the mystery of sex transmutation emotional energy

Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 11 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

thfor many years my own emotional energy was centred upon the family and friends who had caused a lot of deep pain and hurt within own life as that was what got used to doing, that was all that I knew. that was driving away the real Ben aswell as holding me back from being that Ben.

its time to focus on being that husband and father that can be, rather than letting all that disruptive energy from growing up and my own father especially keep me within the past, the only way that can let go of that emotional energy relating to him is less contact, grieving for that relationship which wanted and will give own kids. its also time to stop listening to those who constantly have destructive comment relating to that person.

th (1)their emotional energy creates a drain in relation to that. at times walking through my work heading off to get trollies from the collection point the mood is so down that You start yawning as its like wheres the emotion, the passion from those around.

th (2)it's time to direct that emotional energy that have a lot of towards giving my now family a wonderful husband and father who is there for them, rather than letting that focus of what happened growing up run my life. redirecting that energy towards being able to provide for the family as well as being able to go on vacation with the family whenever want to.

14808946211_00d2e6ce6b_zthat is emotional energy and direction towards a definite end, thanks to my amazing wonderful friends, family and mentors Linda and Michael Dlouhy and Ken Klemm for Your ongoing love, support and guidance, thanks to my ever amazing wife Jenny for Your ongoing love, support and encouragement for being willing to help and love me as I am.

Your friend for life,

Big hugs,

Ben Drake

West Ryde NSW Australia

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Wishing You a life full of Love and Health,

Your friends for Life,
Ben and Jenny

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the power of a mastermind group

Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 10 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

1798692_856987434345661_4707733409339672507_ngrowing up I was unaware of what power a mastermind group held, the power that the family, acquaintances and relationships taught about building relationships, healthy friendships, a healthy lifestyle, lifestyle habits, this where learnt a lot of those habits that have spent the last 10 years working to change and improve over the years. masterminding with those who have learnt those skills to achieve their goal or dream allowing them to become worth more as a friend.

thYPGWCV4HI was needing to learn new skills to build better relationships owing to failing to learn those skills during childhood. can you learn to build a relationship or friendship from someone who is incapable of doing that themselves, unfortunately not. they will teach You their way of building a relationship which is unsuccessful and You will keep on failing at building those relationships and friendships with those in Your life. its like driving a manual car for the first time when You have only ever driven an automatic, You will start the car ok and go to drive keeping on stalling owing being unaware how to work the gears without someone there to guide You who has driven a manual car a few times. it was the same with a number of areas of my own life, that learnt the wrong thinking and skills growing up being unaware of changing that personally, that was how they continued throughout own life.

best_friends_cards-rbda466d4f45841c18a2e5f34c4182190_xvuak_8byvr_512I have always wanted to have a number of friends, sometimes it was easy and a breeze to create that friendship and talk with someone like we were in sync and able to talk. other times they were forced and unflowing, it took learning from this marvellous mastermind group to create those fantastic friendships, learning to feel safe being open again as everytime have opened up its pushed someone away, working with the mastermind group to learn those skills needed to build those friendships. After always wanting to have friends it has taken years to realise yes I am able to be a friend and have friends, that I am also physically safe around others and I am able to say look that is not on. as well as people are going to stick around like my amazing wonderful wife Jenny who has been with me for over 4 years now, we’ve been married over 2 years and now expecting our firstborn son in May 2017.

thDA146S7YIts leed me to learn more about being that father who always wanted to be, as well as learning those new skills like financial intelligence, relationship building, woodworking, health and wellness, even being a husband to Jenny all of those skills had to be learnt and repeated regularly through practice, thanks to the amazing mentoring for free mastermind for helping to build those skills. it has been through working with a mastermind group learning those new skills to change many habits.

11we have our own mastermind group here at mentoring for free that we are free to ask questions and learning to build our businesses. we can learn those relationship building skills allowing us to learn to build better relationships, along with building better advertising.

Family_jump holidaysour mastermind group is our reference group. we can learn a lot from our mastermind group that we can learn our basic relationship building skills, our health and lifestyle habits, how to build a business or a model railway.

work at home mom sofawhilst planning to build our own businesses we can use the mentoring for free mastermind group to ask any questions about getting our businesses going and to grow as a person to become worth more. we may need to learn to build better relationships and to create more stable relationships with those within our lives as we have come to expect disappointment from those relationships which have been throughout our lives.

323796-bored-boy-with-hard-working-dadThank You to my amazing wonderful friends, mentors and family Linda and Michael Dlouhy for Your ongoing love, support and encouragement, along with my personal mentor Ken Klemm for You constant guidance. Thank You to my amazing wife for life Jenny for Your ongoing support, thanks to the most amazing mastermind that could ever ask for here at mentoring for free.

Your friend for life,

Ben Drake

West Ryde NSW Australia

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Persistence is needed with all our goals

1Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 9 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

Persistence has been needed with all goals within own life from health improvement to building that family of My own. It has meant just keeping on working towards that goal and getting better and better just like many others have had to do.

words-of-wisdom-persistence-quotes-inspirational-wordsWhen working towards the goal of our own family it took persistence and keeping on going but also keeping on working on health and lifestyle as well as specialist appointments to confirm whether there was anything wrong or needing work. Needing to just keep the faith and keep on going until eventually achieving that goal of getting my wife Jenny pregnant. At times there was fear when is this going to happen.

enhanced-buzz-wide-9775-1338835295-6It took many conversations with friends and working out what worked for us and what we needed to do achieve that goal of getting Jenny pregnant. We were both all in with the goal and kept on being all in that we both wanted a family of our own. It took over 15 months to achieve that goal. It was the same when searching for love that needed to just keep on going even when times were rough and it looked bleak that it just took keeping on going. It became those times that learnt lessons, over the years leading up to meeting Jenny there was a lot of education done on relationships and teaching myself to be that Ben who was seeking in own life.

persistence (1)It took a number of courses ranging from anger management and conflict skills to be able to learn to relate to others and learning those relationships skills. Persistence has been a true main stay of own life now that have been in business in a number of companies for roughly 20 years, with over 14 continued as self employed. The rich that was seeking was that family life, being able to give my own family a better life, working towards giving them a better lifestyle and allowing them to achieve their own goals and dreams.

Joyce-Meyer-Quote-PerseveranceThank You to my amazing wonderful friends and family Linda and Michael Dlouhy and Ken Klemm for Your ongoing support love and encouragement over the many years that has helped to become a stronger better Ben than once knew. Thank you to my own wife Jenny for Your own ongoing love and encouragement over the years its greatly appreciated.

Your friend for life,

Big hugs,

Ben Drake

West Ryde NSW Australia

perseverance (1)P.S. Persistence has even been needed over the course of the pregnancy, yes we’ve wanted to meet the baby although it has been less than 9 months and it means just being patient and persistent with that goal.

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If You knew You couldn't fail how differently would You live Your life

I'd love to hear Your thoughts on what You would do with Your own life if You knew You couldn't fail at achieving that goal or dream?
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A plan to succeed

Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 7 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You and the lessons from 3 brilliant friends with their insights. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

hq3You can imagine Your goal or dream all You want, the question comes back to how solid is Your plan to achieve Your goal or dream. What are You going to do achieve Your own goal or dream as a person. In my own imagination a number of own goals has been achieved through a plan often it has been one that has got refined over time.

When first met Jenny my own plan consisted of what the woman that was going to marry looked like, who they were. Jenny meet all those ideas on the refined list over the time, that plan was just keeping on going until found the compatible person and someone who formed a good relationships and friendship with.

It’s the same in our businesses and teams, that we keep on working until we find those who we are compatible with and can work with. We need to keep on working to build those friendships with those who we can build a team with, extending the hand of friendship until we find that right person. Who takes our friendships and shares it in kind.

Our plans at the moment are the setting up of the nursery and getting ready for our first born due May 2017. Also preparing for our first family trip to New Zealand to allow our Son to meet family and friends for the first time for 3 weeks in August. The plan for this trip alone has to contain where were are going, who we are going to visit and for how long we are going to be at each place, when traveling the sights of New Zealand as a family.

postive thinkingWe need to plan every area of our business to the point where we get to the stage where we consider ourselves a success in what we are looking to achieve in our lives; our plan needs to say what we are going to do to achieve our goal and dream. What we intend on doing with our businesses and lives as a person.

Part of my own plan needs to be planning for taking care of our son leaving where I am working and being able to look after our son at home. That would be a dream come true, being a actively involved father in his life, its time to create that plan and refine and build it until achieving that goal.

When our plans fail to work we need to take a look at that plan and consider where we need to work on to achieve our goal is it the friends who we are talking to, is it the type of people is it our goal on its own. Do we believe in our goal. We need to plan our goal and its achievement refining it as we go along. As some areas will work, others will need tweeking.

I am just curious what is Your plan to achieve Your goal, personally that has been the hardest area to plan as there has never been a truly formal plan written down to achieve that goal.

Thank You to my amazing wonderful friends, mentors and family Linda and Michael Dlouhy, along with my own amazing mentor and friend Ken Klemm for Your ongoing guidance love and support. Thanks to my amazing wife Jenny for Your love support and encouragement, thanks to our Son for the love Your bring. Thanks to everyone for Your own friendship and love,

Ben drake

West Ryde NSW Australia

    Michael Dlouhy Brooksville, FL, United States

    Chapter 7 Organized Planning

    Keep in mind these facts:—

    First. You are engaged in an undertaking of major importance to you. To be sure of success,

    you must have plans which are faultless.

    Second. You must have the advantage of the experience, education, native ability and imagination

    of other minds. This is in harmony with the methods followed by every person who has accumulated

    a great fortune.

    No individual has sufficient experience, education, native ability, and knowledge to insure the

    accumulation of a great fortune, without the cooperation of other people. Every plan you adopt,

    in your endeavor to accumulate wealth, should be the joint creation of yourself and every other

    member of your “Master Mind” group.

    You may originate your own plans, either in whole or in part, but SEE THAT THOSE PLANS ARE

    CHECKED, AND APPROVED BY THE MEMBERS OF YOUR “MASTER MIND” ALLIANCE.th (1)

    It should be encouraging to know that practically all the great fortunes began in the form of

    compensation for personal services, or from the sale of IDEAS. What else, except ideas and

    personal services, would one not possessed of property have to give in return for riches?

    Broadly speaking, there are two types of people in the world. One type is known as LEADERS,

    and the other as FOLLOWERS. Decide at the outset whether you intend to become a leader in

    your chosen calling, or remain a follower.

    The difference in compensation is vast. The follower cannot reasonably expect the compensation

    to which a leader is entitled, although many followers make the mistake of expecting such pay.

    HOW TIMES HAVE CHANGED! That is just the point I am trying to emphasize. TIMES HAVE CHANGED!

    Moreover, the change is reflected not merely in railroad offices and on street cars, but in other

    walks of life as well. The “public-be-damned” policy is now passé. It has been supplanted by the

    “we-are-obligingly-at-your-service, sir,” policy.

    Margi Starr Springfield, Ohio, USA

    I love organization. I want my Sharpie pens in a certain place on my desk so I can find them. I don’t like a lot of clutter because it messes with my mind.

    That being said, my morning routine is not all that super organized.

    I get up around 7 AM, have a cup of coffee, and spend time with my husband. At 8:30 three days a week I head to the gym. The rest of the day I’m working my insurance job, taking care of my mom, doing house
    hold stuff, and squeezing in my network marketing business when I can.

    The other day I stumbled across a YouTube video called The Morning Miracle. There are lots of videos out there by people who are loving their early morning "Organized Planning."

    thStudies show that successful people get up early. Hal Elrod has made a study of what these people do during that FIRST hour. He identified 6 basic areas and it seemed most successful people were doing 2 or 3 out of the six things. He decided to do ALL SIX and has been astonished at the results in his life and financial success. The acronym SAVERS takes you through ALL SIX areas.

    S - Silence (Prayer & Meditation)

    A – Affirmations (Results oriented; articulate exactly what you want and your level of commitment, why you want it, and when you want it)

    V – Visualize (visualize you doing the actions and feeling the emotions)

    E – Exercise (When Robert Kiyosaki was introduced to The Miracle Morning, he added 3 minutes of exercise to his Morning Miracle routine even though he was exercising later. He was surprised at the results. Even if you are going to the gym later, do something to get your blood pumping to your brain. A few jumping jacks or yoga poses will make a difference.)

    R – Reading (a personal development book, business book, Scripture, etc.)

    S – Scribing (writing down your thoughts)

    As a newbie at this, I started with 4 minutes each for the first 4 areas. Reading and Scribing take me a little longer. I set an alarm on my phone to keep me moving through the steps so that I could accomplish all of them. You choose the amount of time for each area.

    I’m already experiencing a wonderful improvement in my attitude and seeing life with greater clarity. My mind seems supercharged as I go through my day. Whatever I read and write seems more anchored in my mind; I "see" it throughout the rest of my day.

    Here’s to an Organized Miracle Morning!

    Margi “Shining” Starr

    Bob Shoaf Alamogordo, NM, USA

    11CHAPTER 7a

    ORGANIZED PLANNING: THE CRYSTALLIZATION OF DESIRE INTO ACTION

    The Sixth Step toward Riches

    Here is another Chapter, where Napoleon Hill references Chapter 2 Desire, The

    First Step toward Riches. I did not get Chapters 2, 3 and 4 until the third time

    through this book, Think and Grow Rich. But I sure got it then. I put the

    results of Chapters 2 on a 4" x 6" card. I copied the 5 Steps from Chapter 3

    onto those cards. I created 2 autosuggestions (self-talks) from Napoleon Hill's

    suggestions in Chapter 4. I read these cards in their entirety twice daily. Once

    before reading my email in the morning and the second time, the last thing I do

    before laying my head down to go to sleep.

    So why should we be so concerned about Chapter 2 Desire? It's where everything

    in your "Why" begins to be created. If you didn't create your "Why", may I

    suggest you are not being COACHABLE. COACHABLE means you following a proven

    system. If you did the opposite of what you were supposed to do, which is not

    following instructions, may I suggest you are like a boat without a rudder? You

    can't expect to be successful from this Mentoring For Free training.

    Yes, this is work. Notice this industry is called Network Marketing with the

    emphasis on the work.

    If you continue to go through the 15 chapters, there is hope for you. So let's

    see what Napoleon Hill recommends.

    quotes-inspirational-motivational-quotes-self-improvement-success-faith-belief-courage-quotes-hard-work-happiness-joy-faith-courage-belief-my-perfect-line-13He suggests:

    1. Ally yourself with a group of people who can make use of the mastermind

    groups here in Mentoring For Free. Get on calls consistently. Develop a

    relationship with members of the mastermind groups.

    2. Decide the advantages and benefits you may offer in return for their

    cooperation. One of the best you can offer is to participate, speak up

    and post lessons here in Think and Grow Rich Lessons.

    3. Meet at least twice weekly, the more the better. We have 9 weekly calls.

    4. Have PERFECT HARMONY with each group you attend. Negative thoughts an

    actions will be very harmful to you. Stay in a positive mindset. Watch the

    "Stop It" video ass many times as it takes to get out of the negative funk.

    Take a look at your self-talk. Make it more positive, if necessary.

    If you take these actions lightly, your results from Mentoring For Free will be

    less than you would like. But if you have made the decision you are "All In" and

    going to do what it takes, you will demonstrate your desire to be COACHBLE. Then

    I can GUARANTEE your success. Michael will also GUARANTEE it. So it's your

    choice.

    You have many people here ready to help, but you must take the first step and

    show you want success.

    TeamworkI am grateful that I found Mentoring For Free and I am grateful to Linda and

    Michael Dlouhy for having developed their "Why" and their DESIRE as Barnes did

    in Chapter 2 DESIRE. Thank you, thank you, thank you Linda and Michael Dlouhy

    for having created the best life and Network Marketing training available

    anyplace, bar none.

    I'm also grateful for all the members of each mastermind group for their

    participation. Without them, Mentoring For Free would not be the best training

    one can find anyplace, again, barring none. Thank you, thank you and thank you

    to each of you. You are appreciated very much.

    Bob Shoaf

    Alamogordo, NM

    confront_and_overcome_your_fears_and_phobias_with_this_expert_advicePS: I am grateful to each person who has downloaded Michael's ebook branded with

    my information. I am truly grateful to those who show a huge DESIRE to be

    COACHABLE and DESIRE far more out of their life. I am here to support them,

    however that looks to them. Thank you, thank you and thank you to each one for

    your strong DESIRE.

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