Being yourself

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It is unfortunate that some people have to lock away who they are owing to another person’s treatment of them. They can not express themselves or be who they are; as a person owing to another persons conditioning saying things or doing things to them that have made them feel bad. It’s not a good way to live, the best thing is discover who you really are and isolate from those negative bad sources. The people who continually drag you down as a person and treat you as if you mean nothing to them, it’s never good. There are people in life who you can be around for just a few minutes rather then a few days, others who you want to spend life with or go on that amazing 30 day free cruise with.

So what you need to do is find those friends who you know you can count on for life and that will never let you down. The people who you can be your real self with, it’s about cleaning out the junk which others have implanted or conditioned you to believe that you are not worthy or good enough. This may be a long process it depends on what work needs to be done. Sure there are going to be people who do not want you to change, however you have to be strong enough to see those changes through. If the person really cares for you then they will accept the changes or who you are.

Unfortunately there are people who love to control others and have to ridicule and put others down, they may never learn their lesson. These people can end up in a lot of trouble, they do not realise nor do they care how much they are hurting others by their own actions. Anyway it is best to remain around people who motivate and inspire you to become the best possible person you can be they, accept who you are faults and failings. These are the greatest friends you could ask for.

Now when someone is able to be themselves they feel free and love who they are. There are lots of different types of people out there and well sometimes you just need to find the personality types that you are most comfortable with as a person. You have to feel free to be who you are without ridicule or criticism. If you can not be that person it’s not good at all. One way to find out who you are is by doing a 30 day mental cleanse at www.30daymentalcleanse.com and stopping the negative talk within your own mind.

Have a great day.

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Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake