Commitment

Commitment, when you are committed to achieving a goal no matter what happens then you do what it takes to become the person who is worth the goal you are seeking no matter what. To someone who is committed then it does not matter how long it takes for the goals achievement, as it is part of the journey to become worth that goal. As long as you are advancing towards the goal in some way, that is great. Let us say your goal is a weight loss goal, when you are a committed to achieving that goal then you do whatever it takes to achieve your goal. However, when you are not committed to that goal then all the excuses come up, you end up finding all the excuses needed to stop you from achieving that goal.

It is too hard; I am not worth that goal. Are just a couple of things which come up, I do not have the time, I do not have the money is another one. Yet when you are committed to the outcome no matter what you find a way. We all are tested every single day to see just how committed we are to that chosen goal. There will be people who work on sabotaging your progress towards that goal, however when you are committed to that goal you find a way to work around such. You will find some way to make things happen no matter what.

Being committed is about being all in no matter what, no matter what happens. You cannot be 1/2 into a marriage, you cannot be 1/2 into a business partnership, and you cannot be 1/2 into driving to the store to get the groceries. When you are only 1/2 into your goal you stop along the way look at the scenery and say ok that’s far enough and find it exceptionally hard to get the momentum back up to achieve the goal you are looking for. Yet when you are committed to your goal no matter what stands in your way, you are on your way to achieving your goal. Some people say it is too hard, I am not worth it. They have the failure mindset in mind, going well what is the use, why bother. It has not worked for me in the past why would it work now. When you do it with the attitude of expecting success, no matter what you achieve your goal, even though it may take 3 years, 7 years, 10 years even 20 years. Time is of no issue and that is the best thing as you have worked towards becoming worth that goal no matter what happens.

That is being committed and commitment towards a goal. You can never be less that 99% committed to a goals achievement, in area of your life whether it is a relationship, financial, health improvement or one of many other goals we have. It does not work, you have to be all in or you are out. When you are committed to that goal and the obstacles appear you overcome those obstacles. You just keep on working towards your goal knowing no matter what that you are going to achieve your goal in the end. With a 99%, commitment to a goal you will never be taken out when an obstacle comes up you will find a way to work around such.

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The laws of nature

Yes, this is about what goes around comes around. Now what you do to someone else will always come back to you no matter what in the long term; the way you treat another person has its own form of justice in the end. When you do not treat people with respect and integrity then it returns to you in the end often in spades, you may not see it immediately however in the end such does come back to you. Therefore, what I am saying is when you treat someone right and correctly then in the end you will get your reward and what you deserve.

Yet when you hurt another person, then such will often come back to you in the end. The universe remembers what you have done and often finds a way to hand out justice. This justice may not come immediately, however it will come back to haunt you in the end. There is no way to fight such and there is no way of appealing what penalty has been dealt out to you. It is a matter of accepting the consequences of your own actions and going from there.

You see someone helps people to get what they want the rewards will come when you have helped enough people achieve their goals, however should you of pushed enough people around then suffice to say that you end up learning from such in some way. There is no way of stopping this justice from happening at all.

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Wanting to and feeling obliged to do something

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This is a very interesting topic, wanting to do something is essentially that you want to do it. However, with feeling obliged to do something it is more a requirement, often it may be imposed by another person; and can be something that is more of a demand from the other person. E.g., they want you to do something and it is necessary no matter what. When we feel obliged to do something and that we have to do it then a lot of resentment and hurt builds up within us.

However, when we want to do something the resentment is not there. Yet there are people who shirk both and not want to do something, nor will they understand that such must be done. They may be neutral to both, that they do not give a stuff if something happens or not. This is not a good place to be in as it can leave many things in life undone. Many goals unfinished and many tasks undone again which builds more resentment in some people.

In life, we need to do those hard things no matter how hard they are, we have to want to do them no matter what. We have to take out the rubbish, we have to deal with family and in laws, we have to go to work, we have to pay our bills. Unfortunately, the people who shirk responsibility and neither want to or feel obliged to pay their bills; take out the rubbish, clean up for themselves will end up in a bad situation. The best solution is finding a way to turn these things into a habit and do them regularly, also to not procrastinate by putting those things off for as long as you possibly can; just hoping someone else will do it or it will no longer be necessary for you to do such. When you want to do them and actually do the thing that you are putting off, you get a sense of achievement when you have done such.

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