December, 2025 • Coach Freedom and Friends

The Myth of the Superhuman Entrepreneur

"You can do anything, but not everything."
— David Allen
For a long time, I fought this reality. Living with a chronic condition 🏥 while trying to build a business often feels like a constant battle between my ambition and my energy levels.
We see the "hustle culture" online—people grinding 24/7—and it’s easy to feel like we are falling behind. Whether you are a Dadpreneur, a Mumpreneur, or a healthy individual chasing big dreams, the pressure to do everything is heavy. 🏋️‍♂️
But here is what I am learning on my journey to becoming better:
True success isn't about capacity; it's about priority. 🎯
As a disabled network marketer, I don't have the luxury of endless energy. I have to count my "spoons" 🥄 (energy units). If I spend them all on busy work, I have nothing left for my family or my health.
* For the Parents: You can build an empire, but maybe not on the same day you are fully present for every single school event. And that’s okay.
* For the Entrepreneurs: You can launch a new product, but you can’t act as the CEO, CFO, and janitor forever.
* For my fellow Warriors: You can achieve financial freedom, but you must respect your body’s need for rest. 🛌
Network marketing appeals to me because it allows for leverage. It allows me to work smarter, not harder, fitting work around my health rather than sacrificing my health for work.
You have the power to do anything you set your mind to—just pick the thing that matters most right now. ✨
👇 Let’s Chat:
If you had to pick just ONE major goal to focus on this month, what would it be? Drop it in the comments so we can cheer you on! 🗣️

A Note From Ben:

My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.

"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

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06/12/2025

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| Mentor Ben Drake

| 11:30 am

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A Note From Ben:

My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.

"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

⏳ It’s Not Just “Time”—It’s “Energy”

06/12/2025

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| Mentor Ben Drake

| 9:30 am

⏳ It's Not Just "Time"—It's "Energy"

We’ve all heard it: "Every dad wants to spend more time with his family." ❤️

Most are stuck in the 9-to-5 grind, coming home exhausted, and only seeing their family for a short, tired window each day.

But as a father living with chronic conditions and disability, I felt this on a much deeper level.

It wasn't just that I was "at work." It was that even when I was home, I had nothing left to give. 💔

My pain levels were high, my energy was gone. I was physically present, but I wasn't mentally present. I was the dad on the couch, watching, instead of the dad on the floor, playing.

My family deserves more than that. I knew I had to find a different way.

I needed a path that allowed me to build a future for them, but not at the expense of my present (or my health).

I found that path in network marketing. 💻
This isn't just a "job" for me. It's the vehicle that lets me:
* Work around my body: I work when I feel good. I rest during a flare-up. No boss to ask for permission.
* Be a present parent: I have the energy for my family because my work schedule respects my body's limits.
* Build a legacy: I'm creating freedom on my terms, not the terms a rigid 9-to-5 demands.

To all the #Dadpreneurs, #Mompreneurs, and especially my fellow #DisabledEntrepreneurs and #ChronicWarriors:

You don't have to choose between providing for your family and taking care of your health. You can have both.

Some of us found a way. You can, too. ✨
Are you a parent who's tired of being "present but not present"? Drop a "ME TOO" in the comments, and let's chat about how to change that. 👇

A Note From Ben:

My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.

"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

🌿 Daily Question: The True Measure of Wealth

05/12/2025

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| Mentor Ben Drake

| 11:33 pm

🌿 Daily Question: The True Measure of Wealth

🚨 I am just curious... do you believe your health is your greatest asset and wealth? 🚨
Let’s be real for a moment. In our industry—whether you are in MLM, Direct Sales, or a generic Entrepreneur—we talk a lot about financial freedom. We chase the rank advancements, the bonuses, and the lifestyle. 💸
But as a disabled entrepreneur navigating life with chronic conditions, I view "wealth" through a very different lens today than I did years ago. ♿️💪
I look at the Dadpreneurs and Mumpreneurs grinding 18-hour days to build a legacy for their kids. I see Network Marketers burning the candle at both ends. And I have to ask...
If you build the empire but don't have the vitality to run in the backyard with your kids, or the energy to enjoy the travel you earned... are you truly wealthy? 🤔
For those of us managing disabilities or health challenges, we know that Health IS Wealth. Without it, the rest of the assets don't matter as much.
I am looking to connect with healthy individuals, parents, and fellow warriors who are ready to stop sacrificing their well-being for a paycheck and start building a life where health comes first.
👇 DROP A COMMENT BELOW:
* YES - If you believe health is the #1 asset.
* TRYING - If you know it is, but you struggle to prioritize it right now.
Let's start a conversation about real transformation. 🦋
📢 Ready to transform? If you are sick of being sick and tired, and you want to see how we are building businesses that honor our bodies rather than breaking them, Message me "HEALTH" or check the link in my bio. Let's thrive together. 🤝💙

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A Note From Ben:

My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.

"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

THE KEY TO YOUR EMPIRE 🗝️

05/12/2025

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| Mentor Ben Drake

| 7:00 pm

THE KEY TO YOUR EMPIRE 🗝️

The same wind blows on us all. The wind of economic change, the wind of struggle, the wind of chronic illness, or the chaos of raising a family. 🌬️
I see you—the Dadpreneur and Mumpreneur building a legacy in the cracks of time. The warrior building a business while fighting a health battle. 💪
It is tempting to wish the wind wouldn't blow so hard. But my mentor taught me the secret that changed my life:
"Don't wish it were easier, wish you were better."
Don't wish for less challenge; wish for more wisdom.
Don't wish for fewer problems; wish for more skills.
To give your family that extraordinary lifestyle, you must become more valuable to the marketplace. Success is not something you pursue; it is something you attract by the person you become. ✨
Set your sail.
👇 TELLL ME: What is ONE skill you are sharpening this week? Let me know in the comments!

A Note From Ben:

My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.

"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

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