The Real Question: How Much Time Are You Investing in YOU? (My Chronic Illness Perspective)
“I am just curious, how much time do you spend working on yourself to become that person that you want to be? Is it hours a week, is it hours per day, or is it hardly anything?” – Mentor Ben Drake
This question from my mentor always makes me pause and reflect deeply. As someone navigating life with a disability and chronic condition, committed to transforming my life, health, and business, “working on myself” isn’t a luxury – it’s a non-negotiable.
For entrepreneurs, network marketers, parents (mumpreneurs, dadpreneurs!), and healthy individuals, we all have a vision of our best self:
* The resilient leader.
* The patient, present parent.
* The thriving, healthy individual.
* The successful business owner.
Nut that person doesn’t just happen. It’s built, intentionally, one moment at a time. My journey often means:
* Adapting my self-care: Prioritizing rest, gentle movement, and mental health even when energy is low.
* Consistent learning: Audiobooks during rest, short courses when I can focus.
* Mindset work: Daily affirmations and gratitude to counter pain or fatigue.
* Strategic planning: Leveraging my limited energy for high-impact growth.
The amount of time might vary day-to-day due to my health, but the commitment to constant self-improvement is unwavering. It’s how I ensure I’m always moving towards becoming the best version of myself, not just for me, but for my family and my mission.
So, I’m genuinely curious: Where do you stand? How much time are YOU investing in becoming the person you truly want to be?
Be honest with yourself (and share if you’re comfortable!). Hours a day, hours a week, or hardly anything? Let’s discuss our commitment to self-growth below! 👇

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