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⏳ It’s Not Just “Time”—It’s “Energy”

08/11/2025

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⏳ It's Not Just "Time"—It's "Energy"

We’ve all heard it: "Every dad wants to spend more time with his family." ❤️

Most are stuck in the 9-to-5 grind, coming home exhausted, and only seeing their family for a short, tired window each day.

But as a father living with chronic conditions and disability, I felt this on a much deeper level.

It wasn't just that I was "at work." It was that even when I was home, I had nothing left to give. 💔

My pain levels were high, my energy was gone. I was physically present, but I wasn't mentally present. I was the dad on the couch, watching, instead of the dad on the floor, playing.

My family deserves more than that. I knew I had to find a different way.

I needed a path that allowed me to build a future for them, but not at the expense of my present (or my health).

I found that path in network marketing. 💻
This isn't just a "job" for me. It's the vehicle that lets me:
* Work around my body: I work when I feel good. I rest during a flare-up. No boss to ask for permission.
* Be a present parent: I have the energy for my family because my work schedule respects my body's limits.
* Build a legacy: I'm creating freedom on my terms, not the terms a rigid 9-to-5 demands.

To all the #Dadpreneurs, #Mompreneurs, and especially my fellow #DisabledEntrepreneurs and #ChronicWarriors:

You don't have to choose between providing for your family and taking care of your health. You can have both.

Some of us found a way. You can, too. ✨
Are you a parent who's tired of being "present but not present"? Drop a "ME TOO" in the comments, and let's chat about how to change that. 👇

A Note From Ben:

My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.

"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

🧠 “Successful people make decisions quickly and firmly.”

08/11/2025

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🧠 "Successful people make decisions quickly and firmly."

As an entrepreneur with chronic conditions, "quick" isn't always my reality. Brain fog and pain mean I have to be deliberate.

But I realized the key word isn't "quickly"—it's "FIRMLY." 🚀

Unsuccessful people waver. They change their minds. They "try" for a week and then quit.

My daily actions might be "slow" to manage my health.

But my core decision to build a legacy for my family is FIRM and non-negotiable.
Stop changing your mind about your big goals.

Success isn't about your speed. It's about your conviction.

What's the ONE firm decision you're 100% committed to? Drop it below! 👇

A Note From Ben:

My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.

"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

👣 Redefining My “Shoulds”

08/11/2025

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👣 Redefining My "Shoulds"

Ever feel buried by the weight of what everyone thinks you "should" be doing? 🙋‍♀️
As an entrepreneur with chronic conditions, the "shoulds" can be deafening.
"You should rest."
"You shouldn't build a demanding business."

I'm officially tearing up that script. 🙅‍♀️
I'm done letting "shoulds" define me. I'm leaving behind everyone else's ideas to follow my own footsteps... to trust my intuition, own my purpose, and embrace my passion.

My path is building a legacy, even on low-energy days. It's showing my family what resilience looks like and using this business to create freedom on my terms.
To my fellow #NetworkMarketers, #Dadpreneurs, and especially my #ChronicWarriors:

Your journey is valid. Your pace is perfect. Your story is your strength.
Stop fearing the passion.
Stop shunning the purpose.

Start trusting your intuition. It knows the way. ✨

Drop a "ME TOO" in the comments if you're done with "shoulds" and ready to follow your own footsteps! 👇

A Note From Ben:

My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.

"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

🤔 Day Trip vs. Weekend Getaway: What’s Your Couple’s Choice? 🤔

07/11/2025

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| Mentor Ben Drake

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🤔 Day Trip vs. Weekend Getaway: What's Your Couple's Choice? 🤔

Hey friends! 👋 I'm just curious and wanted to ask a question that's always on my mind as a disabled entrepreneur.

As a couple, we're always trying to balance building our network marketing business with managing chronic conditions. For me, planning any time away requires a lot of extra logistics, patience, and energy management! 🔋

A weekend getaway sounds amazing 😴—a real chance to unplug. But it also means more packing, checking accessibility, and often needing a "recovery" day just to get over the travel.

A day trip ☀️ is often easier on the "spoons" (energy) and more spontaneous. But sometimes, by the time you get there and back, you wonder if you really had a break at all!

I know my fellow entrepreneurs, dadpreneurs, and mumprenurs understand the hustle. We're all trying to build our dreams in MLM and direct sales while still making time for our families and partners.

And for those of us in the disabled people or chronic conditions community, finding that "work/life/health" balance is the real full-time job, right?

So, I'm curious...

As a couple, do you prefer Weekend Getaways or Day Trips?

Drop your answer and why in the comments! 👇 I'd especially love to hear from other couples or parents who are juggling health and hustle!

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A Note From Ben:

My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.

"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.