January, 2011 • Coach Freedom and Friends

Everyone has a different opinion on what it takes to be successful as a person. For some people it’s family, others it’s money or otherwise. Its a matter of knowing what you want from your own life and working towards that every single day. A quote from Mark Hughes

Your Success, where you go in life is only limited by your own imagination and hard work.

What does this mean? it is literal saying that you are in charge of your own success and where you go in life. That it is only limited by what you think and your own hard work. For me personally it means working around what health restrictions I have and saying ok this is when I can work and what I can do. It is also saying ok what goals or dreams do you want to achieve personally. Often any goal or dream does mean that you need to work at it and really need to believe that its going to happen deep down inside. Sometimes it may start off as a little spark and will grow into a burning desire. However you have to believe in such or it’s not going happen.

There are many things that people what to achieve in life. The relationship, the family, the wife and kids, the new car, the house, the holidays, the new job, the seven figure income yearly. It’s a matter of working hard towards that goal which you are seeking and going I am going to have this goal no matter what. You literally need to program your own mind to be successful and draw the opportunities to be successful to you. If you do not do this then you will achieve nothing in your own life. What does successful mean to you? think about it. Another good one to do with success is Jim Rohn

When you find your mountain in life go for it, some people will say no that mountain is too hard, it’s too rocky, it’s too steep, you are not good enough. All you need to do is say I am going to the top. You are either going to see me waving my flag from the top or dead on the side as I am not coming back.

Why is this so good as it’s true. When you do find what you want to achieve in life, you are going to have those people who say no it’s not possible and tell you that you can not do such. However when you have your own mind set on that goal do not listen to those negative naysayers and just go this is what I am doing and no one is going to stop me. When this happens a lot of things happen to fall into place as I have personally seen at times and it’s really great.

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Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake

Helping in times of need.

12/01/2011

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Looking back there are a lot of things that happen where people need help, its about helping when you can and doing what you can. Think about it, right now 75% of one state is flooded. Yes there is that much rain coming through lately that there are floods in summer. Sometimes you send that extra money to the relief appeal saying this is needed here more and you know that you made that right decision, a natural disaster zone is not easy. Yet it’s what you can get and it’s part of life, when things happen people are there to help in their own way.

Some people can donate time, others donate money or resources. It just takes work time and patience sometimes for things. I look back and think well its part of life, the disasters of life are what often draws people together. At times you see the people who will do what they can to help someone when they really do need it. At times you have to say well what can I do or give, it may take a little bit for such to happen. Yet when things truly do touch your heart then you find a way to do what has to be done.

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Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake

11/01/2011

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Woohoo. I just love this, what a wonderful life.

Achievement of ones goals.

11/01/2011

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As I sit here pondering about these last couple of weeks its interesting that I have been achieving small goals, ones that I did not even realise I had done. It’s just amazing seeing myself achieving those things that really mean a lot to me. You see when you achieve those small goals its saying yes you are on track to that larger goal. When you achieve those goals then its great, you see sometimes you may not even realise you are achieving those goals and then suddenly it’s happened. The achievement of small goals does lead to achievement of those much larger goals. Sometimes the opportunity you have been seeking may present it’s self from a totally different direction and hide it’s self for the achievement of those goals. Its a matter of being aware about what’s going on and saying ok lets do this.

All I can say is the sky is the limit when you start achieving goals. Even the ones that you do not even know you are setting or may not be on your official goals list. Yet its the achievement of those much smaller goals that will lead to that huge goal. Quite often you need to achieve those small ones which will open things up for the larger ones.

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How to heal those big hurts.

10/01/2011

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At times in our lives we all have something that really hurt us, something that shaped us into the person we are today values and beliefs. Now often those big hurts are lessons on so many things, they teach us to be the person we have to be to become what we have to. When a person is hurt by someone else it’s often owing to the lesson they need to learn as a person. Some people do not respect others as you do, others are just rude. Now it’s about making sure you remain true to yourself, your own values and stand by them through thick and thin. Healing from those big hurts often takes time on it’s own, also you need to be able to in a way forgive or grow from that experience.

It is often the case that people are placed in your life to learn something from there, some are there to learn to trust again. Others to teach you the skills you need in relationships, healing those big hurts does need forgiveness. You also need to be able to express your own feelings on what happened, you do not necessarily have to talk about such with that person who hurt you. However you do need to release such. Keeping such inside develops a number of complications including anger, now that makes things very hard. Unfortunately some people just can not understand what you have been through and sometimes do not realise things or just how much it hurts.

When you are angry it’s not easy, so what you also need to do is set limits on what you are prepared to do and go from there. Some people will not like having those limits and will start to object, you can do nothing about this. However the people who really care about you as a person are happy to work with you through such. To work on building those boundaries and quite often are very understanding and helpful. The ones who do not respect such are the ones who will drag you down. Setting boundaries does take time and others need to accept just who you are and why. As I said forgiveness is the key and releasing the hurt from what has happened to you.

Want to know more? Just ask. You can call or email me.

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