Author: Mentor Ben Drake

Husband and father, mentor and coach, helping families to live better lives, model train expert living a healthy active fit lifestyle.

Being Controlled

Mentor Ben Drake
Mentor Ben Drake

<![CDATA[ All our lives we are programmed by other people through media, family and friends. You may have someone ring up and try and force their opinion on you. Family can sometimes think that what they have to say is right and you can be made to feel that you have no right to express […]

What do you want and what do you not want?

Mentor Ben Drake
Mentor Ben Drake

When thinking about this subject it’s asking us about our goals, what we are looking for and what we are not looking for. You see you may want a position that is high paying however with little training. What are you prepared to do to obtain your goals, however it’s also asking another question. What […]

What is in it for me?

Mentor Ben Drake
Mentor Ben Drake

In life there are a number of opportunities which we get offered. We have to think about the ones which are beneficial to us as a person. Also what is in that deal / opportunity / friendship / relationship for you, there are many things that may make these either good or bad. Sometimes it’s […]

Our programming Positive and Negative influences.

Mentor Ben Drake
Mentor Ben Drake

We are programmed throughout our lives by other people’s thoughts opinions and behaviours. We are programmed by who we hang around, the people who we associate with most, also by the media and other means. We are told by these people what to think, what to feel, how to act, how to be. We are […]