Being Accepted

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The one thing everyone needs is to feel is loved, accepted or cherished; when people do not feel loved, accepted or cherished then they do not believe in themselves. It’s hard when you don’t believe in yourself, as this often sends someone’s confidence and self esteem right out the window. People need support and encouragement to allow themselves to feel capable of doing things, each person is different as to how much support and encouragement they need. Yet when someone is constantly put down for their choices or decisions they need a lot more support and encouragement then people who may not of been as badly hurt.

It really does hurt; people end up with low self esteem and low self worth. Why well people are influenced by others and their environment when people are negative or constantly putting others down for their own goals and dreams then it does not help. You need to find those people who support and accept your goals and dreams as a person. They build you up and are there for you constantly through thick and thin, they let you know you are cared about regularly. They stand beside you no matter what, a true friend and often a life friend. Someone who you know you can count on no matter what happens and they are the greatest. It’s finding those positive people who support your own goals and dreams which is something that is rare at times.

Once you find those people who accept and support your own goals and dreams quite often the sky is the limit. When people feel supported, loved, accepted and cherished you can achieve anything you set your mind to. When those people are standing behind you and say things that literally make you go oh my gosh and take your breath away it’s an amazing feeling. It’s so lovely to have that, when this happens you can feel on top of the world. It’s not that you are indestructible however its more that you no longer let those negative naysayers get to you as a person. This can take time yet when this happens and when you feel loved, accepted and cherished as person you tend to switch off to those negative people.

Accepting ones self and being accepted is hard yet there are people out there who truly do accept you. You need to find those people who do accept your goals and dreams and they work with you as a person to achieve them. They support you no matter happens, this really does help when people do feel that someone cares deeply about them as they know ok I can do this no matter what they believe in me as a person. They believe in my abilities as a person and know I can do this which really does help build a persons confidence and self esteem.

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Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake