Who a person is around most of the time generally tends to be the person who has the most influence on a persons life. So if they are around people who drink constantly they drink constantly, if they are around drug users then they use drugs. Essentially what I am saying is no matter who a person hangs around they will rub off on that person. Now the best thing to do is to spend time with positive influences people whom will build you up and not tear you down.

Hang around those people who believe in you, encourage you and support you. Rather then those people who literally tear you down. The people who tear you down will at times force their own opinion on you. It is a hard thing yet sometimes the best thing you need to do is build up that wall of positivity and say nope I am not going to take this again. It’s finding those people who will build you up and encourage you as a person.

If you want to change your life then you need to be willing to make that change.

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