What’s a widely accepted piece of mindset advice.

I am just curious:
What's a widely accepted piece of mindset advice that you fundamentally disagree with, and what alternative approach do you find more effective for yourself?
For me, I’ve always struggled with the "Push Through the Pain" or "No Excuses" mantra. In the world of #NetworkMarketing and #DirectSales, we are often told that if we aren’t working, we aren’t committed. ❌
But as a #Dadpreneur living with #ChronicConditions, "pushing through" can lead to a week-long crash. Instead, I’ve found "Radical Grace & Pacing" to be much more effective. I plan my business around my energy levels, not a rigid 9-to-5 clock. 🕒✨
Transforming your life isn't about ignoring your body; it's about working with it. 🤝
Now it’s your turn!
Drop a comment below: What "expert" advice do you ignore to keep your sanity and success on track? 👇

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A Note From Ben:

​My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

  • My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.
  • "Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

​You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

Treasure chest of network marketing

❤️😃 I found the treasure chest allowing me to become successful in Network Marketing by using the contents.

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A Note From Ben:

​My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

  • My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.
  • "Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

So very true

so very true.

A Note From Ben:

​My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

  • My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.
  • "Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

​You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

⏳ It’s Not Just “Time”—It’s “Energy”

⏳ It's Not Just "Time"—It's "Energy"

We’ve all heard it: "Every dad wants to spend more time with his family." ❤️

Most are stuck in the 9-to-5 grind, coming home exhausted, and only seeing their family for a short, tired window each day.

But as a father living with chronic conditions and disability, I felt this on a much deeper level.

It wasn't just that I was "at work." It was that even when I was home, I had nothing left to give. 💔

My pain levels were high, my energy was gone. I was physically present, but I wasn't mentally present. I was the dad on the couch, watching, instead of the dad on the floor, playing.

My family deserves more than that. I knew I had to find a different way.

I needed a path that allowed me to build a future for them, but not at the expense of my present (or my health).

I found that path in network marketing. 💻
This isn't just a "job" for me. It's the vehicle that lets me:
* Work around my body: I work when I feel good. I rest during a flare-up. No boss to ask for permission.
* Be a present parent: I have the energy for my family because my work schedule respects my body's limits.
* Build a legacy: I'm creating freedom on my terms, not the terms a rigid 9-to-5 demands.

To all the #Dadpreneurs, #Mompreneurs, and especially my fellow #DisabledEntrepreneurs and #ChronicWarriors:

You don't have to choose between providing for your family and taking care of your health. You can have both.

Some of us found a way. You can, too. ✨
Are you a parent who's tired of being "present but not present"? Drop a "ME TOO" in the comments, and let's chat about how to change that. 👇

A Note From Ben:

​My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

  • My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.
  • "Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

​You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

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A Note From Ben:

​My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

  • My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.
  • "Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

​You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

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