Mentor Ben Drake • Coach Freedom and Friends

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Desire wanting something so bad that it’s all you want to do, inside everyone is what is known as burning desire. Some people never actually allow themselves to achieve this owing to the programming they have received from others and the influence that person has on them as a person. Should it be positive or negative influence on that person.

People do not realise that this desire is quite often something that could make them successful in life. desire as the dictionary stares is one of the 7 deadly sins, how come and why? I do not see it as such; when you really want something so much that you are willing to burn your bridges and just go for that goal and dream. Desire is wanting something so bad that you will do anything to achieve it. This means cutting off all sources of retreat and saying yes I am going for this no matter what happens, sure people are going to say you can not do that or you are not good enough. Its knowing that the goal is what you want to do and going for it no matter what happens.

Sometimes it can take years to achieve that which you want and it means having patience and being willing to say I am committing to this until. You will surely be tested no matter what, this is determining just how patient, persistent, committed and determined you are to achieve the goal. What it means is you need to say I am doing this until no matter what. Even when the goal does not appear to be forthcoming. Remember that when the opportunity does arrive it may be hidden or come from a direction you were not expecting at all. Sometimes you may search for something in one direction and then suddenly the opportunity presents it’s self in a totally new direction without fail. A person needs to be observant to recognise when the opportunity has presented it’s self to you. You need to be open to all possibilities good and bad; as sometimes the opportunity does have the chance to solve more than just one problem. It could mean a lot more and be the key to having an abundant life.

In order to work out just what you are meant to be in life; you need to know just what your meant to be doing in life. That is the key, when the missing piece comes along the person may go into lift off and then the sky is the limit. Sometimes it takes one change that will make that person just fly. What this means is you also need to remove all negative self talk and bad thinking from your own mind making it so that your mind is filled with positive and powerful emotions. Not always easy yet it’s the best thing.

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Persistence

29/12/2010

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This is the art of committing to something until achieving the desired result. Sometimes you may go years without knowing what happened or how you are going achieve the goal. Yet when you have enough belief in yourself and know that deep inside you that you are going to be able to achieve that goal it comes when it is time. It may take years to achieve the goal or dream however sometimes it’s a matter of being patient and yet when the opportunity does arrive it may sneak in within a completely opposite direction. Its never known just how it may happen yet sometimes that opportunity is just what you have been seeking.

It can disguise it’s self and you have to be ready to spot that opportunity when it happens. This takes a keen eye yet when it is right its the best thing in the world and you will be glad that you took yourself up on that chance. Never give up on any goal or dream, as no matter what it will happen and the sky is often the limit from there.

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Your Image

28/12/2010

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Your image is very much a reflection of how you see yourself as a person. When you dress badly or poorly it shows, when you look down at the ground constantly or dress sloppy it does not help. Sometimes yes it is ok to dress badly however it not a good time to dress poorly in a interview for a job. People will think does this guy really care when you dress poorly or look uncomfortable.

What you need to do is dress so that you look comfortable and happy. Relaxed not uncomfortable that means if you are most comfortable in jeans a tee-shirt then ok, it’s about making yourself look presentable. Now it also means that if you are most comfortable in jeans and a tee-shirt is that possible in the corporate world, not really normally it’s the self employed professions that work with such that you can be a bit more casual.

Remember if your shirt is untucked, you have bad breath or are not neat then it reflects badly on you if you are dressed for the corporate world. However the more casual the role, the more relaxed, some roles will say enclosed shoes only which is often even great. It really depends on what work you do and are looking for. It’s comfortable for you as a person not the other person. Some roles you are literally able to wear anything you want, a pair of shorts and tee-shirt or worse good old ugg boots during the winter.

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28/12/2010

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Oh what a wonderful day. I love my life

What is love

27/12/2010

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That is a very powerful question, I am not going to be able to answer it fully. It is not easy to answer this question fully, love put simply is caring for someone or something that you want to see them happy. Now the opposite of love is Jealousy and Indifference. Indifference is what breads jealousy. How well Indifference is the act of not caring, essentially it is not giving a stuff about what happens or caring about the other persons feelings, not caring if you reply to a message or email which may have been important to that person.

Having grown up in a house where there was more indifference then love makes it very hard. When someone is not bothered caring enough about the presentation of the house, not bothered about their own appearance or simular it shows. They let chores slip, oh someone else will do it. That’s Ron’s job (known as later on), the let the garden overgrow with weeds, they let the bin get crammed full and do not care to take it out, they do not care about making noise when others are busy or asleep. Essentially they do not give a stuff about anyone else, hmm a very powerful thought. How does this bread jealousy, well lets see a person who is indifferent doesn’t care to see others happy and when that person is happy they act in ways to sabotage and are jealous of that persons happiness and success.

For years I have seen so much indifference that people just do not worry about hurting anyone else. They do not simply care what happens or who they hurt. It is not easy. Now love is simply when you care enough for someone or something that it means a lot to you. That you take care of it and nurture it, you do not let the weeds get in the way, sometimes you have to prioritize what needs to be done and what does not need to be done. Other times you need to just do something small and that’s enough to make the task done. Yet when others do not worry about such when someone else has done something then it literally suggests that there is only indifference and not love.

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