emotional energy within our lives

925505_1478708732363299_913193697_nEmotional energy – For years I have wanted to allow my own kids the ability to have a much different life from that which grew up in. When you are unable to see yourself doing such it eludes you, however when you see yourself doing such it comes to you. The question is what gets you personally so emotional and gives you energy.

joyful-lifeBeing able to give my own kids a better life than what grew up in means leaving a legacy. Yet also having a relationship with our kids as well; that we can talk about anything, yet also being able to do all those areas that realize wanted to be able to do and recognise now that was part of who I am as a person. Being that father who is at home looking after the kids, he will read them stories, spend time with them. Attends the events for his kids as they are important to him rather, he teaches them life skills along with his wife.

family travelThe emotional energy of wanting to be able to give my own family a much better life is what needs to be used within my own business and remembered when times are rough. Remembering that may be working towards that next vacation, that trip. Working towards buying a home for our family, its that energy that we need to use within our everyday lives. That we tell our kids we love them every single day, that we are able to give those kids hugs every single day.

Work from home - BannerWhenever they ask for help its given rather than hearing from high heavens about being interrupted, they are able to have fights / disagreements without someone telling them to shut up. That family Christmas dinner with the whole family there, rather than someone always working as they are then able to buy a new toy for themselves.

Healthy-Family-Meals-52ba3a07Even being able to spend time with nephew and the new baby which is due in a couple of weeks. That can be the energy that you are needing to use within your life and transmuting to your own business. That may mean creating that legacy that allows you to be able to spend time with the kids within your own life.

Family_jump holidaysThat emotional energy of wanting to give your kids a different life is the type of energy that has be transmuted and used within our business. It may mean having an idea ok what skills are we needing to learn to do such, yet also what skills are we going to teach our kids. Being willing to take on kids who need a better home or need loving parents may also be part of that journey.

3645317622_383e999613_zLast summer when working part time for an amusement park, that emotional energy allowed Jenny and myself to be able to pay for our wedding and honeymoon through that extra income. Once that was done every area dried up as we had no other plan for the income. It was a goal that wanted to achieve and was emotional about, that is the type of energy that is needed within our business.

14808946211_00d2e6ce6b_zThank you to Michael and Linda Dlouhy for your amazing ongoing love and support.

Your friend for life,

We love and appreciate You

Ben Drake

West Ryde Sydney NSW Australia

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Most people are wanting to create a income form home also and be a stay at home parent, yet they are unsure how too and are struggling to create an income from home so they can raise their family, a 38 year young house husband is helping network marketers to learn the skills needed to be successful in the network marketing industry. So that You are able to spend that time with Your family as You want to.
Our team is able to teach You those skills to become a success and achieve all the goals and dreams you want from the network marketing industry. You will achieve success when You are coachable. You can learn the skills too with our teams 10 live free trainings weekly which will allow You to become a success in the network marketing industry, Would you like to know more???? please email bend77a@gmail.com for more

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How Desperate Are You?

Are you so desperate you'll recruit anybody who can fog a mirror?
First, your prospects can smell desperation. You can't hide it from them, and the good ones will avoid you like the plague.
Second, network marketing is about relationships, not selling. People feel it when you treat them as a number. When you have to build that dream for somebody all by yourself, with very limited help from them, you will spend ALL your time trying to build them a dream.
Be selective about who you want in your business. My mentor, Tom "Big Al" Schreiter, once told me never to sign up someone unless it was a person who I'd want to go on a one-month cruise with. THAT is a very good standard for you. Keep that benchmark in mind each time you talk to prospects. Then you'll recruit the right people.
Nothing drains your energy faster than trying to help an unmotivated person build a business. Life is just too short to waste all that effort.
To Your Success,
Ben Drake
"Be A Mentor With A Servant's Heart!"
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Most people are wanting to create a income form home also and be a stay at home parent, yet they are unsure how too and are struggling to create an income from home so they can raise their family, a 38 year young house husband is helping network marketers to learn the skills needed to be successful in the network marketing industry. So that You are able to spend that time with Your family as You want to.
Our team is able to teach You those skills to become a success and achieve all the goals and dreams you want from the network marketing industry. You will achieve success when You are coachable. You can learn the skills too with our teams 10 live free trainings weekly which will allow You to become a success in the network marketing industry, Would you like to know more???? please email bend77a@gmail.com for more
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our mastermind group is our greatest influence

Our mastermind group is our greatest influenceteams. We need to find those who are going to support us within our goals and dreams and working to achieve them. Finding that group of people who want to help us to get that goal and work with us towards that goal. It can be as simple as finding those who have the health we want and asking for their advice on a struggle you have at that point in time.

TeamworkThank You so much to Michael and Linda Dlouhy for Your wonderful love and support which you give constantly to all of us.
We love and appreciate you all,

Your friend,Fotolia_18936658_XL-1

Ben Drake

West Ryde NSW Australia

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Most people are wanting to create a income form home also and be a stay at home parent, yet they are unsure how too and are struggling to create an income from home so they can raise their family, a 38 year young house husband is helping network marketers to learn the skills needed to be successful in the network marketing industry. So that You are able to spend that time with Your family as You want to.
Our team is able to teach You those skills to become a success and achieve all the goals and dreams you want from the network marketing industry. You will achieve success when You are coachable. You can learn the skills too with our teams 10 live free trainings weekly which will allow You to become a success in the network marketing industry, Would you like to know more???? please email bend77a@gmail.com for more

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Persistence and keeping on going

perseverance (1)Persistence is when you keep on going despite all those obstacles and challenges sitting infront of you between yourself and achieving your goal. In life we are unable to achieve any success without persistence of any form, without persistence and keeping on going I wouldn’t have the experience now at improving my own health and becoming healthier every day allowing myself to become that better father and husband that want to be.
enhanced-buzz-wide-9775-1338835295-6That father, husband and son again who is able to participate in life with his family. Also is able to provide for his family. Persistence has meant just keeping on going until achieved that goal and keeping on going despite many knock backs, despite those who may be traveling another road to what I am as a person. Even when you have family sitting infront of You who may keep on buying you a soft drink you like even when they know you are living a healthy life. Its having the guts to keep on going even after being defeated.
thEveryone has their own journey. It may mean hearing many no’s until you hear those yes’es coming through, yet as Michael has said for every 100 people there is normally 10 who will say yes to being a customer and 1 to being a distributor. There is little way to know if they going to come right up or later on. Yet we all need to persist with our own businesses and keep on growing and learning to become that person we were intended to be. It can mean just keeping on going and asking and saying this is what I have until bang it all starts falling into place.
persistenceOne time it may all work for a while then stop, then it picks up again. It’s just keeping on going until its constant and you achieve you goal. That is persistence on its own. It means as Tulla has said may times just being in action and keeping on doing what works.
Thank you to Linda and Michael Dlouhy for your wonderful guidance, love and support over the years.
All my love, a big hug,
Ben Drake,
West Ryde NSW Australia
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Most people are wanting to create a income form home also and be a stay at home parent, yet they are unsure how too and are struggling to create an income from home so they can raise their family, a 38 year young house husband is helping network marketers to learn the skills needed to be successful in the network marketing industry. So that You are able to spend that time with Your family as You want to.
Our team is able to teach You those skills to become a success and achieve all the goals and dreams you want from the network marketing industry. You will achieve success when You are coachable. You can learn the skills too with our teams 10 live free trainings weekly which will allow You to become a success in the network marketing industry, Would you like to know more???? please email bend77a@gmail.com for more
“Helping families live beta lives”

Decision and our choices

il_fullxfull_163573737We are faced with decisions daily. Are we going to eat healthy today is a big decision we are faced with regularly along with who to listen to and who to stop listening to. Just like we make the choice daily to work out business and promote ebook success in 10 steps or not.
th (1)Over the last number of years I have been working on creating an income from home. With the goal of being able to provide for my own family; this goal has been a work in progress. It wasn’t until made the decision on how to connect with others that helped recently to start building those friendships that was wanting however was unable to locate as was missing the piece of having to extend the hand of own friendship to others rather than having them coming to me.
eftThroughout our own network marketing careers we are going to have the following around us regularly
1) The supporters – mentoring for free.
2) Those who don’t support us at all or those who fail to see what we see.
decision-makingThey could be someone who stands there saying go Ben go. Someone who say’s I am happy for you to work from home. Someone who will take you to a meeting. It’s the same with all areas of our lives. Those people made their decision and choice to go along with our decision
nyc streetstyle fashion by he two girls in gym clothes tight pants guys checking them outThose who fail support what we are doing or fail to see what we are doing have already made their decision that what we are doing isn’t part of their world. As Ken and Steve have often said we are paid to get a decision, weather its getting someone to say yes to marrying you. Yes to buying Your products and services and being willing to change their life, yes to being open to Your business opportunity. Yes to taking the help You are offered even.
There will be those who fail to understand what you are doing and MyBestFriendsWife2001DVDRipGoGo_-1that happens to be their own choice and decision. We have to be comfortable with our own decisions, letting those who really aren’t happy with our decision go. They made their own decision to be annoyed with our choice, its their issue.
Thank you to Linda and Michael Dlouhy for this amazing group and wonderful guidance you give along with your continued love.
Your friend for life,
Ben Drake
West Ryde NSW Australia
P.S. We must make that choice daily with our business and our relationships to be in with them or we will lose that person.
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Most people are wanting to create a income form home also and be a stay at home parent, yet they are unsure how too and are struggling to create an income from home so they can raise their family, a 38 year young house husband is helping network marketers to learn the skills needed to be successful in the network marketing industry. So that You are able to spend that time with Your family as You want to.
Our team is able to teach You those skills to become a success and achieve all the goals and dreams you want from the network marketing industry. You will achieve success when You are coachable. You can learn the skills too with our teams 10 live free trainings weekly which will allow You to become a success in the network marketing industry, Would you like to know more???? please email bend77a@gmail.com for more
“Helping families live beta lives”

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