In life you have to be comfortable with who you are and what you are doing. Sometimes you have to be a little cheeky and say something to get people thinking, however it is always about being who you are as a person. You need to be comfortable being that person and saying well this is who I am and how I like to do things, when people are comfortable being themselves then all kinds of possibilities do come up. Sometimes you need to be who you are and those people who can not accept or understand you will walk away in time. There are always going to be people around who shall not understand the real you as a person.

That is ok, as they are not going to be true friends they do not accept you for that part of who you are. In life if someone is forcing you to be something or someone you are not then its very draining for you as a person; this will literally drag you down and makes you feel bad as a person, however when you feel supported or encouraged for being who you are as a person the real person starts to come out and it can often be an experience and show you a different side of who you are. Sometimes that side has been hidden or unable to be expressed until it is encouraged or drawn out of you as a person.

When you can be yourself laugh at stupid things or jokes and yet sometimes say ok this is good and what I need to do. You need to be able to express yourself and know that you are doing the right thing as a person.

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