone is constantly put down for their choices or decisions they need a lot more support and encouragement then people who may not of been as badly hurt.

It really does hurt; people end up with low self esteem and low self worth. Why well people are influenced by others and their environment when people are negative or constantly putting others down for their own goals and dreams then it does not help. You need to find those people who support and accept your goals and dreams as a person. They build you up and are there for you constantly through thick and thin, they let you know you are cared about regularly. They stand beside you no matter what, a true friend and often a life friend. Someone who you know you can count on no matter what happens and they are the greatest. It’s finding those positive people who support your own goals and dreams which is something that is rare at times.

Once you find those people who accept and support your own goals and dreams quite often the sky is the limit. When people feel supported, loved, accepted and cherished you can achieve anything you set your mind to. When those people are standing behind you and say things that literally make you go oh my gosh and take your breath away it’s an amazing feeling. It’s so lovely to have that, when this happens you can feel on top of the world. It’s not that you are indestructible however its more that you no longer let those negative naysayers get to you as a person. This can take time yet when this happens and when you feel loved, accepted and cherished as person you tend to switch off to those negative people.

Accepting ones self and being accepted is hard yet there are people out there who truly do accept you. You need to find those people who do accept your goals and dreams and they work with you as a person to achieve them. They support you no matter happens, this really does help when people do feel that someone cares deeply about them as they know ok I can do this no matter what they believe in me as a person. They believe in my abilities as a person and know I can do this which really does help build a persons confidence and self esteem.

Want to know more? Just ask. You can call or email me.

Want to learn more about relationships http://bdrake.successin10steps.com/?mad=52669 information is available from this eBook.

Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake

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Month: January 2011

You become what you think about

Faith

A person’s health.

Being Accepted